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Roster Player #99
Roster Player #99 Members Posts: 4,237 ✭✭✭✭✭
edited October 2011 in The Powder Room
What would a guy have to do in order to have sex on the first night?


I want to compare and contrast some answers to some women I work with....

Your thoughts?
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  • Bussy_Getta
    Bussy_Getta Members Posts: 37,679 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited October 2011
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    the first night after a date or just on some "come over n hang out" ? ??

    (important question)
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  • kat2180
    kat2180 Members Posts: 12,056 ✭✭✭
    edited October 2011
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    First night of what? Knowing him?
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  • Bussy_Getta
    Bussy_Getta Members Posts: 37,679 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited October 2011
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    smh @ the ? abandoning his own thread
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  • Roster Player #99
    Roster Player #99 Members Posts: 4,237 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited October 2011
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    pico rivera wrote: »
    smh @ the ? abandoning his own thread

    oh man...


    how about both scenarios?
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  • Conscious__Nkechi
    Conscious__Nkechi Members Posts: 6,110 ✭✭✭
    edited October 2011
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    kai_valya wrote: »
    after a first date? nothing he could do in my case, it's not happening

    . .
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  • yanniiiee
    yanniiiee Members Posts: 465
    edited October 2011
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    I wouldn't have sex with anyone on a first date..He might get a kiss though
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  • Roster Player #99
    Roster Player #99 Members Posts: 4,237 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited October 2011
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    okay, thanks to those who answered, in addition, whats your logic behind your reasoning?
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  • yanniiiee
    yanniiiee Members Posts: 465
    edited October 2011
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    I just wouldn't want to do something that intimate with someone I just started seeing lol

    Sex is nice and everything.. I guess I just don't believe in the whole ? buddy thing.
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  • Roster Player #99
    Roster Player #99 Members Posts: 4,237 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited October 2011
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    yanniiiee wrote: »
    I just wouldn't want to do something that intimate with someone I just started seeing lol

    Sex is nice and everything.. I guess I just don't believe in the whole ? buddy thing.

    lets say he isnt a ? buddy, he's someone you/'re genuinely interested in, or conversely, a one night stand..
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  • yanniiiee
    yanniiiee Members Posts: 465
    edited October 2011
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    tonys. wrote: »
    lets say he isnt a ? buddy, he's someone you/'re genuinely interested in, or conversely, a one night stand..

    naahh, unless we're dating/on the verge of dating I really don't see it happening lol
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  • Roster Player #99
    Roster Player #99 Members Posts: 4,237 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited October 2011
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    yanniiiee wrote: »
    naahh, unless we're dating/on the verge of dating I really don't see it happening lol

    word. thanks for the input doe.
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  • blakfyahking
    blakfyahking Members Posts: 15,785 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited October 2011
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    t/s you should've asked this question on another forum that's full of ? and strumpets


    all the females who post on the IC are respectable, upstanding, beautiful young ladies who would never consider such a tryst :)
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  • kat2180
    kat2180 Members Posts: 12,056 ✭✭✭
    edited October 2011
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    Shut up blak.

    Really it just depends on the circumstances.

    I slept with my boyfriend on our first REAL date, but we interacted through email and over the phone for nearly a month before that...so it felt right for me personally.

    As for just meeting someone and then going home with him, I know it happens but I've never done it.

    You can't really get a for sure answer. Women do what they want and we can do things on a whim and then never do it again. So it could happen if you caught the right woman at the right time, but there isn't really a science to it.
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  • blakfyahking
    blakfyahking Members Posts: 15,785 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    kat2180 wrote: »
    Shut up blak.

    Really it just depends on the circumstances.

    I slept with my boyfriend on our first REAL date, but we interacted through email and over the phone for nearly a month before that...so it felt right for me personally.

    As for just meeting someone and then going home with him, I know it happens but I've never done it.

    You can't really get a for sure answer. Women do what they want and we can do things on a whim and then never do it again. So it could happen if you caught the right woman at the right time, but there isn't really a science to it.

    well got dayum..............you can't even give these chicks a compliment SMH

    what did you delete kat? I know you said something about my deficiency :(





    LMAO
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  • bignorm73
    bignorm73 Banned Users Posts: 5,031 ✭✭✭
    edited October 2011
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    Tony, These hoes lying. Most of them sleep with the dude BEFORE the first date.
    The date is mearly to cover up the whorish way they just conducted themselves.
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  • kat2180
    kat2180 Members Posts: 12,056 ✭✭✭
    edited October 2011
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    bignorm73 wrote: »
    Tony, These hoes lying. Most of them sleep with the dude BEFORE the first date.
    The date is mearly to cover up the whorish way they just conducted themselves.

    merely*

    And you can shut up too!
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  • kat2180
    kat2180 Members Posts: 12,056 ✭✭✭
    edited October 2011
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    deadeye wrote: »
    Do you know how to make hoppin johns?

    If so, would you ever disrespect your man by making something else if he specifically asked for them?

    lol..why would I not make it if he specifically requested it?

    And of course..I am from the South ya know.
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  • kAjUn
    kAjUn Members Posts: 2,439 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited October 2011
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    bignorm73 wrote: »
    Tony, These hoes lying. Most of them sleep with the dude BEFORE the first date.
    The date is mearly to cover up the whorish way they just conducted themselves.

    buwahahaha....
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  • kat2180
    kat2180 Members Posts: 12,056 ✭✭✭
    edited October 2011
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    I do have HBO, but I can't get into Boardwalk Empire for some reason.
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  • Idi Amin Dada
    Idi Amin Dada Members Posts: 3,192 ✭✭
    edited October 2011
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    kat2180 wrote: »
    Shut up blak.

    Really it just depends on the circumstances.

    I slept with my boyfriend on our first REAL date, but we interacted through email and over the phone for nearly a month before that...so it felt right for me personally.

    As for just meeting someone and then going home with him, I know it happens but I've never done it.

    You can't really get a for sure answer. Women do what they want and we can do things on a whim and then never do it again. So it could happen if you caught the right woman at the right time, but there isn't really a science to it.

    That's why you let Loo ? in All Star weekend? Cuz he replied to your posts and it felt right after all those PM's?
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  • yanniiiee
    yanniiiee Members Posts: 465
    edited October 2011
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    why do dudes think so lowly of females here.. It's disappointing lol
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  • kat2180
    kat2180 Members Posts: 12,056 ✭✭✭
    edited October 2011
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    Idi Amin Dada wrote: »
    That's why you let Loo ? in All Star weekend? Cuz he replied to your posts and it felt right after all those PM's?

    Really? :-/

    How was it since you seem to know all the details.
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  • bignorm73
    bignorm73 Banned Users Posts: 5,031 ✭✭✭
    edited October 2011
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    kat2180 wrote: »
    I do have HBO, but I can't get into Boardwalk Empire for some reason.

    The reason is, you dont have HBO.
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  • kat2180
    kat2180 Members Posts: 12,056 ✭✭✭
    edited October 2011
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    bignorm73 wrote: »
    The reason is, you dont have HBO.

    um? yes we do.
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  • Gooner
    Gooner Members Posts: 9,761 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited October 2011
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    gotta get to know a chick before i take her out on a date...and ? is part of getting to know u
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