Top 10 Reason's a Marriage fails.. IMO
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what man really wants to claim another kid that aint his.. cause if you adopt a baby and ? dont work, now your stuck on the hook for child support for a lil african ? that dosent even look like u#10 is a funny one.
If a guy can't have kids...a woman will consider adoption and alternative methods..
But if a woman cant get pregnant...DIVORCE.
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American Loo VII 3D wrote: »Hey CC..
i think since its coming from a male perspective, thats why its biased.
but almost all those things could apply to a man too
Let's add a few from the female persepective...
1. Dude can't find job to support the fam
2. "Baby mamas, baby mamas, baby mamas!!"
3. He got locked up
4. He listens to his no woman having, stay at home playing X-Box eating lonely man dinner best friends -
death187sin wrote: »what was your reason for divorce if you dont mind my asking?
I married way too soon. I discovered that I was reaching for something that wasn't achieved in my childhood... A family. -
Let's add a few from the female persepective...
1. Dude can't find job to support the fam
2. "Baby mamas, baby mamas, baby mamas!!"
3. He got locked up
4. He listens to his no woman having, stay at home playing X-Box eating lonely man dinner best friends
ok but the fatal flaw in the first three are those are things that occurred BEFORE the marriage
if you marry a dude with multiple baby mamas, or no job, or with a prison record: you already lost -
Let's add a few from the female persepective...
1. Dude can't find job to support the fam
2. "Baby mamas, baby mamas, baby mamas!!"
3. He got locked up
4. He listens to his no woman having, stay at home playing X-Box eating lonely man dinner best friends
Can you inbox me them bare ? ?
Fundz thanks you in advance... -
American Loo VII 3D wrote: »ok but the fatal flaw in the first three are those are things that occurred BEFORE the marriage
if you marry a dude with multiple baby mamas, or no job, or with a prison record: you already lost
Those things can happen once the marriage has already taken place. -
blue virgo wrote: »Those things can happen once the marriage has already taken place.
then they're just 3 more reasons not to get "merd" (as the hood girls say it) -
are we allowed to apply logic to some of these because no offense ladies but some of ya'll came in trippin. #10 could be on the list because it took it's toll on the relationship and maybe the couple just split not necessarily cause the guy just bounced.
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American Loo VII 3D wrote: »ok but the fatal flaw in the first three are those are things that occurred BEFORE the marriage
if you marry a dude with multiple baby mamas, or no job, or with a prison record: you already lost
Only the 2nd is before.
Other 2 can happen after.
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Fundz O' Plenty wrote: »Can you inbox me them bare ? ?
Fundz thanks you in advance...
Sure hon check the inbox. -
Only the 2nd is before.
Other 2 can happen after.
Thank you.
the 2nd could be after if she stays after he cheats -
death187sin wrote: »This is all I could think of.. Feel free to add on or do a spinoff..
1: She wanted an extravagant wedding to impress her friends and it left yall in a budget crisis.
2: Too soon. Didn't take the time to get to know eachother
3: He/She was a known cheater and used the "Will you marry me" to recoup the relationship
4: Her/His family is too much in your business
5: Joint accounts (yes.. this will destroy a marriage completely)
6: He/She lets themselves go when it comes to appearance
7: She stops giving head
8: He/She has nothing but single friends (bad influence)
9: Someone from his/her past comes back into the picture
10: She can't get pregnant
3 reasons why I want to be a player for life but if I do get married, am letting her know up front that she not going to let herself go and no joint accounts......I might get slapped at first but at least i got my point across..... -
CC.... my request pls?
You're a doll..... -
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Fundz O' Plenty wrote: »CC.... my request pls?
You're a doll.....
CC aint tryna show them ? -
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Most of the reasons were on point and can be avoided if both partners reconize them. It's all about communication.
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Head shouldn't be cause for divorce. What the hell is that? That doesn't warrant a divorce...shouldn't even matter. You got married to get head? If that's all you cared about then don't get in the first place, just hit the clubs for life if that's what you're livin' for. That ain't what marriage is for.
It could lead to cheating.......same as if your hubby ain't performing like he used to or has lost the desire.....some will seek the satisfaction -
blah blah blah- IMO is what im gathering
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KingJB2ThaFullest86 wrote: »3 reasons why I want to be a player for life but if I do get married, am letting her know up front that she not going to let herself go and no joint accounts......I might get slapped at first but at least i got my point across.....
It's because of people like you that marriage is a joke these days. Don't get married if you know you're not marriage material. Stick to being a ? . -
You didn't like it?
Those aren't it dammit! You play too much... How about a wet t-shirt pic??? -
charlie_danger wrote: »blah blah blah- IMO is what im gathering
speakin of ? ........ -
GOAT ? !!!!
