UNhappy Husbands, are they just weak and/or pushovers?
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think about, I have been with my wife for roughly 11 years and am happy with my marriage, its other ? in my life that causes me grief
with that said as a male, I know men go thru some rough life experiences, so why do men act as if marriage is the worse thing to do
with that said as a male, I know men go thru some rough life experiences, so why do men act as if marriage is the worse thing to do
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think about, I have been with my wife for roughly 11 years and am happy with my marriage, its other ? in my life that causes me grief
with that said as a male, I know men go thru some rough life experiences, so why do men act as if marriage is the worse thing to do
simple: choosing the wrong mate and all the drama that goes with it can ruin your life....mentally, physically, and financially... -
Louis Cipher wrote: »simple: chasing the wrong mate and all the drama that goes with it can ruin your life....mentally, physically, and financially...
***fixed*** -
there problem is clearly your dress code. Lame-O!!!
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some seem to be pushovers, but ive observed men that are married to women who are so difficult to deal with, the men eventually just find it easier to say as little as possible and let her have her way.
why do they stay? it could be any reason: religion, financial, the kids.
walk thru the mall and peep the couple in their 40s where the man is walking with no motivation two feet behind his wife. look in his dead eyes. -
chicitylepio wrote: »i would never get married againtakes to long to get out of it
have you told us your story?
if not, now would be a good time. -
chicitylepio wrote: »i would never get married again
takes to long to get out of it
come on dog you got a female in your avi sucking a ?
what type of broad, you think you subconcious mind is going to shape your life into, for you to meet -
American.Loo wrote: »some seem to be pushovers, but ive observed men that are married to women who are so difficult to deal with, the men eventually just find it easier to say as little as possible and let her have her way.
why do they stay? it could be any reason: religion, financial, the kids.
walk thru the mall and peep the couple in their 40s where the man is walking with no motivation two feet behind his wife. look in his dead eyes.
truly that is impossible, any broad can be dealt with once you know her and also when a man is capable of standing his ground -
American.Loo wrote: »some seem to be pushovers, but ive observed men that are married to women who are so difficult to deal with, the men eventually just find it easier to say as little as possible and let her have her way.
why do they stay? it could be any reason: religion, financial, the kids.
walk thru the mall and peep the couple in their 40s where the man is walking with no motivation two feet behind his wife. look in his dead eyes.
In other words.....domesticated.....my wife gonna hate me.
Id rather have high blood pressure & an early death than to let her have her way about everything -
truly that is impossible, any broad can be dealt with once you know her and also when a man is capable of standing his ground
usually youre on some ? ...but this is spot on...
everyone cant be dealt with...once you learn their idiosyncracies -
I think men are simple creatures: We want to be happy, fed and ? .
coming home to alot of headache day in and out is a soul killer man. -
In other words.....domesticated.....my wife gonna hate me.
Id rather have high blood pressure & an early death than to let her have her way about everything
its not about letting her have her way...you learn how to deal with her and manuever her into things -
American.Loo wrote: »I think men are simple creatures: We want to be happy, fed and ? .
coming home to alot of headache day in and out is a soul killer man.
yessir....truth here -
lotta men don't know how to communicate their emotions....
? most of them don't even know how to acknowledge their emotions...
hence the reason for thier unhappiness -
Es-Bee: and i agree bruh. anyone can be dealt with.
But personally, i dont want to live with someone that i feel needs to be dealt with.
Once I have to work a certain way to handle you, the relationship becomes a job.
And i already have a job. -
chicitylepio wrote: »nothing to tell be there, bone that
hopefully one that can suck her ? .
? sucking didn't ruin my marriage
naw but your actions shaped the conditions that caused your divorce -
American.Loo wrote: »Es-Bee: and i agree bruh. anyone can be dealt with.
But personally, i dont want to live with someone that i feel needs to be dealt with.
Once I have to work a certain way to handle you, the relationship becomes a job.
And i already have a job.
but Loo you have a job, seem to be somewhat confident, I'm not seeing how you would feel you would meet someone that you speak of, I mean its a billion ? in the world, truly not all are nagging ? are they? -
lotta men don't know how to communicate their emotions....
? most of them don't even know how to acknowledge their emotions...
hence the reason for thier unhappiness
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man u ? make relationships sound so depressing ....
what happened to ? who got there way no matter what and could give two ? about how anyone felt ....
them were the ? I always saw winning growing up ... hence me not giving a ? about what another has to say as long as my way is the way ....
when ? start approaching these women as lead ? in the begining they wont have to worry about being sad and depressed in the end ..... -
? stay beating around the bush, trying to figure out the right way to say ? , instead of just saying it..
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man u ? make relationships sound so depressing ....
what happened to ? who got there way no matter what and could give two ? about how anyone felt ....
them were the ? I always saw winning growing up ... hence me not giving a ? about what another has to say as long as my way is the way ....
when ? start approaching these women as lead ? in the begining they wont have to worry about being sad and depressed in the end .....
truth.muthafuckincom -
I would say pushover. But that is even still a hard idea to stick with. My wife is hard as hell to deal with but I have started to take cues from My mother in law. We are unlike in some crazy ways. We both hate when my wife goes into her "I told you so" rants. We both are procrastinators. The differences are my mother in law goes ? for tat with my wife. I dont do that. But my mother in law also make sure she knows when wifey is over stepping her boundary. I have taken note and made sure wifey is told when she has step over into my boundaries. But you do that when you love that person. You take a little more ? but you are let them know. Dont press my buttons.
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lotta men don't know how to communicate their emotions....
? most of them don't even know how to acknowledge their emotions...
hence the reason for thier unhappiness
i can agree with this...im getting better at this...im actually putting forth effort to communicate better with my ladyAmerican.Loo wrote: »Es-Bee: and i agree bruh. anyone can be dealt with.
But personally, i dont want to live with someone that i feel needs to be dealt with.
Once I have to work a certain way to handle you, the relationship becomes a job.
And i already have a job.
you looking at it wrong fam...EVERYBODY has to be dealt with in some manner...you have to deal with people at work, you have to learn how to deal with the cashier at walmart, your doctor, your kids....
why wouldnt you have to deal with someone you are sharing your life with? -
man u ? make relationships sound so depressing ....
what happened to ? who got there way no matter what and could give two ? about how anyone felt ....
them were the ? I always saw winning growing up ... hence me not giving a ? about what another has to say as long as my way is the way ....
when ? start approaching these women as lead ? in the begining they wont have to worry about being sad and depressed in the end .....
you on some cromagnon man ? right here...but i get what you saying...you have to be a MAN first and foremost...do that and she will get in line or she wont be with you in she cant handle it...
but do realize that this isnt the 60s anymore bruh...broads have $$$ and options now...all that strong-arm ? not gonna work these days -
American.Loo wrote: »Es-Bee: and i agree bruh. anyone can be dealt with.
But personally, i dont want to live with someone that i feel needs to be dealt with.
Once I have to work a certain way to handle you, the relationship becomes a job.
And i already have a job.
Marriage is a job! You know this man!
i still remember my premarriage counselor told us that you work hard in a marriage now ao when you get old, you dont have too. -
man u ? make relationships sound so depressing ....
what happened to ? who got there way no matter what and could give two ? about how anyone felt ....
them were the ? I always saw winning growing up ... hence me not giving a ? about what another has to say as long as my way is the way ....
when ? start approaching these women as lead ? in the begining they wont have to worry about being sad and depressed in the end .....
aint that the truth, grow a pair before you throw em everywhere, ? try and Boss up on a chick after she done punked em for 3 years and he done had enough
man she still knows your a punk
I had a ? tell me she can't find a good ? , and I knew she could cuz I personally hooked her up with a respectful working educated type cat
well needless to say , she was like naw he soft, I need a ? to tell me something and I hear it in his voice that he means business, she was like "I never felt scared when I was living at home cuz my dad had a "bout serious business" style to him"
she said she felt alot of ? nowadays lack that
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