Ladies, what's the fastest time...

  Colin$mackabi$h
Colin$mackabi$h Members Posts: 16,586 ✭✭✭✭✭
edited January 2013 in The Powder Room
Y'all re up with a new man? After ya ex?
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  • Kat
    Kat Members Posts: 50,667 ✭✭✭✭✭
    I think it really depends on the circumstances of the breakup and where her head is at when ya'll officially make that break.

    Ya'll may break up today, but she may have broke up with you mentally two or three months ago.

    Or maybe you dumped her and left her heart broken, then comes the recovery period where she doesn't even want to see another man.

    You just never know really.

  • MsSouthern
    MsSouthern Members, Moderators Posts: 21,791 Regulator
    2 weeks between ny ex and current man
  •   Colin$mackabi$h
    Colin$mackabi$h Members Posts: 16,586 ✭✭✭✭✭
    2 weeks between ny ex and current man
    Do you feel u could of waited longer? Why the rush?
  • Kat
    Kat Members Posts: 50,667 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Alot of hoes already got a ? on deck before they break it off, ? got options as should ?

    I don't agree.

    How can you fully give yourself to someone if you're expecting and preparing for it to fail?

  •   Colin$mackabi$h
    Colin$mackabi$h Members Posts: 16,586 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Alot of hoes already got a ? on deck before they break it off, ? got options as should ?

    I don't agree.

    How can you fully give yourself to someone if you're expecting and preparing for it to fail?

    Unless they feel that's not the one, just the one to ? on for a while.
  • MsSouthern
    MsSouthern Members, Moderators Posts: 21,791 Regulator
    ice_cold wrote: »
    2 weeks between ny ex and current man
    Do you feel u could of waited longer? Why the rush?


    Why wait ...we've been together almost 3 years now

    I think I made the right choice ...
  • Go figure
    Go figure Guests, Members, Confirm Email, Writer Posts: 4,662 ✭✭✭✭✭
    some chicks panic at the thought of loneliness. those same ones will jump relationship to relationship or settle for hoe'ism when she cant find one to lock her down.
  •   Colin$mackabi$h
    Colin$mackabi$h Members Posts: 16,586 ✭✭✭✭✭
    ice_cold wrote: »
    2 weeks between ny ex and current man
    Do you feel u could of waited longer? Why the rush?


    Why wait ...we've been together almost 3 years now

    I think I made the right choice ...

    Were u talking to him when u was with dude as a friend?
  • haute
    haute Members Posts: 11,581 ✭✭✭✭✭
    well i have reliable ? in the glass so almost 8 months
  • MzKB
    MzKB Members Posts: 3,366 ✭✭✭✭✭
    3.5 years from ex to current
    It was well worth the wait
  • 32DaysOfInfiniti
    32DaysOfInfiniti Members Posts: 4,152 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Alot of hoes already got a ? on deck before they break it off, ? got options as should ?

    I don't agree.

    How can you fully give yourself to someone if you're expecting and preparing for it to fail?

    You cant, but these girls do it anyway, it's usually when other people start getting involved that feelings start waning in the first place... Thus why most relationships dont work out because its always in the back of peoples minds that there is something better, especially a female who see's her current man as a liability and starts dating someone with some bread (even if it starts innocent)...

    I'm just telling dudes be weary because if you get to the point where she is breaking up with you, its probably cause she moved on, or if you are breaking up with her, it's probably for the same reason.

    People dont generally break things off to be alone, just to be with someone else.

    I dont see how you can disagree when my statement is the whole basis for why divorce rates in the US well over 50%

    It may not make sense, but it is definitely fact for more than half of the people, and thats not counting failed relationships that dont end in marriage... Id say that success rate is probably less that 5% if i was a gambling man...

  • ReppinTime
    ReppinTime Members Posts: 4,760 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Clever way to ask em how loose the ? is. You smart
  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Posts: 6,385 ✭✭
    Got into a relationship 3 years after my ex before the last.
  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Posts: 6,385 ✭✭
    Oh how quickly some are swayed.
  • 1of1
    1of1 Members Posts: 37,468 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Alot of hoes already got a ? on deck before they break it off, ? got options as should ?

    I don't agree.

    How can you fully give yourself to someone if you're expecting and preparing for it to fail?

    Lol @ "fully give yourself." No ring, you're open to options.

    Some are open even after they get a ring if something important is lacking.
  • MsSouthern
    MsSouthern Members, Moderators Posts: 21,791 Regulator
    ice_cold wrote: »
    ice_cold wrote: »
    2 weeks between ny ex and current man
    Do you feel u could of waited longer? Why the rush?


    Why wait ...we've been together almost 3 years now

    I think I made the right choice ...

    Were u talking to him when u was with dude as a friend?

    No..... But we went to high school together so we had already known each other for years .
  • Kat
    Kat Members Posts: 50,667 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Alot of hoes already got a ? on deck before they break it off, ? got options as should ?

    I don't agree.

    How can you fully give yourself to someone if you're expecting and preparing for it to fail?

    Lol @ "fully give yourself." No ring, you're open to options.
    Some are open even after they get a ring if something important is lacking.

    I don't agree with that either.
  • LPast
    LPast Members Posts: 4,546 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Believe these wanna be Nuns if you want

    They might of waited 3 years to be in a "relationship" but they ain't wait 3 years to have "relations"

    U overstand me?

    I think this is a very reasonable question...

    So how long did it take y'all to ''
  • Supreme_Mind999
    Supreme_Mind999 Members Posts: 5,185 ✭✭✭✭✭
    It takes strength and creativity to maintain a relationship over the 3 year span

    Two people really have to be compatible in and out to flow that long

    Alot of people are Fire extinguishers rather than firestarters when it comes to the "flame" in their relationships
  • LPast
    LPast Members Posts: 4,546 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Break the glassglass as Haute put it?
  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Posts: 6,385 ✭✭
    LPast wrote: »
    Believe these wanna be Nuns if you want

    They might of waited 3 years to be in a "relationship" but they ain't wait 3 years to have "relations"

    U overstand me?

    I think this is a very reasonable question...

    So how long did it take y'all to ''
    It takes strength and creativity to maintain a relationship over the 3 year span

    Two people really have to be compatible in and out to flow that long

    Alot of people are Fire extinguishers rather than firestarters when it comes to the "flame" in their relationships

    Pardon me?

    I believe both of you have completely misunderstood the post my dears.