Top 10 Reason's a Marriage fails.. IMO
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death187sin
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This is all I could think of.. Feel free to add on or do a spinoff..
1: She wanted an extravagant wedding to impress her friends and it left yall in a budget crisis.
2: Too soon. Didn't take the time to get to know eachother
3: He/She was a known cheater and used the "Will you marry me" to recoup the relationship
4: Her/His family is too much in your business
5: Joint accounts (yes.. this will destroy a marriage completely)
6: He/She lets themselves go when it comes to appearance
7: She stops giving head
8: He/She has nothing but single friends (bad influence)
9: Someone from his/her past comes back into the picture
10: She can't get pregnant
1: She wanted an extravagant wedding to impress her friends and it left yall in a budget crisis.
2: Too soon. Didn't take the time to get to know eachother
3: He/She was a known cheater and used the "Will you marry me" to recoup the relationship
4: Her/His family is too much in your business
5: Joint accounts (yes.. this will destroy a marriage completely)
6: He/She lets themselves go when it comes to appearance
7: She stops giving head
8: He/She has nothing but single friends (bad influence)
9: Someone from his/her past comes back into the picture
10: She can't get pregnant
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2X plat push
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Lol @ #7!!
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death187sin wrote: »This is all I could think of.. Feel free to add on or do a spinoff..
1: She wanted an extravagant wedding to impress her friends and it left yall in a budget crisis. I thought it was custom for her dad to pay for all that ?
2: Too soon. Didn't take the time to get to know eachother
3: He/She was a known cheater and used the "Will you marry me" to recoup the relationship
4: Her/His family is too much in your business
5: Joint accounts (yes.. this will destroy a marriage completely)
6: He/She lets themselves go when it comes to appearance
7: She stops giving head
8: He/She has nothing but single friends (bad influence)
9: Someone from his/her past comes back into the picture
10: She can't get pregnant
Co-sign most of that. Add one partner not being able to carry their financial weight to the list too -
dad paying for the wedding is some old ? ... that ? dont happen unless your in the Italian mafia.. LOL
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GameTime33463 wrote: »Lol @ #7!!
aye thats very real. -
American Loo VII 3D wrote: »aye thats very real.
Lol i know that's why i laughed.... This thread is gonna do numbers! -
Number 7 is real as ? ...
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death187sin wrote: »dad paying for the wedding is some old ? ... that ? dont happen unless your in the Italian mafia.. LOL
Well that ? need to finance that ? herself. The wedding is after all just for her and all her girlfriends. The dude don't get ? out of it. -
lord nemesis wrote: »Well that ? need to finance that ? herself. The wedding is after all just for her and all her girlfriends. The dude don't get ? out of it.
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11.she gets fat within 6 months of the marriage
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mdizzle9000 wrote: »11.she gets fat within 6 months of the marriage
This is one you will see coming.. She's not exercising but every time you turn around this ? shoving cake in her mouth then yes.. You have ample time to get out.. There should be a marriage grace period.. Like 3 years after the marriage there should be an assessment made and either party can call it off if ? aint working out without any ramifications.. -
Powerful thread. I'm a divorced myself so I know what it is.
I agree with this entire list and prolly whatever else will be added, lol. -
Fundz O' Plenty wrote: »Powerful thread. I'm a divorced myself so I know what it is.
I agree with this entire list and prolly whatever else will be added, lol.
what was your reason for divorce if you dont mind my asking? -
i just want to say that about 7 of these reasons are why i doubt i'll ever get married
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lol^^^^^^^ Funny ? !mdizzle9000 wrote: »11.she gets fat within 6 months of the marriage -
real talk.. marriage has lost value.. it's not the same as it was when out Grandparents were coming up.. People get married today for financial strength and medical benefits more then they do for for love.. Most people, mainly women who divorce go on a ? parade and ? everything that aint nailed down..
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death187sin wrote: »This is all I could think of.. Feel free to add on or do a spinoff..
1: She wanted an extravagant wedding to impress her friends and it left yall in a budget crisis.
2: Too soon. Didn't take the time to get to know eachother
3: He/She was a known cheater and used the "Will you marry me" to recoup the relationship
4: Her/His family is too much in your business
5: Joint accounts (yes.. this will destroy a marriage completely)
6: He/She lets themselves go when it comes to appearance
7: She stops giving head
8: He/She has nothing but single friends (bad influence)
9: Someone from his/her past comes back into the picture
10: She can't get pregnant
You know what you were actually doing good until you pulled that head ? . Go sit down and don't get up until you think of something better. -
You know what you were actually doing good until you pulled that head ? . Go sit down and don't get up until you think of something better.
Why is that? There are countless men who would agree that women stop doing this after marriage.. Not understanding your anger. -
death187sin wrote: »real talk.. marriage has lost value.. it's not the same as it was when out Grandparents were coming up.. People get married today for financial strength and medical benefits more then they do for for love.. Most people, mainly women who divorce go on a ? parade and ? everything that aint nailed down..
It's lost value because only the fools get married. Don't get married to a ? fool/don't be a fool and you won't get divorced. I would judge you by your posing for the camera talkin bout "I'm so fly" but I don't know you so...
I believe there's hope cuz I look at my bf's side of the family and it's traditional and real...when I get married I'm gonna make it last because I don't believe I should ever get married unless knowing for sure i'd want him in my life no matter what may happen/try my damnest. Divorce isn't for me. -
lol @ most of them being the woman's fault
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death187sin wrote: »Why is that? There are countless men who would agree that women stop doing this after marriage.. Not understanding your anger.
Head shouldn't be cause for divorce. What the hell is that? That doesn't warrant a divorce...shouldn't even matter. You got married to get head? If that's all you cared about then don't get in the first place, just hit the clubs for life if that's what you're livin' for. That ain't what marriage is for. -
#10 is a funny one.
If a guy can't have kids...a woman will consider adoption and alternative methods..
But if a woman cant get pregnant...DIVORCE.
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lol @ most of them being the woman's fault
Hey CC..
i think since its coming from a male perspective, thats why its biased.
but almost all those things could apply to a man too -
death187sin wrote: »real talk.. marriage has lost value.. it's not the same as it was when out Grandparents were coming up.. People get married today for financial strength and medical benefits more then they do for for love.. Most people, mainly women who divorce go on a ? parade and ? everything that aint nailed down..
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why are people so concerned with the reasons why other people's marriages fail. every individual marriage is different. as long as you and your partner continue to communicate and make sure each other needs are met why concentrate on anyone else's failed relationships..... i understand you don't want to make the same mistakes as other people but it's gotten to the point where ? is using stats and their friends failed attempts at marriage as an excuse not to walk down the isle which is kinda of weak to me......marriage is what you make it. -
Lol @ #10....if ur wife can't get pregnant, it's not her fault for the most part....there's plenty of alternatives....its kind of sad that some men will leave the woman he claimed to love so because of something that was out of her control...and men claim women aren't loyal nowadays..
