The Official "We don't have any kids" Thread...

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  • DarcSkies
    DarcSkies Members Posts: 13,791 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited February 2011
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    kat2180 wrote: »
    Wow..kids are death? smh

    Kids are hard as hell to deal with at times but there is nothing like seeing something you created grow into a little person. It teaches you things about yourself and gives you strength you never knew you were capable of...its an amazing roller coaster ride.
    ^ Typing while shivering from bad nerves with a cigarette between her fingers and rollers in her hair & blood shot eyes.
  • black caesar
    black caesar Members Posts: 12,036 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited February 2011
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    kat2180 wrote: »
    Wow..kids are death? smh

    Kids are hard as hell to deal with at times but there is nothing like seeing something you created grow into a little person. It teaches you things about yourself and gives you strength you never knew you were capable of...its an amazing roller coaster ride.

    So you got a tribe huh? SMH

    I'm glad I'm not married or have kids. I can't fathom living a life like that. I was just speaking to a woman I met last week, and she asked if I had kids. I said no and don't want any. She said she loves her son, but if she could do it all over, she wouldn't have had him. That's trill right there, because most women who have had kids has thought this, but never said for fear of backlash from society.
  • black caesar
    black caesar Members Posts: 12,036 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited February 2011
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    I'm good with never having kids...
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    We're going to get along just fine. LOL
  • dreadlock rasta
    dreadlock rasta Members Posts: 1,322 ✭✭
    edited February 2011
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    No kids shawty.....And yea, I love that look when ? be expectin you to have a bunch kids runnin round out here....then thats when da 'oh, you different' ? come in....like damn, am I supposed to have 'x' amount of kids by the time im this age?? What kinda ? you be ? wit ma?
  • kat2180
    kat2180 Members Posts: 12,056 ✭✭✭
    edited February 2011
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    Darxwell wrote: »
    ^ Typing while shivering from bad nerves with a cigarette between her fingers and rollers in her hair & blood shot eyes.

    LOL..Nah I'm on vacation aka at work.

    It's tough but its worth it. Aren't yall worried about growing old and having no offspring? Sounds lonely.
  • Maalik
    Maalik Members Posts: 3,629 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited February 2011
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    kat2180 wrote: »
    Wow..kids are death? smh

    Kids are hard as hell to deal with at times but there is nothing like seeing something you created grow into a little person. It teaches you things about yourself and gives you strength you never knew you were capable of...its an amazing roller coaster ride.

    You're a woman Kat....you're biologically predisposed to nurture & love a child. For a man, its the end of being Will & the introduction to being Uncle Phil...can't be out there running the streets, hanging with the crew, living reckless with kids at home.

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    You gotta slow down. That's death for us LOL...
  • thegreatunknown
    thegreatunknown Members Posts: 1,474 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited February 2011
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    No Kids. I wake up every morning without having to worry about getting kids ready for school. I go out without worrying about finding a babysitter. No baby mama drama. No child support or courtroom battles about custody. No diapers to change, no meals to cook, no parent teacher conferences. I'm so good right now....
  • haute
    haute Members Posts: 11,581 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited February 2011
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    So you got a tribe huh? SMH

    I'm glad I'm not married or have kids. I can't fathom living a life like that. I was just speaking to a woman I met last week, and she asked if I had kids. I said no and don't want any. She said she loves her son, but if she could do it all over, she wouldn't have had him. That's trill right there, because most women who have had kids has thought this, but never said for fear of backlash from society.

    What?!?

    I don't have or want children either but the ? you're talking is ? extreme

    Are there mothers who never desired motherhood? Yes.

    But there are many mothers who very much desire the kids and cherish the kids they have

    It all comes down to personal preference

    So don't speak in extremes and please don't even try to speak for women based 1 conversation you've had with 1 woman

    It makes you sound ridiculous
  • beezy f baby
    beezy f baby Members Posts: 4,909 ✭✭
    edited February 2011
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    Darxwell wrote: »
    ^ Typing while shivering from bad nerves with a cigarette between her fingers and rollers in her hair & blood shot eyes.

    Lmao sorry kat this visual is funny : wave
  • ccluvsau
    ccluvsau Members Posts: 1,852 ✭✭
    edited February 2011
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    Checking in!!!

    My ? has dust on it yo!!
  • dreadlock rasta
    dreadlock rasta Members Posts: 1,322 ✭✭
    edited February 2011
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    kat2180 wrote: »
    It's tough but its worth it. Aren't yall worried about growing old and having no offspring? Sounds lonely.

    Na, I plan on havin on havin my first one by the time im 25, and plan on havin 3 mo out here by 30....
  • kat2180
    kat2180 Members Posts: 12,056 ✭✭✭
    edited February 2011
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    So you got a tribe huh? SMH

    I'm glad I'm not married or have kids. I can't fathom living a life like that. I was just speaking to a woman I met last week, and she asked if I had kids. I said no and don't want any. She said she loves her son, but if she could do it all over, she wouldn't have had him. That's trill right there, because most women who have had kids has thought this, but never said for fear of backlash from society.

    I have a tribe of one. I <3 her and while I may have waited if given the chance again, I would never take it back. Nothing like hearing, "Mommy you're my BEST friend!"
  • HustleThaDon
    HustleThaDon Members Posts: 28,566 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited February 2011
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    ccluvsau wrote: »
    Checking in!!!

    My ? has dust on it yo!!

    Don't worry. Cam will need a baby Momma soon...
  •   Colin$mackabi$h
    Colin$mackabi$h Members Posts: 16,586 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited February 2011
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    <<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<he dont
  • ccluvsau
    ccluvsau Members Posts: 1,852 ✭✭
    edited February 2011
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    Don't worry. Cam will need a baby Momma soon...

    Ew no. I'll have sex with him but I aint having his kids.
    deadeye wrote: »
    What're you cooking today?

    Pops cereal?
  • Dupac
    Dupac Members, Writer Posts: 68,365 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited February 2011
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    deadeye wrote: »
    How many more months before CSC has the baby?

    august yo....
  • black caesar
    black caesar Members Posts: 12,036 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited February 2011
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    haute wrote:
    What?!?

    I don't have or want children either but the ? you're talking is ? extreme

    Are there mothers who never desired motherhood? Yes.

    But there are many mothers who very much desire the kids and cherish the kids they have

    It all comes down to personal preference

    So don't speak in extremes and please don't even try to speak for women based 1 conversation you've had with 1 woman

    It makes you sound ridiculous

    Kudos to you for not having kids.

    I was just telling what happened last week, however she''s NOT the 1st woman I met that said this to me. As I previously stated, most women think this way, (the ones that didn't plan.) but won't say it.

    So from my personal experience with the women that said this, I'm going to have to be like Herman Edwards and "put my name on it".

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    I stand by what I said, but I like that you came at me with sense, so you're good in my book.
  • black caesar
    black caesar Members Posts: 12,036 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited February 2011
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    kat2180 wrote: »
    I have a tribe of one. I <3 her and while I may have waited if given the chance again, I would never take it back. Nothing like hearing, "Mommy you're my BEST friend!"

    Just one. You plan on having more, or is that going to be it? Also props for being honest about saying you would had waited.
  • MICHAEL-V.I.
    MICHAEL-V.I. Members Posts: 1,898 ✭✭
    edited February 2011
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    ccluvsau wrote: »

    Checking in!!!

    My ? has dust on it yo!!


    Lies

    Tom & Jerry... DON'T YOU BELIEVE IT...
  • kat2180
    kat2180 Members Posts: 12,056 ✭✭✭
    edited February 2011
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    Lmao sorry kat this visual is funny : wave
    lol..there are times it ain't far from the truth!
  • HustleThaDon
    HustleThaDon Members Posts: 28,566 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited February 2011
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    ccluvsau wrote: »
    Ew no. I'll have sex with him but I aint having his kids.



    Pops cereal?

    Damn he put in work for Auburn!! You ain't no good cc.
  • MICHAEL-V.I.
    MICHAEL-V.I. Members Posts: 1,898 ✭✭
    edited February 2011
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    No kids, not married. My life is easy like Sunday morning.

    So ummmm.. Diabla

    when is yo Baby Due B?
  • ccluvsau
    ccluvsau Members Posts: 1,852 ✭✭
    edited February 2011
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    deadeye wrote: »
    What happened?

    I remember a while back you were looking at videos and trying to learn how to cook.

    You just gave up or something?

    I got a roommate who loves to cook. Win-Win.

    Damn he put in work for Auburn!! You ain't no good cc.

    *shrugs*
    Lies

    Tom & Jerry... DON'T YOU BELIEVE IT...

    no sir. no chulluns.
  • American.Loo
    American.Loo Members Posts: 4,082 ✭✭✭
    edited February 2011
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    dusouljah wrote: »
    lol, i enjoyed my time single, and i enjoyed my life without kids....

    with that said,

    i'm ready for the transition into being married with children....

    i gotta GOAT partner, and i'm interested to see how i'm going to grow as a person....
    it's a good feeling to know that there's a definite purpose in my life now...

    Reality is about so slap this ? hard.
  • Dupac
    Dupac Members, Writer Posts: 68,365 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited February 2011
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    Reality is about so slap this ? hard.

    i'm pretty realistic about it all...