How long do you wait to cook for him
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I hate to correlate cooking with sex but usually cooking depends on sex for me. If u do good u get a 5 star breakfast in the morning or dinner later on. I don't even think about it, my body just naturally moves towards the kitchen after some good lovin.
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I'll cook for almost anyone, I hold my ? to a higher standard than that. -
Cooking really isnt that hard if you can read and have Google.
I don't think I cooked a full meal for him until we moved in together.
this is the problem, what you describe is not knowing how to cook. even a simpleton can look up a recipe, buy that stuff and do what the recipe says...
same goes for girls who say they can cook, when they barely know how to prepare 3 different dishes. all these girls never stood with their mom in the kitchen preparing food for the family, they only cook the same 2 meals for themselves every now and then and think this equals knowing how to cook.
you ain't messing with african or hispanic (un-americanized) chicks cause these girls were taught by their mommies how to take care of a fam...
if you can't cook for a full workweek without looking ? up, you can't cook. you only know how to prepare something to eat which is not the same. -
@Vincenzo
I know how to cook and I was cooking dinners before my mother got home from work by 14. On top of that, my grandmother lived next door and taught me how to bake. I could easily cook a weeks worth of meals with no assistance, but Googling new ideas is fun to me.
It's not that I CAN'T, I just don't really enjoy cooking that much. I'll do it of course but I'm not all passionate about it like Marley.
Maybe that will change , maybe not. -
blakfyahking wrote: »say word mumma...............
hook me up with some brown stew fish babes
I'm hungry
lol. I've never made stew fish....stew chicken, but not stew fish. -
EmM HoLLa. wrote: »2 years and you cooked once?.. Poor guy....
Don't feel bad. Things didn't work out so it would have been a wasted effort anyways (lol...i kid). -
It was probably a few weeks after we started dating. I made him a breakfast sandwich, wrapped it up and ran to school so it could stay warm. lol.
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And this the dude that married you right???nthngis4vr& alwyzisalie wrote: »It was probably a few weeks after we started dating. I made him a breakfast sandwich, wrapped it up and ran to school so it could stay warm. lol. -
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@Vincenzo
I know how to cook and I was cooking dinners before my mother got home from work by 14. On top of that, my grandmother lived next door and taught me how to bake. I could easily cook a weeks worth of meals with no assistance, but Googling new ideas is fun to me.
It's not that I CAN'T, I just don't really enjoy cooking that much. I'll do it of course but I'm not all passionate about it like Marley.
Maybe that will change , maybe not.
i was speaking generally, it was just about your statement that cooking is easy since you can look up recipes. a lot of girls really think that means you know how to cook...
me personally, i don't care really if a girl knows how to cook. it's more a nice to have feature. i can cook for myself and if we have kids we can get some kind of nanny who does that. -
I usually cook before we have sex times
I like to cook especially bake and I want him to enjoy my cooking
But I'm surprised so many chicas would ? first -
-Vincenzo- wrote: »i was speaking generally, it was just about your statement that cooking is easy since you can look up recipes. a lot of girls really think that means you know how to cook...
me personally, i don't care really if a girl knows how to cook. it's more a nice to have feature. i can cook for myself and if we have kids we can get some kind of nanny who does that.
Never heard a man say that. To each their own but that won't ever happen in my home, I don't care if I'm Oprah Winfrey rich. I put a hot meal inside my child's belly everyday and that will stick with him forever (hopefully). -
I usually cook before we have sex times
I like to cook especially bake and I want him to enjoy my cooking
But I'm surprised so many chicas would ? first
muchachas ? before they know a ? 's last name, some hoes are wild out there -
Hmm..get ? or work over a hot stove?
I'm not seeing where the surprise comes in.... -
Conscious__Nkechi wrote: »Never heard a man say that. To each their own but that won't ever happen in my home, I don't care if I'm Oprah Winfrey rich. I put a hot meal inside my child's belly everyday and that will stick with him forever (hopefully).
we have a housemaid in ghana actually..i wouldn't get a complete stranger though, i was thinkin of some old auntie or something like that -
Hmm..get ? or work over a hot stove?
I'm not seeing where the surprise comes in....
SMH @ ? ?
*secretly approves* -
Well alllllllriiiiiiiiiiiiiiiight!nthngis4vr& alwyzisalie wrote: »yes it is. -
Hmm..get ? or work over a hot stove?
I'm not seeing where the surprise comes in....
*shrug* thats what i was thinking but it is what it is.......... -
Ms Eudoxie wrote: »All guys want or expect you to cook for them......and I'm annoyed that it's the first thing they ask as if cooking is rocket science. I'm part Jamaican so I've been getting asked if I can cook since about 15. I'm so over it I cringe and get very irritated every....time ... I'm asked.
I no longer give into this role play. I cook for myself and if I know the guy is coming over, I'll make enough for both but I don't specifically "cook for a man". It's old and lame to me now. I see it as something society places as a woman's "job" and men just play into it. My ex still complains that I never cooked for him or offered during our relationship. I only did it once for us randomly- two years in- bc we both wanted something home cooked as opposed to take out on a night in. Until that day he thought i couldn't cook. F*k that. Cook for me!
that's triflin as hell...2 years and you only cooked once...that's just unattractive and not because of some idea of gender roles... -
Can either of you change the oil in a car?
Can you? I mean keeping on this equal thang.... -
that's triflin as hell...2 years and you only cooked once...that's just unattractive and not because of some idea of gender roles...
Lol Yeah, my ex expresses his resentment on this subject all the time but I don't see what the big deal is.
@ the highlighted....then why else is it unattractive in your opinon? -
some_darc_obama wrote: »Can you? I mean keeping on this equal thang....
What about this thread is equal?
I didn't see the t/s ask the males the first time they cook for thier woman. -
pico rivera wrote: »*shrug* thats what i was thinking but it is what it is..........
dont listen to her Pico..she 30 and still aint married -
nthngis4vr& alwyzisalie wrote: »It was probably a few weeks after we started dating. I made him a breakfast sandwich, wrapped it up and ran to school so it could stay warm. lol.
I wish I met a classy woman like u in high school. Someone with that old school vibe that knew how to treat a good man. Your husband is a lucky man.
