Ladies would you date a man who once paid for sex.

politicalthug202
politicalthug202 Members Posts: 3,098 ✭✭✭✭
edited April 2011 in The Powder Room
My homegirl just found out her man paid some stripper for
sex two years ago BEFORE THEY WAS TOGETHER,at a bachelor party in vegas

some ? snitched on him,ladies would this be grounds for termination
if you was in a relationship with a guy,and he was std free lol

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  • blakfyahking
    blakfyahking Members Posts: 15,785 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited April 2011
    LOL......good question
  • akomax
    akomax Members Posts: 483 ✭✭✭
    edited April 2011
    if u can't it means you will end up single, cuz almost everyone did it even if its in disguise
  • DEE-LICIOUS
    DEE-LICIOUS Members Posts: 6,088 ✭✭✭
    edited April 2011
    I'm sure I've probably dated men who've paid for sex. If he doesn't tell you - how will you know? Now...if he told me though idk how I would react. I pretty much judge everyone even when I shouldn't so...I'm sure I'd be disgusted and unless I was super duper in love with him at the time he told me...I wouldn't be able to get it out of my head which will ruin the relationship eventually.
  • Blue Virgo
    Blue Virgo Members Posts: 7,092 ✭✭✭
    edited April 2011
    Only if he pays me too.
  • kat2180
    kat2180 Members Posts: 12,056 ✭✭✭
    edited April 2011
    lol @ blue.

    Anyway..my dude paid for sex while he was overseas cause all the guys were trying to experience the red light district in Germany. He said it was lame but he's the emotional lovey dovey type so I'm not surprised.

    Most guys pay for sex in some form anyway.
  • haute
    haute Members Posts: 11,581 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited April 2011
    While I'm sure I've dated a man who has done this

    if I found out or even worse he confessed that to me

    I would always look at him as a lame

    there are just somethings I don't want to know


  • kat2180
    kat2180 Members Posts: 12,056 ✭✭✭
    edited April 2011
    Young-Ice wrote: »
    does paying for dates count as paying for sex?
    if you're paying for dates just cause you want to smash then yes.
  • CMac
    CMac Members Posts: 5,748 ✭✭✭
    edited April 2011
    ALL men pay for sex either indirectly or directly, it's makes no difference unless he's doing with while he's currently in a relationship. Then it's just plain cheating.
  • ItzGravitation
    ItzGravitation Members Posts: 7,205
    edited April 2011
    CMac wrote: »
    ALL men pay for sex either indirectly or directly, it's makes no difference unless he's doing with while he's currently in a relationship. Then it's just plain cheating.

    na dude.
    Speak for yourself cuz i never paid for it in any form
  • politicalthug202
    politicalthug202 Members Posts: 3,098 ✭✭✭✭
    edited April 2011
    na dude.
    Speak for yourself cuz i never paid for it in any form

    you either pay it for it directly
    indirectly(dates,dinner,drinks rent,bills,going places or doing things you would not
    not normally do like going to a chick flick)

    or you payback through a third party buy(buying nice clothes,cars etc to impress chicks,paying upscale club fees
    cuz that club go the baddest ? )

    you never did any of that dawg
  • CMac
    CMac Members Posts: 5,748 ✭✭✭
    edited April 2011
    sboogie wrote: »
    lol...........
    you're in denial or broke as ? ...

    LOL exactly real ? already know
  • ItzGravitation
    ItzGravitation Members Posts: 7,205
    edited April 2011
    you either pay it for it directly
    indirectly(dates,dinner,drinks rent,bills,going places or doing things you would not
    not normally do like going to a chick flick)

    or you payback through a third party buy(buying nice clothes,cars etc to impress chicks,paying upscale club fees
    cuz that club go the baddest ? )

    you never did any of that dawg

    i dont paay for "upscale" clubs to see "bad" ? cuz i got one already.
    I pay for dates but its for the mother of my child. She's not like the others.
    but if you consider that paying for "it" even tho i hit before i started taking her places.
  • ItzGravitation
    ItzGravitation Members Posts: 7,205
    edited April 2011
    CMac wrote: »
    LOL exactly real ? already know

    desperate ? already know is what you meant to say
  • Bussy_Getta
    Bussy_Getta Members Posts: 37,679 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited April 2011
    naa

    but I may ask him for money next time we have sex :-/
  • Bussy_Getta
    Bussy_Getta Members Posts: 37,679 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited April 2011
    Young-Ice wrote: »
    do it every day and u'll have enough to buy him that ring in no time

    *bought n paid for post*

    even tho I thought about takin it back smh
  • Bussy_Getta
    Bussy_Getta Members Posts: 37,679 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited April 2011
    Young-Ice wrote: »
    u should to guyana for your honeymoon

    -_- nonononononononononono
  • ItzGravitation
    ItzGravitation Members Posts: 7,205
    edited April 2011
    sboogie wrote: »
    so as soon as you met the ? she was pregnant ?
    ? ...

    i hate dumb fycjs like you.
    where did i say she was pregnant when i met her?
  • blakfyahking
    blakfyahking Members Posts: 15,785 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited April 2011
    dudes ? me acting like the rules of the game don't apply to them LOL

    ? you paid in some shape, form, or fashion

    cut the BS son



    and LOL @ blue
  • ItzGravitation
    ItzGravitation Members Posts: 7,205
    edited April 2011
    if i paid anything its time.
    Cuz after i ? i started takin her places,
    I go at chicks in my own way tho
    They tell me how different i am so rules might now apply to me
  • blakfyahking
    blakfyahking Members Posts: 15,785 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited April 2011
    if i paid anything its time.
    Cuz after i ? i started takin her places,
    I go at chicks in my own way tho
    They tell me how different i am so rules might now apply to me

    SMH @ them not knowing exactly just how different


    but to be honest, only a low brow chick wouldn't expect you to pay on some type of level.............a broad letting me smash for free off top is not somebody I can take serious :shrugs

    not advocating purchasing ? , but she got to have some kind of standard that requires some type of work on my part

    SMH @ these new age chicks tossing the ? up over a chick-fila meal and some text messages as convo :(
  • Super Lex
    Super Lex Members Posts: 460
    edited April 2011
    haute wrote: »

    if I found out or even worse he confessed that to me

    I would always look at him as a lame

    there are just somethings I don't want to know

    This.

    I wouldn't leave. I would just see a lame.
  • gns
    gns Members Posts: 21,285 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited April 2011
    kat2180 wrote: »
    if you're paying for dates just cause you want to smash then yes.

    i laughed at this
  • earth two superman
    earth two superman Members Posts: 17,149 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited April 2011
    i paid men for sex hollaaaaaaaa

    oh ? mister cee posts on the IC?
  • truth spitter
    truth spitter Members Posts: 3,845 ✭✭✭
    edited April 2011
    So according to some of yall dudes since every man pays for it (including pimps since they take care of their hoes lol), every woman is a hoe? Ladies. do u thk u are a hoe when u go out on a date with a man?