Ladies Read this article!! "Sex is Cheap: Why young men have the upper hand in bed.."
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MsVShantrell wrote: »smh.. All I know is my daddy told me this: "You rather be a hoe or you rather be a fool?
I'd be a hoe any day over giving up free ? ."
Your daddy is the fool
That's some real ? .
No its not, thats some ? your daddy told you...real ? does not equal, ? you kinda almost understand..
I'm not advocating sleeping with men for money.
If this aint some rick james ? .
I'm advocating women not just giving it up because they just like him. No! Men should put in work which includes time and money (relative to their means). I don't care what anyone says; I'm going to continue to believe that whatever comes easy, gets tossed to the side easily too; what a man works for, he's more likely to cherish. I've talked to too many men (brothers, cousins, homeboys, etc) many of which are straight dogs (regular men lol) to believe otherwise.
You make the man "work" for it by being smart level headed, making sound decisions.. compromising, and to wrap this ? up not being a "hoe"(i really dont feel like typing paragraphs thats the abridged version)
So ladies, you can let theses dudes on here tell you that you shouldn't put a price on your ? and how your ? ain't made of gold etc and end up feeling dumb because you gave it up without getting nothing (materialistically speaking, as well as symbolic-- e.g. commitment or relationship) and he went off and wifed up the chick who he actually had to work for... I'm just saying..
Listen to this ? if you want.. value your "self" over the ? between your legs, foster relationships and , stay true to your convictions, give a lil , get a lil. Know the dude you are ? ., you can own your sexuality.. without.. "selling" it
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if youre not a hoe you have nothing to worry about...MsVShantrell wrote: »smh.. All I know is my daddy told me this: "You rather be a hoe or you rather be a fool? I'd be a hoe any day over giving up free ? ." That's some real ? . I'm not advocating sleeping with men for money. I'm advocating women not just giving it up because they just like him. No! Men should put in work which includes time and money (relative to their means). I don't care what anyone says; I'm going to continue to believe that whatever comes easy, gets tossed to the side easily too; what a man works for, he's more likely to cherish. I've talked to too many men (brothers, cousins, homeboys, etc) many of which are straight dogs (regular men lol) to believe otherwise.
So ladies, you can let theses dudes on here tell you that you shouldn't put a price on your ? and how your ? ain't made of gold etc and end up feeling dumb because you gave it up without getting nothing (materialistically speaking, as well as symbolic-- e.g. commitment or relationship) and he went off and wifed up the chick who he actually had to work for... I'm just saying..
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if you are a hoe and you accept it then play these dummys... i would never knock your hustle...
its a cold world out there and you dont have to be broke in 2011... word to the Allstar Weekend -
playmaker88 wrote: »Listen to this ? if you want.. value your "self" over the ? between your legs, foster relationships and , stay true to your convictions, give a lil , get a lil. Know the dude you are ? ., you can own your sexuality.. without.. "selling" it.
I definitely agree with "value yourself" but I also believe that valuing yourself includes valuing that thing between your legs. Know that you have a lot to contribute; know that you're a prize; know that he prolly wants ? even if he respects you for everything else and that he prolly wants ? even if he don't really care about whatever else is special with you. And with that knowledge understand that one of the key ways that a man feels like he has a woman is by getting sex; one of the key ways that a woman feels like a man has her is by giving up sex.
Don't get fooled; we've been fooled for way too long... hence the devaluing of sex, relationships, women, etc that we see today..
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If you value yourself you wont have to put a "price" on your ? ..
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MsVShantrell wrote: »This article isn't written by me (no shameless promotion today). This article is real tho. Showing the perils of giving up free ? ! I been saying this for years!! Women stop giving up free ? !! Make they ? work. Every female out there ? a ? on his terms (which is getting everything from you without putting out damn near nothing) is making it harder on the next female! We need to stop aiding and abetting yall!!!
Below are a few excepts.. http://www.slate.com/id/2286240/
"And yet despite the fact that women are holding the sexual purse strings, they aren't asking for much in return these days—the market "price" of sex is currently very low. "
"The National Longitudinal Study of Adolescent Health data offer other glimpses into just how low the cost of sex is for young men ages 18 through 23. Take the speed with which these men say their romantic relationships become sexual: 36 per...cent of young men's relationships add sex by the end of the second week of exclusivity; an additional 13 percent do so by the end of the first month. A second indicator of cheap sex is the share of young men's sexual relationships—30 percent—that don't involve romance at all: no wooing, no dates, no nothing. Finally, as my colleagues and I discovered in our interviews, striking numbers of young women are participating in unwanted sex—either particular acts they dislike or more frequent intercourse than they'd prefer or mimicking porn (being in a dating relationship is correlated to greater acceptance of and use of porn among women)."
"And yet while young men's failures in life are not penalizing them in the bedroom, their sexual success may, ironically, be hindering their drive to achieve in life. Don't forget your Freud: Civilization is built on blocked, redirected, and channeled sexual impulse, because men will work for sex. Today's young men, however, seldom have to."
Ah would you shut the ? up. Some of you high & mighty internet broads act like you don't like to have a nice stiff one in you. The ? you sit on is not worth more than the ? that's beatin it up.
now go to sleep before I start posting random porno broads -
i def agree. what about just loving someone for them and vice versa. people always talking about sex and all these rules, i rarely hear love, real love get mentioned.
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\MsVShantrell wrote: »
This article isn't written by me (no shameless promotion today). This article is real tho. Showing the perils of giving up free ? ! I been saying this for years!! Women stop giving up free ? !! Make they
? work. Every female out there ? a ? on his terms (which is getting everything from you without putting out damn near nothing) is making it harder on the next female! We need to stop aiding and
abetting yall!!!
Below are a few excepts.. http://www.slate.com/id/2286240/
"And yet despite the fact that women are holding the sexual purse strings, they aren't asking for much in return these days—the market "price" of sex is currently very low. "
"The National Longitudinal Study of Adolescent Health data offer other glimpses into just how low the cost of sex is for young men ages 18 through 23. Take the speed with which these men say their romantic
relationships become sexual: 36 per...cent of young men's relationships add sex by the end of the second week of exclusivity; an additional 13 percent do so by the end of the first month. A second indicator of
cheap sex is the share of young men's sexual relationships—30 percent—that don't involve romance at all: no wooing, no dates, no nothing. Finally, as my colleagues and I discovered in our interviews, striking
numbers of young women are participating in unwanted sex—either particular acts they dislike or more frequent intercourse than they'd prefer or mimicking porn (being in a dating relationship is correlated to
greater acceptance of and use of porn among women)."
"And yet while young men's failures in life are not penalizing them in the bedroom, their sexual success may, ironically, be hindering their drive to achieve in life. Don't forget your Freud: Civilization is built on
blocked, redirected, and channeled sexual impulse, because men will work for sex. Today's young men, however, seldom have to."
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Craig Robinson wrote: »
lmao! hahahahaha.. I've never heard anyone say something bad about my nose. I actually really like my nose
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MsVShantrell wrote: »lmao! hahahahaha.. I've never heard anyone say something bad about my nose. I actually really like my nose
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MsVShantrell wrote: »
lmao! hahahahaha.. I've never heard anyone say something bad about my nose. I actually really like my nose
You gotta ? Nose
You like yo ? Nose MVS? -
MICHAEL-V.I. wrote: »You gotta ? Nose
You like yo ? Nose MVS?
lmao.. it's actually quite the opposite.. One of the first things that make people ask me if I'm mixed is my nose.. go look at my pics.. -
You seriously lost credibility with this ? .
I usually listen to you on mute (get it?) but I assumed you were spittin' some intelligent ? then I'm like she tellin' ? ? 'in is the way to go ? -
shanique + latrell = ?
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Very very true. But women will not be emotionally able to utilize the game you blessed them with. However men all over are being taught game and being more receptive to it (we still have suckas out here too). Women aint never coming back into power over men. Women are brilliant,but their emotions will make them lose everytime. A woman will "win" (catch a high quality simp),one that treats her good and is well off. However she'll fukk it up over a ? that dont do ? but, say the right thing,mute the wrong things, keep himself fly and ? her real good. A ? will destroy her whole life over that. (? fukk up too) But most ? would never show loyalty to a jump off over their bottom ? . Women do the opposite, very very often.MsVShantrell wrote: »This article isn't written by me (no shameless promotion today). This article is real tho. Showing the perils of giving up free ? ! I been saying this for years!! Women stop giving up free ? !! Make they ? work. Every female out there ? a ? on his terms (which is getting everything from you without putting out damn near nothing) is making it harder on the next female! We need to stop aiding and abetting yall!!!
"And yet while young men's failures in life are not penalizing them in the bedroom, their sexual success may, ironically, be hindering their drive to achieve in life. Don't forget your Freud: Civilization is built on blocked, redirected, and channeled sexual impulse, because men will work for sex. Today's young men, however, seldom have to." -
playmaker88 wrote: »shanique + latrell = ?
LaShantrelliqua - La iqua = ? -
playmaker88 wrote: »shanique + latrell = ?
Chantale + Durrell = Shantrell lol (IDK why yall tryna give me these ghetto ass names.. my name is Victoria Shantrell Asbury; my mama had to give me a lil' flavor but had some damn sense too lol..)7FIG said, You seriously lost credibility with this ? .
I usually listen to you on mute (get it?) but I assumed you were spittin' some intelligent ? then I'm like she tellin' ? ? 'in is the way to go ?
Not telling females to be hoes; I'm telling them don't give up the ? to ? who ain't doing ? except sending text messages and smiling; telling them don't be dumb.. -
MsVShantrell wrote: »Chantale + Durrell = Shantrell lol (IDK why yall tryna give me these ghetto ass names.. my name is Victoria Shantrell Asbury; my mama had to give me a lil' flavor but had some damn sense too lol..)
Not telling females to be hoes; I'm telling them don't give up the ? to ? who ain't doing ? except sending text messages and smiling; telling them don't be dumb..
You could have said that in a more artful way.. instead of that bubble gum.. sister circle wendy wiliams garbage..if you have good intentions dont dumb down your speak.. if thats what your were doing.. (not try to give more credit than you deserve... but if thats what you were doing) -
MsVShantrell wrote: »Chantale + Durrell = Shantrell lol (IDK why yall tryna give me these ghetto ass names.. my name is Victoria Shantrell Asbury; my mama had to give me a lil' flavor but had some damn sense too lol..)
Not telling females to be hoes; I'm telling them don't give up the ? to ? who ain't doing ? except sending text messages and smiling; telling them don't be dumb..
When the word "Free" is used, it's 9 times out of 10 associated with money. You have to know that telling a girl that is going to be interpreted as getting money for it. -
When the word "Free" is used, it's 9 times out of 10 associated with money. You have to know that telling a girl that is going to be interpreted as getting money for it.
I am advocating getting material things (or having men spend money on it). I've said on many occasions, that "putting in work" involves spending time and money. If a man just chilling at her house, don't wanna take you out, and paying for nothing, etc, I don't consider that as putting in adequate work. If he just spending money on it and no time, then that's not putting in work either; that's just buying it.
When I say don't give it up for free, I mean don't give it to him without him putting in the work as defined above. -
playmaker88 wrote: »If you value yourself you wont have to put a "price" on your ? ..
say it again sir!!!!!!!!!! these females need to get right cause if they want a man to respect her she need to respect herself -
I actually like t/s's nose:)
but I think she giving out flawed advice
it's not wise to try to speak ? logic as a female cause that part of the game ain't for you
people need to stop commoditizing themselves in the 1st place, and understand what they offer as individuals -
blakfyahking wrote: »
...people need to stop commoditizing themselves in the 1st place, and understand what they offer as individuals
That's real; if u watch my video you'll see that I pretty much agree with that to a large extent
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i think this world would be peaceful if we all have an orgy lol
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MsVShantrell wrote: »(no shameless promotion today)MsVShantrell wrote: »That's real; if u watch my video you'll see that I pretty much agree with that to a large extent
SMH @ you not keeping your word in this thread miss:(
usually your threads have good topics, but then I click on them and feel like somebody is trying to sell me something
you should let your posts speaking for themselves.........no need to plug videos as well
*tips hat*
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_O4_ItQeUOg
