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DaChef
DaChef Members Posts: 261 ✭✭
edited March 2011 in For The Grown & Sexy
So my homie was in the club, and he told me a chick he likes just started macking on him unexpectedly after they had been grinding. But he didnt do anything afterward. Im thinkin: Shouldnt he have pulled her aside, asked her if she was feelin him/wanted to leave with him?
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  • MICHAEL-V.I.
    MICHAEL-V.I. Members Posts: 1,898 ✭✭
    edited March 2011
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    DaChef wrote: »

    So my homie was in the club, and he told me a chick he likes just started macking on him unexpectedly after they had been grinding. But he didnt do anything afterward. Im thinkin:

    Shouldnt he have pulled her aside, asked her if she was feelin him/wanted to leave with him?

    Maybe he wasn't feeling her like that?
  • Hatter
    Hatter Members Posts: 2,451 ✭✭
    edited March 2011
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    to some ? that ? is a turn off.
  • DEE-LICIOUS
    DEE-LICIOUS Members Posts: 6,088 ✭✭✭
    edited March 2011
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    lol @ "mackin"
  • J-GUTTA
    J-GUTTA Members Posts: 9,107 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited March 2011
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    DaChef wrote: »
    So my homie was in the club, and he told me a chick he likes just started macking on him unexpectedly after they had been grinding. But he didnt do anything afterward. Im thinkin: Shouldnt he have pulled her aside, asked her if she was feelin him/wanted to leave with him?

    I would have asked him was that half the story B? Because that should have ended 1 of 2 ways if he was a little taken back at her approach and not sure what to do they should have wound up at the 24 hr dinner over some 4 A.M breakfast trying see where her head was at. Or 2 back at her crib at least getting dry ? on at the very least.
  • deaththreats
    deaththreats Members Posts: 1,602 ✭✭
    edited March 2011
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    It just depends on how strong she comes on, sometimes too strong can run me off in the other direction
  • zoepian
    zoepian Members Posts: 991
    edited March 2011
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    DaChef wrote: »
    So my homie was in the club, and he told me a chick he likes just started macking on him unexpectedly after they had been grinding. But he didnt do anything afterward. Im thinkin: Shouldnt he have pulled her aside, asked her if she was feelin him/wanted to leave with him?

    .. he dont gotta ask if she feelin him.. she made it pretty obvious
  • soul rattler
    soul rattler Members Posts: 18,852 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited March 2011
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    SMH @ being intimidated by a woman with initiative and aggression. Grow up.
  • playmaker88
    playmaker88 Members Posts: 67,905 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited March 2011
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    Not every ? has the same "playbook", thought process
  • Will Munny
    Will Munny Members Posts: 30,199 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited March 2011
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    This is gonna sound really bad, but whenever a girl comes up to me like that, I automatically assume she's ? off her ass.




    Then I look around for her friends and see if I can seperate her from the herd. Just like a wolf does to a buffalo. Divide and conquer. All that ? .
  • Plop Star
    Plop Star Members Posts: 8,833 ✭✭✭
    edited March 2011
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    some ? dont like that ? ................i dont like it to a certain extent
  • soul rattler
    soul rattler Members Posts: 18,852 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Will Munny wrote: »
    This is gonna sound really bad, but whenever a girl comes up to me like that, I automatically assume she's ? off her ass.




    Then I look around for her friends and see if I can seperate her from the herd. Just like a wolf does to a buffalo. Divide and conquer. All that ? .

    This doesn't even make sense. If she approaches you, she's seperated herself already. This ain't rocket science.
  • truth spitter
    truth spitter Members Posts: 3,845 ✭✭✭
    edited March 2011
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    Sounds like he wasnt used to being "chose"....
  • mr. mista xxlusive
    mr. mista xxlusive Members Posts: 1,458 ✭✭
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    sorry t/s but I think ya homeboy gotta ?
  • playmaker88
    playmaker88 Members Posts: 67,905 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    sboogie wrote: »
    so you have to push up on every chic that shows you some love?
    lol...

    exactly.. ? ... just worry about what you doin and not how ya boy operates

    I know guys like to feel they have a ? in the sac of all their boys but.. come off that ? .. ? swear they telepathically have the same ? ..
  • mr. mista xxlusive
    mr. mista xxlusive Members Posts: 1,458 ✭✭
    edited March 2011
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    sboogie wrote: »
    so you have to push up on every chic that shows you some love?
    lol...


    exactly.. ? ... just worry about what you doin and not how ya boy operates

    I know guys like to feel they have a ? in the sac of all their boys but.. come off that ? .. ? swear they telepathically have the same ? ..

    but this is a chick he liked from the jump tho and that was his opportunity to get somethin poppin but he aint do nothin. I know some dudes like to play hard to get on females and tease chicks to see how bad she wants a ? but that fire will burn out quick tho. Seen that ? happen plenty of times.....? think they could hold these chicks interest forever then get mad when she get ADD on yo azz when you finally give in to her...
  • Stew
    Stew Members, Moderators, Writer Posts: 52,234 Regulator
    edited March 2011
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    1. He didnt really like her like that

    or

    2. Hes ?
  • goat334
    goat334 Members Posts: 3,604 ✭✭
    edited March 2011
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    That ? is allergic to ? . What's the point in grinding with her all night.
  • playmaker88
    playmaker88 Members Posts: 67,905 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited March 2011
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    but this is a chick he liked from the jump tho and that was his opportunity to get somethin poppin but he aint do nothin. I know some dudes like to play hard to get on females and tease chicks to see how bad she wants a ? but that fire will burn out quick tho. Seen that ? happen plenty of times.....? think they could hold these chicks interest forever then get mad when she get ADD on yo azz when you finally give in to her...


    Im sayin.. you know therese credence to what i said..

    but i mean if he misses out.. then that him.. maybe he has is reasons.. maybe hes shook.. but thats on him. idk im just not to type to cheerlead or "wish ? on a ? " ..Gotta let ya homie walk the walk..
  • smokelahoma
    smokelahoma Members Posts: 6,961 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited March 2011
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    ? that, I love it when I get approached. wish more women thought like that instead of being scared. thats all it is too, dont let them fool you with that "traditional" ? . they dont care about none of that, they just dont want they self esteem (or what little they have) destroyed.
  • King Erauno
    King Erauno Members Posts: 6,754 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited March 2011
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    was she ugly or something? if so i understand..


    if not, your friend is a ? .
  • politicalthug202
    politicalthug202 Members Posts: 3,098 ✭✭✭✭
    edited March 2011
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    I dont like girls who are too agressive,when a chick is macking on me
    all i can think about is all the other ? she ? and the potential std risk.

    this white girl asked me if i was trying to ? 1hr after we met
    and i back off real fast like nah im good.
  • smokelahoma
    smokelahoma Members Posts: 6,961 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited March 2011
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    I dont like girls who are too agressive,when a chick is macking on me
    all i can think about is all the other ? she ? and the potential std risk.

    this white girl asked me if i was trying to ? 1hr after we met
    and i back off real fast like nah im good.

    whooooaa, yeah thats too agressive.
  • The Prodigalson
    The Prodigalson Members, Writer Posts: 8,715 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited March 2011
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    Why ? are intimidated by women who approach them? ? does affect your man hood any if it foes you have bigger issues.
  • Mr. Terrific
    Mr. Terrific Members Posts: 483
    edited March 2011
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    I dont like girls who are too agressive,when a chick is macking on me
    all i can think about is all the other ? she ? and the potential std risk.

    this white girl asked me if i was trying to ? 1hr after we met
    and i back off real fast like nah im good.

    yuuup! IDK but I'm at the age where I need a little connection before smashing. I need to know that she isn't sick or crazy. It is a great ego booster though.
  • ptnutz
    ptnutz Members Posts: 1,717 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited March 2011
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    I don't have a problem with women being a little aggressive. There have been studies done. While we think we are making the first move, we are actually responding to the signals that women send first. They send the signals, but we make the "first move" as in actually going from A to B.