5 ways a dude can instantly get chopped.
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This was a tag done a while ago by gurus on youtube.Girls were basically listing 5 instant turn-offs when
it comes to dudes who approach them/being with them.There is no particular order this needs to be in.
I put mines in random order because they are all equally important. :)I'll start.
1.Disrespectful guys (dudes who carry conversations with "b*tch this,? that,number 1 turn off).
2.Guys who can't dress- "aka no swag."(Although people abuse the word "swag,"a dude who wants
to be with me has to have it because I'm obsessed with fashion.Please no excessively baggy clothing,etc.
Having a nice sense of style or being "clean cut," can make a dude go from a 5 to a 7).
3.Guys who can't hold a conversation.(This is the absolute WORST; boring guys who are just boring).
4.Cracked lips; Bad breath (There is too much petroleum jelly & gum in the world for dudes to have
cracked lips or bad breath,or ? forbid both at the same time).
5.Dudes with no future (Do I even need to explain?I need someone with drive/ambition).
*I forgot to add short dudes.Not to sound shallow, but I REALLY don't want someone shorter than me.I'm
tall (5`8). & I love heels so it would be nice for him to be tall.
it comes to dudes who approach them/being with them.There is no particular order this needs to be in.
I put mines in random order because they are all equally important. :)I'll start.
1.Disrespectful guys (dudes who carry conversations with "b*tch this,? that,number 1 turn off).
2.Guys who can't dress- "aka no swag."(Although people abuse the word "swag,"a dude who wants
to be with me has to have it because I'm obsessed with fashion.Please no excessively baggy clothing,etc.
Having a nice sense of style or being "clean cut," can make a dude go from a 5 to a 7).
3.Guys who can't hold a conversation.(This is the absolute WORST; boring guys who are just boring).
4.Cracked lips; Bad breath (There is too much petroleum jelly & gum in the world for dudes to have
cracked lips or bad breath,or ? forbid both at the same time).
5.Dudes with no future (Do I even need to explain?I need someone with drive/ambition).
*I forgot to add short dudes.Not to sound shallow, but I REALLY don't want someone shorter than me.I'm
tall (5`8). & I love heels so it would be nice for him to be tall.
Comments
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Lol, of course you would point something like that out.Hmmm...idk,I thought
they fell hand in hand.But if you consider them 2 different things,I choose the
one when he can't hold a convo.I hate that. -
5'8 isn't tall at all.
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Consider the source : Youtube self proclaimed "gurus".
Figures. -
5'8 isn't tall at all.
Lol, ugh it is compared to these little boys who approach
me @ times. -
Consider the source : Youtube self proclaimed "gurus".
Figures.
By guru I meant makeup gurus, fashion gurus, hair gurus, etc.These are
women who do tutorials.I didn't mean much emphasis on the word guru. -
ether-i-am wrote: »What do you have to give to this wonderful man that passes your check off list ma?
Lol..ugh it's actually a pretty basic checklist.To be respectful,to not dress like
a ? ,know how to keep a convo going,have good hygiene,have a future,&
be somewhat tallish...I'm not asking for any spectacular sh*t.So I wouldn't really
consider him to be "wonderful."But I would have me to give in exchange.
A-DUH! -
I want to see some list from the other girls!
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ether-i-am wrote: »What do you have to give to this wonderful man that passes your check off list ma?
she got nothing but ? to bring to the table
take number 5 for example
a future? what future does this lady have for herself? get a man and leech off him forever? YUP. -
@My_nameaintearl wrote: »she got nothing but ? to bring to the table
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Well, when it comes to initial attraction then yeah, I can understand their list but in general lists are dumb. It's better to just go with personality, interests and natural attraction.
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1.rude guys - seriously if a ? asks you for change just say no yeen gotta show out
2.gangmember/hood ? - ignorance at its finest
3.kids (plural, 1 may be ok)- more then 1 kid is a hells no, im iffy on 1 kid to begin with
4.bad breath/teeth (braces are ok it means your trying)- cant, wouldnt wanna kiss you
5.loud mouths- cant stand loud attention seeking people -
I can't hold conversations with boring girls...
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ether-i-am wrote: »What do you have to give to this wonderful man that passes your check off list ma?
So the only thing you can offer is sex? Hilarious.Lol..ugh it's actually a pretty basic checklist.To be respectful,to not dress like
a ? ,know how to keep a convo going,have good hygiene,have a future,&
be somewhat tallish...I'm not asking for any spectacular sh*t.So I wouldn't really
consider him to be "wonderful."But I would have me to give in exchange. A-DUH! -
Lol..ugh it's actually a pretty basic checklist.To be respectful,to not dress like
a ? ,know how to keep a convo going,have good hygiene,have a future,&
be somewhat tallish...I'm not asking for any spectacular sh*t.So I wouldn't really
consider him to be "wonderful."But I would have me to give in exchange. A-DUH!
define "future"
you mean that if a guy makes 100k a year and doesnt plan on being promoted or pursuing any other business he doesnt make your list
or "future" meaning he'll have a another check coming in two weeks to where he doesnt have to ask you for money
i dont understand -
kinda true but it depends on the girl more than anything.
the dude really should let her lead the convo for the most part.
but hygiene is the most important one there everyhting else u can work with.
or make up for with ur own skills. -
that ? like swag...she aint ?
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The Hacker wrote: »that ? like swag...she aint ?
LMAO damn.. -
most women cant carry a conversation.
truth is, what most women consider a conversation is actually
"make me laugh" or "ask me something that will allow me to talk for a long time" -
American.Loo wrote: »most women cant carry a conversation.
truth is, what most women consider a conversation is actually
"make me laugh" or "ask me something that will allow me to talk for a long time"
Yeah. It's always a ME ME ME mentality. SMH. -
Who gives a damn about "swag"? Some women sound dumb as hell with that being on a list of their requirements. I remember I set my cousin up with this real cool guy. The only thing that I saw as a negative, well not really a negative, but not something that most young women woud want to deal with is that he had a son. Other than that he was in med school, in the military, working, had his own car, dressed well, respectful, very good looking!. They went on a date yadda yadda. She ended it cause he didnt have "swag".
Then she ended up choosing some dude who cheated on her.
My five? No particular order
1. Dumb
2. No goals
3. Bad hygiene
4. Clingy/insecure
5. Disrespectful/bad attitude -
Lol, ugh it is compared to these little boys who approach
me @ times.
ma who u ? wit????? mexicans???? -
Ms Eudoxie wrote: »Well, when it comes to initial attraction then yeah, I can understand their list but in general lists are dumb. It's better to just go with personality, interests and natural attraction.
Pretty much.
It's more about knowing what you need/want and having that raw attraction and chemistry than making a list and checking it twice. -
@My_nameaintearl wrote: »she got nothing but ? to bring to the table
take number 5 for example
a future? what future does this lady have for herself? get a man and leech off him forever? YUP.
Lmao @ that logic.No,it's not so I can leech on to him.I have goals,I have
ambition,so I would have my own personal plans too.
& it's funny that you came up with that conclusion because a lot of y'all on here
be like you should "let the man lead," in a relationship.How is he going to lead
if he don't know where he going?But that's a COMPLETELY different discussion.
So nvm that. -
So the only thing you can offer is sex? Hilarious.
That doesn't mean sex,smh!Get your mind out of the gutter!I mean he
would be in a relationship with me in exchange!I meet my own requirements. -
UPTOWN (CONNEXX) wrote: »define "future"
you mean that if a guy makes 100k a year and doesnt plan on being promoted or pursuing any other business he doesnt make your list
or "future" meaning he'll have a another check coming in two weeks to where he doesnt have to ask you for money
i dont understand
Lol,UGH,I don't know about any pay rates or what ever.I mean he has to have
plans & he has to have goals.I'm 19,in college,I have plans & goals that I want to
meet.I don't want someone who isn't working towards their goals.
"The decisions you make today determine who you are tomorrow."
Deep quote...
