Ladies - Paying for a man in Public?

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  • kat2180
    kat2180 Members Posts: 12,056 ✭✭✭
    edited June 2011
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    bignorm73 wrote: »
    Kat, you are trippin.

    Lmao..well damn.

    I don't know..I guess it does boil down to the stigma of black men using white women for financial gain and white women falling for it so I maybe I'm overly sensitive to that and how it may appear.

    But you know I'm into you if I spend money on you.
  • Lorenzo de Medici
    Lorenzo de Medici Members Posts: 5,739 ✭✭✭
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    kat2180 wrote: »
    Lmao..well damn.

    I don't know..I guess it does boil down to the stigma of black men using white women for financial gain and white women falling for it so I maybe I'm overly sensitive to that and how it may appear.

    But you know I'm into you if I spend money on you.

    So you're just gonna ? ' ignore me? After all the time I put into us? I GAVE YOU THE BEST YEARS OF MY LIFE! You know what, ? you Kat.
  • _God_
    _God_ Members Posts: 6,396 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    kat2180 wrote: »
    Lmao..well damn.

    I don't know..I guess it does boil down to the stigma of black men using white women for financial gain and white women falling for it so I maybe I'm overly sensitive to that and how it may appear.

    But you know I'm into you if I spend money on you.

    yall set the precedent, yall tried to use us, we just recently been flippin it on yall
  • kat2180
    kat2180 Members Posts: 12,056 ✭✭✭
    edited June 2011
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    I'm not saying ? to a certain poster until their sig is changed to something appropriate.
  • bignorm73
    bignorm73 Banned Users Posts: 5,031 ✭✭✭
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    kat2180 wrote: »
    Lmao..well damn.

    I don't know..I guess it does boil down to the stigma of black men using white women for financial gain and white women falling for it so I maybe I'm overly sensitive to that and how it may appear.

    But you know I'm into you if I spend money on you.

    Unless you the 300 pound, trailer trash white redneck chick, people wont view you like that. lol.
  • ImSoReal
    ImSoReal Members Posts: 2,009
    edited June 2011
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    With my ex gf, she offered to pay for the 3rd date and I decline, but eventually after we got together every so often she would take me out. I had no problem with it, I mean once you get to a certain point in a relationship I don't see anything wrong with the woman taking the man out to eat. I don't care what it look slike to the public because I wont see them again anyways

    Naw if I was out with family or friends I would not let my girl pay
  • BiblicalAtheist
    BiblicalAtheist Members Posts: 15,668 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited June 2011
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    I have, doesn't bother me.
  • king hassan
    king hassan Members Posts: 22,739 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Pimpin ain't easy, and it ain't hard either
  • kat2180
    kat2180 Members Posts: 12,056 ✭✭✭
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    Pimpin ain't easy, and it ain't hard either

    What's that supposed to mean?
  • king hassan
    king hassan Members Posts: 22,739 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    kat2180 wrote: »
    What's that supposed to mean?
    SMH Kat, just SMH, stare at the socks
  • king hassan
    king hassan Members Posts: 22,739 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    kai_valya wrote: »
    speaking of which, may i say, you've outdone yourself again
    LOL thanks. That's what I'm known for around here
  • blackrain
    blackrain Members, Moderators Posts: 27,269 Regulator
    edited June 2011
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    SMH Kat, just SMH, stare at the socks

    she not respecting the real pimpin over there?
  • king hassan
    king hassan Members Posts: 22,739 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    blackrain wrote: »
    she not respecting the real pimpin over there?

    I see, dude must have her eyeballs to the curb
  • PLASTIC RULES
    PLASTIC RULES Members Posts: 1,535 ✭✭
    edited June 2011
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    Real talk if you let a ? pay for you in any fashion then you might as well hand in your manhood card right now.
  • kat2180
    kat2180 Members Posts: 12,056 ✭✭✭
    edited June 2011
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    Real talk if you let a ? pay for you in any fashion then you might as well hand in your manhood card right now.

    Even if he pays 90% of the time?
  • ImSoReal
    ImSoReal Members Posts: 2,009
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    kat2180 wrote: »
    Even if he pays 90% of the time?

    Kat dont listen to plastic rules, you do have some sense right?
  • Conscious__Nkechi
    Conscious__Nkechi Members Posts: 6,110 ✭✭✭
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    He pays all the time and I feel the want to come out of pocket for a man I am into and so I do.
    Last 3rd date I went on, I paid after he went out for the first 2. The 4th consisted of me getting mad groceries and whipping up a 9 dish meal, dessert, his favorite drinks etc.

    It's nice to do for a man. It shouldn't have to be one sided all the time. It is a partnership and that's how I treat it as.
  • kat2180
    kat2180 Members Posts: 12,056 ✭✭✭
    edited June 2011
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    9 dish meal?!

    Go on and give us the run down on that.
  • CashMeOutKing
    CashMeOutKing Members Posts: 214
    edited June 2011
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    #love when my girls pay.... #pimphandVeryStrong what type of chicks always lookin for handouts and free meals and not willing to give back...i would'nt consider my self in a relationship if it was nothing giving back...
  • PLASTIC RULES
    PLASTIC RULES Members Posts: 1,535 ✭✭
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    kat2180 wrote: »
    Even if he pays 90% of the time?

    A man should pay 100% of the time if he's out with his girl.

    That doesn't mean she can't spend $ on him in other ways tho.
  • caddo man
    caddo man Members Posts: 22,476 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited June 2011
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    I dont have a problem with chicks paying for ? . I have a problem with chicks driving dudes around all the time. When my wife is driving I feel weird. Hell I feel weird being in the passenger seat of anyone's car, really!

    But my wife pays for ? when we are at the department stores. That is mostly because she gets a discount on her credit cards that I dont get.
  • Focal Point
    Focal Point Members Posts: 16,307 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited June 2011
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    if you're happy with it... i'm happy with it... ? can I get pampered at dinner time... and please pull my damn chair out ladies
  • Iheart~Cali
    Iheart~Cali Members Posts: 5,991 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    I paid for our first date when I started dating my bf. He was shocked and felt uncomfortable.
    I don't mind paying occasionally to switch it up, but the man should be prepared to pay no matter what.
  • death187sin
    death187sin Members Posts: 6,098 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    I paid for our first date when I started dating my bf. He was shocked and felt uncomfortable.
    I don't mind paying occasionally to switch it up, but the man should be prepared to pay no matter what.

    Hey babes.. Where U been at all my life? lmaooo
  • Iheart~Cali
    Iheart~Cali Members Posts: 5,991 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited June 2011
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    Benihana is effin delicious.