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Kat
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The dudes have their little thread, so lets put together a list of things that are RED FLAGS when dealing with a man.
You may not have seen it at the time, but in hindsight you recognize a certain trait as a huge sign that you should have run the other way.
Let's educate the masses..
You may not have seen it at the time, but in hindsight you recognize a certain trait as a huge sign that you should have run the other way.
Let's educate the masses..
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Like ? are gonna learn anything lol you a comedian Kat
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^^
I have no lil' dirt ?
Or maybe babies -
Skyler White wrote: »child under 2 years old
gives his mom money like that's his woman
If a dude gotta child under two years that's a red flag?
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The younger the child the more likely that dude is still ? the BM for a CS support reprieve.
Matter of fact, I'd prefer to know that a man already has something worked out with the courts.
- Different car damn near everytime you see him.
- Eerily empty/underfurnished house/apartment
- ? shoes
-Extra flashy jewelry
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- If he's white (or Jamel) and he owns alot of camo..but isn't in the military.
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Skyler White wrote: »child under 2 years old
gives his mom money like that's his woman
Why would this be a problem? -
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Skyler White wrote: »child under 2 years old
gives his mom money like that's his woman
dumbest ? ever. so if you got a 1 yr old you dont deserve to be taken serious as a female?? step your advice skills up
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Won't answer the phone when yall are together
Asks to borrow money
Always wants to kick it at your crib not his
If you never meet any of his friends
Accuses you of cheating ...for no damn reason
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Skyler White wrote: »Skyler White wrote: »child under 2 years old
gives his mom money like that's his woman
Why would this be a problem?
has a mommy complex
mom will give any woman that her son takes seriously PROBLEMS...and im not talking normal over protective mama behavior. she'll act up like a spiteful ex girlfriend
you see this a lot in men that come from single parent homes. their mothers raise them to be the man that they always wanted. they end up relying on their sons for financial and emotional support...basically a stand in boyfriend without the sex or romance. once her son moves on and tries to have a real relationship, the mom will act up like she just got dumped. she won't be satisfied unless the girlfriend is EXTREMELY close to her to the point that its actually 3 people in the relationship.
You talkin bout Terrence J in Think Like a Man Lol Now that you explain it like that i can see it, especially the w/ the whole single mother phenomenon these days -
And randomly changes his phone number
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Skyler White wrote: »Skyler White wrote: »child under 2 years old
gives his mom money like that's his woman
Why would this be a problem?
has a mommy complex
mom will give any woman that her son takes seriously PROBLEMS...and im not talking normal over protective mama behavior. she'll act up like a spiteful ex girlfriend
you see this a lot in men that come from single parent homes. their mothers raise them to be the man that they always wanted. they end up relying on their sons for financial and emotional support...basically a stand in boyfriend without the sex or romance. once her son moves on and tries to have a real relationship, the mom will act up like she just got dumped. she won't be satisfied unless the girlfriend is EXTREMELY close to her to the point that its actually 3 people in the relationship.
Lol uhh yea.....this is ? !
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all this ? sounds like the opposite of myself
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Skyler White wrote: »Rhyme_Religion wrote: »Skyler White wrote: »child under 2 years old
gives his mom money like that's his woman
If a dude gotta child under two years that's a red flag?
more than likely his baby mama situation is not in order yet
either he don't ? with her and that ? crazy
or he still ? her on the low and she's gonna give any woman that tries to get with him pure hell
once the kid is like 3-4 yrs old there's no excuse to still have baby mama issues though. you shoulda checked her by then.
I don't have any seeds yet, nor any maybe babies runnin' around out here
Is this how y'all feel for real?
Or is this just for ? and giggles?????
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Skyler White wrote: »gets offended when you ask him to go get tested before having sex.
has absolutely NO porn on his computer or in his apartment (probably turned on by some out there freak ? that he doesnt want you to see)
Gets offended by an STD test?
What kinda hooligans y'all layin' up with ? -
Ms Southern wrote: »And randomly changes his phone number
What if e does extracurricular activities that cause him to change his numbers constantly? -
lmao...dudes catching hella feelings.
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MzGrahamBitches wrote: »lmao...dudes catching hella feelings.
Trollin' at its finest -
i've never heard of people giving money to their mothers until i started working with a few black folks. I wasn't aware of the "hood tithe"...Almost every single one of them talked about how they were giving their mothers a few hundred here, a few hundred there to pay the light bill, etc... One dude was getting married and said he had to create some secret bank account so he could still send his momma some money without his wife finding out. Just recently this other dude was saying how when he got his tax return money back he had to break his momma off 10%. I'm like, "what the hell for" and he said so she can pay some bills and whatever. I think the guys have good intentions, but all i see is some schemin ass mothers.
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women need to find a new term for mama's boy...i love my mama...i dont give her money, but i do love her...she was the only woman that mattered to me before i got married...so im just supposed to cut her off? Its not like i drop whatever im doing to go over and help her, but at the same time, that is my mother. I wouldnt ? at my wife if she wanted to go visit her parents.
this is the only thing that stood out to me a little.....the ladies may raise this flag on me.....i love my mama to death...when she calls me and needs something, im there.....im not jumping out of bed for no dumb ? or making my own situation suffer, but i help anytime i can.....yes that includes giving her money ( and my girl dont be feelin that ? all the time *shrugs* ).....but that goes both ways too....if this woman has 5 dollars to her name and i needed it, its nothing, not even a question.....im her first boy and we've always just been tight like that
anyway.....there is a point where the relationship with ones parent/parents could cause a problem with the s/o...but this is not that point....? , she aint gone be here forever -
I'm staying away if he's a full time artist or musician and I've never heard of his work outside of him telling me.
Also if he has a crazy nickname like all his friends call him " no nuts" or "lame Larry".
And if he has kids and doesn't talk about them or when you meet them they show him no respect.
Lastly if he reminds me of Trinidad James in his clothing/jewelry / dental care.not even checking for dude. -
I don't give my mother money, but I loan it to her regularly.
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Rhyme_Religion wrote: »Ms Southern wrote: »And randomly changes his phone number
What if e does extracurricular activities that cause him to change his numbers constantly?
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