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marie addams
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edited June 2011 in The Powder Room
42 Practical Ways to Improve Yourself

By Celestine Chua / Source: LifeHack.org


1. Read a book every day.
2. Learn a new language.
3. Pick up a new hobby.
4. Take up a new course.
5. Create an inspirational room.
6. Overcome your fears.
7. Level up your skills.
8. Wake up early.
9. Have a weekly exercise routine.
10. Start your life handbook.
11. Write a letter to your future self.
12. Get out of your comfort zone.
13. Put someone up to a challenge.
14. Identify your blind spots.
15. Ask for feedback.
16. Stay focused with to-do lists.
17. Set Big Hairy Audacious Goals (BHAGs).
18. Acknowledge your flaws.
19. Get into action.
20. Learn from people who inspire you.
21. Quit a bad habit.
22. Cultivate a new habit.
23. Avoid negative people.
24. Learn to deal with difficult people.
25. Learn from your friends.
26. Start a journal.
27. Start a blog about personal development.
28. Get a mentor or coach.
29. Reduce the time you spend on chat programs.
30. Learn chess (or any strategy game).
31. Stop watching TV
32. Start a 30-day challenge.
33. Meditate.
34. Join Toastmasters (Learn public speaking).
35. Befriend top people in their fields.
36. Let go of the past.
37. Start a business venture.
38. Show kindness to people around you.
39. Reach out to the people who hate you.
40. Take a break.
41. Read at least 1 personal development article a day.
42. Commit to your personal growth.

I've included the link for the full breakdown of each item
http://www.lifehack.org/articles/lifestyle/42-practical-ways-to-improve-yourself.html

Is there anything the IC ladies are doing, or would like to do to improve your overall quality of life? Physical and financial goals are common topics among us but aside from that what else are you doing to become the best you? what are your goals? what's on your plate right now?

I've bolded the things from this list that I would love to make happen. Adding to that I'd like to be a better communicator. I want to be able to communicate (my wants, needs,demands) in a way that is more assertive and effective without sounding like an abrasive ? .

Anything else you ladies want to add?

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  • Bussy_Getta
    Bussy_Getta Members Posts: 37,679 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited June 2011
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  • Bussy_Getta
    Bussy_Getta Members Posts: 37,679 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    #38 aint happenin tho
  • taeboo
    taeboo Members Posts: 4,669 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    I want to do #2, 12, 40...All I do now is work and come home. I need to get and live a little bit.
  • anrexiaL
    anrexiaL Members Posts: 3
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    #21 and #23 are hard to do..
  • marie addams
    marie addams Members Posts: 1,699 ✭✭
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    anrexiaL wrote: »
    #21 and #23 are hard to do..

    idk #23 is only hard in the literal sense. You're gonna encounter negative people everyday so it is kind of unavoidable , but it isn't hard to say "I don't like this person's energy" and decide not to deal with them from there on out. I do agree with 21 though. I have several to give up
  • Huruma
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    23. Avoid negative people.
    24. Learn to deal with difficult people.


    I genuinely and truly want to murder my father. I mean I really, really want the man to be dead. I can't even begin to explain what an arrogant, thoughtless, unintelligent and amoral ? ? that man is.

    Television isn't necessarily a bad thing.
  • marie addams
    marie addams Members Posts: 1,699 ✭✭
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    Huruma wrote: »

    Television isn't necessarily a bad thing.

    I don't think TV is bad either if it makes you happy. I believe the argument here is less TV time=more productivity. Which I agree with (and can also be interchangeable with internet time)

    I do hope you someday resolve your issues with your father. With or without him.
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  • RuffDraft
    RuffDraft Members, Writer Posts: 4,753 ✭✭✭✭
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    Huruma wrote: »
    23. Avoid negative people.
    24. Learn to deal with difficult people.


    I genuinely and truly want to murder my father. I mean I really, really want the man to be dead. I can't even begin to explain what an arrogant, thoughtless, unintelligent and amoral ? ? that man is.

    Television isn't necessarily a bad thing.

    Seems like you're achieving 23 and 24 already :tu
  • RedPassionColada
    RedPassionColada Members Posts: 210
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    I like this list. I read a letter I wrote to myself in grade 8. Geez, what was I thinking?! lmao