me, my Chick and her Man...I need some HELP with this...LADIES/FELLAS..advice needed!

liteurlzup150

Ive been seeing this girl for the past year, she has a man and when it started i just had broke up with my ex. me and this girl have been thru alot for the past year from the amount of places we've had sex at to the bugged out sex sessions, shes brought me roses, tried to give me things but i dont take them, pays for cabs constantly to come see me, cooks for me, ive slept over her house for weeks at a time or 3 days out the week,etc, shes really cried about things that have to do with us. she went on a trip to d.r with her man the next day she came over took me to a telly and i hit it, her man was still in d.r, while she was there she sent me a pic of her shoes with my name on it, i was like damn.

anyways shes really dedicated over 30 songs to me (she coulda done the same to her man i know) , theres many times when shes just showed up to c me for an hour or less just to spent time with me no matter the time of night or day, she made up a fake facebook to try to catch me ? wit other chicks, shes o.d jealous of my close female friends. ive been literally next to her in bed while her mans on the fone tellin her he loves her,etc and im there chillin on her bed watching t.v minding my business.

well in the last month shes came to see me a few times and ive gone to see her,etc but for the last 2 weeks ive been ignoring her calls and not replying to her messages...last nite she put up new pics of her and her man which is cool ? they go out so its only right but if i woulda answered her she woulda not done that..the thing is people....what do i do? ....do i just keep ignoring her efforts towards me ? between me and her her efforts are about 70% while mine are 30%...

i mean i have feelings for her and i know she got feelings for me she even did that scene from the movie the notebook where someone lays down in the middle of the street to show their feelings for the other person, her family knows me about me ive met her sis, bro, mom,...maybe im buggin ? i have just been the side ? for a year...shes picked to c me over her man a ridiculous amount of times...i dont know im confused i guess i need people's oipinions...real straight up opinions....what should i do?...leave it or see what can happen wit me and her and say ? her man.....??????

playmaker88

Lol @ you being a jump off..you really asking this.. you seem cool playing second ? .. enjoy your ?

Maximus Rex

oneitis-Often confused with love, this is the feeling that a particular woman is actually special. This is just an illusion; she is the same as the other three or so billion. "Go ? ten other women" is the most commonly prescribed treatment for this "disease" (hence the "itis"), as it tends to show quite quickly how very alike people are. In other words, get over yourself and your obsession with that girl, because it's just an illusion. And when you get rejected, don't be depressed. Because there's really not much to worry about.
Dude, you definitely have oneitis for that girl. You've been talking about her nonstop for the past week. Don't you realize she's nothing special, and that you are just being fooled? Snap out of it so you won't be so depressed when she rejects you!

Personally I don't understand what your problem is. You ? up by allowing this broad to put in this pseudo relationship. How is she going to get mad and jealous when she has a man? Why didn't you kindly remind her that she has a man. Whenever she ? up, does something stupid, calls herself getting jealous and wanting to know who to the next ? is, your reply each and every time needs to be, "What does it matter? I'm not your man." Or something to that effect. That will immediately shut down any and everything she has to say.

The only thing you need to worry about is that she comes when you call, both literally and figuratively. Her man is her problem. The ? shouldn't even know you exist. If you think that she's not on top of game as far as that ? (her man,) is concerned, then you need to leave her alone. I have a question. How come over the past year, you weren't talking to other chicks?

jbrooks229

liteurlzup150 wrote: »

Ive been seeing this girl for the past year, she has a man and when it started i just had broke up with my ex. me and this girl have been thru alot for the past year from the amount of places we've had sex at to the bugged out sex sessions, shes brought me roses, tried to give me things but i dont take them, pays for cabs constantly to come see me, cooks for me, ive slept over her house for weeks at a time or 3 days out the week,etc, shes really cried about things that have to do with us. she went on a trip to d.r with her man the next day she came over took me to a telly and i hit it, her man was still in d.r, while she was there she sent me a pic of her shoes with my name on it, i was like damn.

anyways shes really dedicated over 30 songs to me (she coulda done the same to her man i know) , theres many times when shes just showed up to c me for an hour or less just to spent time with me no matter the time of night or day, she made up a fake facebook to try to catch me ? wit other chicks, shes o.d jealous of my close female friends. ive been literally next to her in bed while her mans on the fone tellin her he loves her,etc and im there chillin on her bed watching t.v minding my business.

well in the last month shes came to see me a few times and ive gone to see her,etc but for the last 2 weeks ive been ignoring her calls and not replying to her messages...last nite she put up new pics of her and her man which is cool ? they go out so its only right but if i woulda answered her she woulda not done that..the thing is people....what do i do? ....do i just keep ignoring her efforts towards me ? between me and her her efforts are about 70% while mine are 30%...

i mean i have feelings for her and i know she got feelings for me she even did that scene from the movie the notebook where someone lays down in the middle of the street to show their feelings for the other person, her family knows me about me ive met her sis, bro, mom,...maybe im buggin ? i have just been the side ? for a year...shes picked to c me over her man a ridiculous amount of times...i dont know im confused i guess i need people's oipinions...real straight up opinions....what should i do?...leave it or see what can happen wit me and her and say ? her man.....??????

you shouldnt look to the ic to solve your problems ?

but dont wife that hoe