If it was rumors that someone X had ? or Herpes

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Real Lady
Real Lady Banned Users Posts: 1,878 ✭✭
edited July 2011 in For The Grown & Sexy
Would u discriminate against them? This situation happened to me once. I didn't want to have sex with this guy, because I kept hearing rumors that his x was a carrier. He didn't say it tho. However he would do so much viscous ? , I began to think that maybe he is out to ruin people lives and would have something like that and pass it along out of bitterness. I wasn't JUDGING I was just trying to use WISDOM. However it may have came off wrong like I was discriminating and judging.

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  • Aristo_V300
    Aristo_V300 Members Posts: 6,118 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited June 2011
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    Yes... yes I would. Unless valid medical records were shown I prolly wouldn't even touch them.
  • taeboo
    taeboo Members Posts: 4,669 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    This is where getting tested before you have sex with them comes in. A simple round of test can eliminate all that worry and judgement. But it sounds as if dude had some other issues tho. Even if he was clean, I wouldn't want to be with a vindictive or bitter person
  • TheFix
    TheFix Members Posts: 778 ✭✭✭✭
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    8 Billion people in the world, more than half of them are women. You'll find another, why gamble if you don't even know if the girl's headgame is up to par? Swim away.
  • Bully_Pulpit
    Bully_Pulpit Members Posts: 5,501 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited June 2011
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    TheFix wrote: »
    8 Billion people in the world, more than half of them are women. You'll find another, why gamble if you don't even know if the girl's headgame is up to par? Swim away.

    Reading is fundamental......
  • Louis Cipher
    Louis Cipher Members Posts: 4,020 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Q45T wrote: »
    Yes... yes I would. Unless valid medical records were shown I prolly wouldn't even touch them.

    ignorant nikka...

    chances are someone very close to you has ? .
  • wink_da_god
    wink_da_god Members Posts: 169
    edited June 2011
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    Q45T wrote: »
    Yes... yes I would. Unless valid medical records were shown I prolly wouldn't even touch them.

    i dont think they heard u bruh

    on 2nd thought i wouldnt even trust a document, if im not n the room when the doc says "negative"

    you will be firmly placed on outbreak monkey status
  • TheFix
    TheFix Members Posts: 778 ✭✭✭✭
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    Reading is fundamental......

    excuse me patna.
  • Aristo_V300
    Aristo_V300 Members Posts: 6,118 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited June 2011
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    ignorant nikka...

    chances are someone very close to you has ? .


    Chances are... I'm not ? ' them.









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  • Conscious__Nkechi
    Conscious__Nkechi Members Posts: 6,110 ✭✭✭
    edited June 2011
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    I would suggest a valid document courtesy of your local physician and/or free clinic that shows the results of the individuals STD testing.
    Don't get why this seems difficult to come by for some folks.
  • joseph sun
    joseph sun Members Posts: 6,764 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    I would suggest a valid document courtesy of your local physician and/or free clinic that shows the results of the individuals STD testing.
    Don't get why this seems difficult to come by for some folks.
    I heard you ? rewind2
  • Louis Cipher
    Louis Cipher Members Posts: 4,020 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Q45T wrote: »
    Chances are... I'm not ? ' them.









    enjoy_your_aids.jpg?1308954203

    how do you know that? you get all your broads checked out?

    every one?
  • Louis Cipher
    Louis Cipher Members Posts: 4,020 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    I would suggest a valid document courtesy of your local physician and/or free clinic that shows the results of the individuals STD testing.
    Don't get why this seems difficult to come by for some folks.

    becuz nikkas are scared to get tested...i dont understand it either...

    i get tested twice a year...
  • Mdizzle9000
    Mdizzle9000 Members, Writer Posts: 8,319 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited June 2011
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    they better get tested and show me some negative results or i aint ? wit em
  • Aristo_V300
    Aristo_V300 Members Posts: 6,118 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    how do you know that? you get all your broads checked out?

    every one?

    Don't worry 'bout who I'm ? '... get money.
  • Conscious__Nkechi
    Conscious__Nkechi Members Posts: 6,110 ✭✭✭
    edited June 2011
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    becuz nikkas are scared to get tested...i dont understand it either...

    i get tested twice a year...

    Now they're scared? Lol. Right, because not knowing makes it better considering how many STD's are curable and those incurable STD's can at least be suppressed and remain dormant with the use of meds. Not to mention how just allowing an STD to fester without treating it can lead to far more severe damage ie. brain. See: syphilis.

    But yes, make like Mario and keep your disease status on the low.
  • new account2
    new account2 Members Posts: 1,469
    edited June 2011
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    taeboo wrote: »
    This is where getting tested before you have sex with them comes in. A simple round of test can eliminate all that worry and judgement. But it sounds as if dude had some other issues tho. Even if he was clean, I wouldn't want to be with a vindictive or bitter person



    this^^^^^^^^
  • Conscious__Nkechi
    Conscious__Nkechi Members Posts: 6,110 ✭✭✭
    edited June 2011
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    sboogie wrote: »
    it aint that hard to get tested...

    Son, you won't believe this but where I'm from, it's FREE :O
  • caringstd66
    caringstd66 Members Posts: 2
    edited July 2011
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    To all of us who test positive for ? /AIDS stay strong and don't let anyone put you down. I'd like to recommend you to try PositiveMate, a safe and warm-hearted community for
    singles with STDs to connect with others in the same situation. No rejection or discrimination.
  • JadaRoss
    JadaRoss Members Posts: 6,791 ✭✭✭
    edited July 2011
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    cant believe everything people tell you
  • Lorenzo de Medici
    Lorenzo de Medici Members Posts: 5,739 ✭✭✭
    edited July 2011
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    Have sex with? yeah I'm discriminating. but being friends with....have at it.