What has been the most life-changing experience you've ever had?
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dropping outa college
moving back home after being out on my own for 6 years
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Word up ya'll don't even know and what made the conversation go in the emotional direction for me was when she said to me "your such a difficult person to deal with". My response was do you know what you have put me through these past 3 years. I haven't seen my kids in 2 1/2 years because she sent them to Jamaica with her side of the family. And since I have no relationship with her family guess who's my only line of communication. My only happiness with all of this is hearing my oldest daughter over the phone call me daddy.
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sickbizzle wrote: »LMAO where you live at in Chicago? i grew up there and about to raise my kids there, public eduction and all. you need to pick up and move to a better neighborhood if it's that bad.
I used to live in the 100s but now i'm older and the damage has been done..... lol
but uhhh...i live in bronzeville now -
Tha Killer wrote: »Can't you take her to court? That has "illegal" written all over it. She'd need you to sign a consent form, which any man with love for their child wouldn't do. Sorry to hear you're going through that ? .
I hope at least 3 of the females in your family are planning to murder that ? when she's back in town.....
Long story short no. A lawyer let me know. I know a more expensive lawyer would have probably said different. But because all my kids where born in Jamaica I can't do ? . I don't know if you know this but a lot of Jamaicans when they have kids they have their parents or elders raise them on the island as they make money in the U.S. In this time the parents supports the child plus the relative they say it's so the child will know about the Jamaican roots, language etc etc. To me that's ? to me that's another way for family to have a come up. One day when I told her her having them over there was ? and wasn't fair to me she told me well that's how she was raised. I told her well you know what I was raised by my parents and I'm not Jamaican so bring my kids back. Supposedly they will be back by the Summer. -
louis the great wrote: »Where is she? Your Babymoms in Jamaica with them?
She's back and forth. I haven't seen her though I have this mental thing as to not wanting to see her. -
Aye yi yi....Ill that ? is just crazy man. Just crazy. I can't even....I don't even know wtf to say. Mentally I know you are a wreck. That's why I can't ? with foriegners....no offense to any of them on here. But I've heard too many stories of kids being taken out of the country never to be returned again. And ? forbid if YOU go to Jamaica...they would ? you. smh. this is some wild ? right here. My heart goes out to you.
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hannibal_187 wrote: »I used to live in the 100s but now i'm older and the damage has been done..... lol
but uhhh...i live in bronzeville now
ahh aight then now i understand. Bronzeville is cool though i wouldn't mind living there at all, or anywhere south gap, south loop, kenwood or down in hyde park. i grew up out in beverly mostly and lived in ukrainian village for a time... i had it nice for the most part. probably i'll move up to the northwest side around northwoods before the kid starts elementary though there are nice parts of the southside but i'd rather my kid not have to venture through some of these hoods to get from one point to the next like i used to. -
Long story short no. A lawyer let me know. I know a more expensive lawyer would have probably said different. But because all my kids where born in Jamaica I can't do ? . I don't know if you know this but a lot of Jamaicans when they have kids they have their parents or elders raise them on the island as they make money in the U.S. In this time the parents supports the child plus the relative they say it's so the child will know about the Jamaican roots, language etc etc. To me that's ? to me that's another way for family to have a come up. One day when I told her her having them over there was ? and wasn't fair to me she told me well that's how she was raised. I told her well you know what I was raised by my parents and I'm not Jamaican so bring my kids back. Supposedly they will be back by the Summer.
I ain't tryin' to get all in yours but how could you not see all this comin' before you knocked that ? up with the first couple of kids? How did they end up born in Jamaica?
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sickbizzle wrote: »ahh aight then now i understand. Bronzeville is cool though i wouldn't mind living there at all, or anywhere south gap, south loop, kenwood or down in hyde park. i grew up out in beverly mostly and lived in ukrainian village for a time... i had it nice for the most part. probably i'll move up to the northwest side around northwoods before the kid starts elementary though there are nice parts of the southside but i'd rather my kid not have to venture through some of these hoods to get from one point to the next like i used to.
thats koo..
bronzeville is aight but I plan on moving to the south west subs within the next year.
I'm kinda sick of the city life and I'm ready for a change of scenery -
@ Killa man this women was everything I wanted when things were good I mean usual relationship problems but nothing you and the next man haven't been through. My Twins came during that whole lets be a family time and like I said there is more to the story. And they were all born in Jamaica because of that part of the story. It's madd long with so many twist and turns that I'm seriously thinking of writing a book about it. When it's finished a publisher will probably tell me ? you no one could have gone through this and still be sane. This has to be fiction, but no it's 100 my past 3 yers.
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@ Killa man this women was everything I wanted when things were good I mean usual relationship problems but nothing you and the next man haven't been through. My Twins came during that whole lets be a family time and like I said there is more to the story. And they were all born in Jamaica because of that part of the story. It's madd long with so many twist and turns that I'm seriously thinking of writing a book about it. When it's finished a publisher will probably tell me ? you no one could have gone through this and still be sane. This has to be fiction, but no it's 100 my past 3 yers.
i want to wish bad things on your bm -
hannibal_187 wrote: »thats koo..
bronzeville is aight but I plan on moving to the south west subs within the next year.
I'm kinda sick of the city life and I'm ready for a change of scenery
word i'd do it in a hearbeat if i could find work in the burbs but i work in finance and all jobs for me are in the loop.. commuting every day through traffic isn't anything i'm about to get involved with. i'm happy to take the metra or el before i subject myself to a life of that ? traffic is a nightmare these days that's the main thing that ? me off about livin here. -
sickbizzle wrote: »word i'd do it in a hearbeat if i could find work in the burbs but i work in finance and all jobs for me are in the loop.. commuting every day through traffic isn't anything i'm about to get involved with. i'm happy to take the metra or el before i subject myself to a life of that ? traffic is a nightmare these days that's the main thing that ? me off about livin here.
yeah...i take the metra and the el most of the time also when i head further out south of if i need to get out west.....
it's a different vibe in the burbs..true enough living in the city is convienient for somethings but it mainly boils down to a decent quality of life. i'm not saying the city is all bad but things are alot less complicated in the burbs.. -
going to Iraq and my daughter being born
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anyone said sex yet???
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@ Killa man this women was everything I wanted when things were good I mean usual relationship problems but nothing you and the next man haven't been through. My Twins came during that whole lets be a family time and like I said there is more to the story. And they were all born in Jamaica because of that part of the story. It's madd long with so many twist and turns that I'm seriously thinking of writing a book about it. When it's finished a publisher will probably tell me ? you no one could have gone through this and still be sane. This has to be fiction, but no it's 100 my past 3 yers.
Keep ya head up man, I look forward to reading that book one day. I'll extend my offer to Hummingbird, to you.....I'll help you edit that sumbitch if need be. I'm sorry to hear you keep havin' to go through this ? , but if you ever need to get anything off ya chest, just holla at ya boy.... -
my daughter being born, almost dying in a accident, cousin getting murked
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hannibal_187 wrote: »yeah...i take the metra and the el most of the time also when i head further out south of if i need to get out west.....
it's a different vibe in the burbs..true enough living in the city is convienient for somethings but it mainly boils down to a decent quality of life. i'm not saying the city is all bad but things are alot less complicated in the burbs..
Anything can happen anywhere but Northside baby minus a lot of Rogers Park and Uptown. I paid a lot for my Condo but it was worth it.
@Gutta *daps* I know it's early in the day but here you go playboy
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yea Rogers Park is getting weird i don't know what the ? happenin there. Edgewater is still kinda cool but i like the Northwest side i think we could have a decent standard of living in Northwoods area, they even say the public schools are decent. what neighborhood you in J-Gutta?
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sickbizzle wrote: »yea Rogers Park is getting weird i don't know what the ? happenin there. Edgewater is still kinda cool but i like the Northwest side i think we could have a decent standard of living in Northwoods area, they even say the public schools are decent. what neighborhood you in J-Gutta?
Ya I live in North Park by North Eastern and it is so quiet over here. Since I live next to the Chicago river branches I've seen deer early in the morning, and racoons at night but I rather deal with that than a gang member. I don't know if you've read my post in this thread but when my kids get back I want them to live up here with me. They're mothers house off of 79th, and I don't want them to see none of that dumb ? . -
sickbizzle wrote: »word i'd do it in a hearbeat if i could find work in the burbs but i work in finance and all jobs for me are in the loop.. commuting every day through traffic isn't anything i'm about to get involved with. i'm happy to take the metra or el before i subject myself to a life of that ? traffic is a nightmare these days that's the main thing that ? me off about livin here.
I work in Finance as well and I have been seriously considering movein to the Chi. I'm really against movein to New York but give me a little insight on it if you can? -
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When i was about 7, almost drown
When i was 6 i have a tooth remove and it was done improperly, i almost bled to death.
When i was 8 almost died in a hurricane
When i was 17 house burned down when i was in it and i almost died -
watching one of my friends get killed right in front of me.
