Is it me or are women cheap as ? when it comes to paying for ? ?
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18............
Meh
You're young
Hopefully you'll have a desire to create your own identity
Which will drive you to fund your own lifestyle
You don't wanna be Lisa Rayeing, trying to use a princess complex to pay for ? when you're 40 and ?
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I don't do that never have. My hubby and I alternate paying and we also both payed while we were dating. I feel like whoever initiated the outing should offer to pay . If I asked him to go somewhere I offered to pay he didn't usually take me up on it but I think it made a difference that I offered.
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Where the ? all these new women posters come from
That's wassup
Hi ladies
Don't forget to post in the powder room
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It's not that females are cheap. Its that men are idiots.
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Meh
You're young
Hopefully you'll have a desire to create your own identity
Which will drive you to fund your own lifestyle
You don't wanna be Lisa Rayeing, trying to use a princess complex to pay for ? when you're 40 and ?
It's a pathetic look
I said this earlier.....
I take care of myself.....but I still ask my dad and brothers for money sometimes, I don't see how that means I don't have my own identity.& my non-independence doesn't mean I only depend on my family members and my bf...I still take care of myself...I just ask for help sometimes. -
not really new been lurking since 03 lol didn't come back after the 1st upgrade the one where we thought the ic was never gonna come back up and kept leaving messages on myspace lmaoWhere the ? all these new women posters come from
That's wassup
Hi ladies
Don't forget to post in the powder room -
like I said before Dainty........don't let the legions on here brainwash you
you'll be just fine -
I said this earlier.....
I take care of myself.....but I still ask my dad and brothers for money sometimes, I don't see how that means I don't have my own identity.
Your earlier comment clearly made you sound like you rely on everyone but yourself and don't even aspire to be self sufficient at any point in your life. Your previous post and what you just said are not even the same. -
Where the ? all these new women posters come from
That's wassup
Hi ladies
Don't forget to post in the powder room
not really new, just got tired of being called a man by these ? so i left
been on the IC on && off for 6+ yrs now -
sweet, we need more ladiesdominique19 wrote: »not really new been lurking since 03 lol didn't come back after the 1st upgrade the one where we thought the ic was never gonna come back up and kept leaving messages on myspace lmao
welcome back
bwahahablakfyahking wrote: »like I said before Dainty........don't let the legions on here brainwash you
you'll be just fine
this dude will use spit as ?
and he agrees with you
which means your ?
possibly figuratively and literally
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Conscious__Nkechi wrote: »Your earlier comment clearly made you sound like you rely on everyone but yourself and don't even aspire to be self sufficient at any point in your life. Your previous post and what you just said are not even the same.
oh ok.......well that's not what I meant. my first post was not meant to be taken seriously..I don't think men should pay for everything and I do believe in equality. I take care of myself.......but Im not above asking for help. -
oh ok.......well that's not what I meant. my first post was not meant to be taken seriously..I don't think men should pay for everything and I do believe in equality. I take care of myself.......but Im not above asking for help.
* Phew* Well you can never be too sure. -
And dainty there's no need to get defensive about leaning your family, many people have done so
But you just have to be real about your situation, still leaning on mommy and daddy doesn't make you independent or your own person
Mainly because you can't do ? without having to explain yourself to someone else
My dad carried me financially during my entire undergrad
But he also made sure I understood, that me being taken care of is something that I can expect from him under certain circumstances
I could never equate all the things my daddy did as father into what I can expect from a man as a companion
Because the goal is to find a partner, not another daddy -
And dainty there's no need to get defensive about leaning your family, many people have done so
But you just have to be real about your situation, still leaning on mommy and daddy doesn't make you independent or your own person
Mainly because you can't do ? without having to explain yourself to someone else
My dad carried me financially during my entire undergrad
But he also made sure I understood, that me being taken care of is something that I can expect from him under certain circumstances
I could never equate all the things my daddy did as father into what I can expect from a man as a companion
Because the goal is to find a partner, not another daddy
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future gold diggers of america
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sweet, we need more ladies
welcome back
bwahaha
this dude will use spit as ?
and he agrees with you
which means your ?
possibly figuratively and literally
LMAO...............haute is too shy to do it like how we do in the jungle:) -
And dainty there's no need to get defensive about leaning your family, many people have done so
But you just have to be real about your situation, still leaning on mommy and daddy doesn't make you independent or your own person
Mainly because you can't do ? without having to explain yourself to someone else
My dad carried me financially during my entire undergrad
But he also made sure I understood, that me being taken care of is something that I can expect from him under certain circumstances
I could never equate all the things my daddy did as father into what I can expect from a man as a companion
Because the goal is to find a partner, not another daddy
I have no problem asking my parents for anything and I never said I was independent because I still depend on my parents sometimes. but for the most part I take care of myself. I have never and will never look for someone to take care of me.... -
Had fun reading through all this ?
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The Prodigalson wrote: »Me and my lady split ? straight down the middle. Bills and groceries. That way we both have money to play with a not having to worry about one being a financial burden to the other. I pay Sometimes when we go out and she pays sometimes when we go out. ? is that simple.
I salute you, good sir.
School these young, knotty-headed negroes.
