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smh @ yalls moms asking to hold five dollars
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Ms Southern wrote: »Rhyme_Religion wrote: »Ms Southern wrote: »And randomly changes his phone number
What if e does extracurricular activities that cause him to change his numbers constantly?
Like what ?
Like being around the corner
Up the block
Down the street
From where
The pimps, prostitutes . And drug lords meet
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damn ? cant give they mama money now
these hoes crazy
how the ? you hoes gon hate on a ? mama
ic hoes aint ? and yall prove it everyday -
Man ? that, what part of the game is it for your children to be helping YOU out financially? I'm not talking due to old age, I get that, but because of your own POOR financial decisions?
She made her choices in life, why do I have to bail her out for them when I'm HER child?
I mean occasionally, I know ? happens, but if it's consistent because you're making the same bad decisions..it gets old.
But she had my back for a whole year after I had my baby so I still feel obligated to at least loan her some money when she needs it, even though I've easily repaid that debt. -
Rhyme_Religion wrote: »Ms Southern wrote: »Rhyme_Religion wrote: »Ms Southern wrote: »And randomly changes his phone number
What if e does extracurricular activities that cause him to change his numbers constantly?
Like what ?
Like being around the corner
Up the block
Down the street
From where
The pimps, prostitutes . And drug lords meet
Ummm all red flags lol
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Notice two posters making that statement are white.
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Ms Southern wrote: »Rhyme_Religion wrote: »Ms Southern wrote: »Rhyme_Religion wrote: »Ms Southern wrote: »And randomly changes his phone number
What if e does extracurricular activities that cause him to change his numbers constantly?
Like what ?
Like being around the corner
Up the block
Down the street
From where
The pimps, prostitutes . And drug lords meet
Ummm all red flags lol
I overstand all that
But sometimes for some dudes it ain't easy to leave that lifestyle
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i'm sure most of yalls moms were doing just fine for themselves ever before you ran into a lil money. So why would they need your money so bad now? You are enabling her.
its similar to a parent who lets their 20 something year old child still live at home, laying around the house all night, sleeping all day, not doing ? . They don't want to put 'em out. they love them. but sometimes love means not giving your mamma any more ? money!!! -
I've never given my parents money ....nor have they ever asked.
My man helps his mom out every month.....he has been doing it since before we met....that's their deal and I just stay out if it -
i'm sure most of yalls moms were doing just fine for themselves ever before you ran into a lil money. So why would they need your money so bad now? You are enabling her.
its similar to a parent who lets their 20 something year old child still live at home, laying around the house all night, sleeping all day, not doing ? . They don't want to put 'em out. they love them. but sometimes love means not giving your mamma any more ? money!!!
Hmm..I could think of why in some cases.
Money don't flow as easily when no longer have dependents...IJS. -
"lemme get two hunnid 'til my unemployment come in"
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MzGrahamBitches wrote: »Man ? that, what part of the game is it for your children to be helping YOU out financially? I'm not talking due to old age, I get that, but because of your own POOR financial decisions?
She made her choices in life, why do I have to bail her out for them when I'm HER child?
I mean occasionally, I know ? happens, but if it's consistent because you're making the same bad decisions..it gets old.
But she had my back for a whole year after I had my baby so I still feel obligated to at least loan her some money when she needs it, even though I've easily repaid that debt.
cause its my ? mama
she had my back for 23 years and counting, spent thousands on me, but i cant give her 100 ? dollars
yall hoes silly
you in debt wit yo mama forever stingy ass ? , you owe her yo life
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i'm sure most of yalls moms were doing just fine for themselves ever before you ran into a lil money. So why would they need your money so bad now? You are enabling her.
its similar to a parent who lets their 20 something year old child still live at home, laying around the house all night, sleeping all day, not doing ? . They don't want to put 'em out. they love them. but sometimes love means not giving your mamma any more ? money!!!
Respect the struggle, my dude.
Besides that, I'd prefer a man that can t take care of his mama as long as it's not in a self sacrificing way. How he treats his mom is a direct correlation to how he would treat me. -
MzGrahamBitches wrote: »i'm sure most of yalls moms were doing just fine for themselves ever before you ran into a lil money. So why would they need your money so bad now? You are enabling her.
its similar to a parent who lets their 20 something year old child still live at home, laying around the house all night, sleeping all day, not doing ? . They don't want to put 'em out. they love them. but sometimes love means not giving your mamma any more ? money!!!
Hmm..I could think of why in some cases.
Money don't flow as easily when no longer have dependents...IJS.
why? i'm talking about people who've been out of the house for years. who haven't been claimed as a dependant by their parents in a while. -
MzGrahamBitches wrote: »Man ? that, what part of the game is it for your children to be helping YOU out financially? I'm not talking due to old age, I get that, but because of your own POOR financial decisions?
She made her choices in life, why do I have to bail her out for them when I'm HER child?
I mean occasionally, I know ? happens, but if it's consistent because you're making the same bad decisions..it gets old.
But she had my back for a whole year after I had my baby so I still feel obligated to at least loan her some money when she needs it, even though I've easily repaid that debt.
ya'll (women) read too deep into it tho......everybody's mama is not asking them for money.....we may just know their situation and want to help out......some of us came up hard (and w/o dads) and watched our mothers struggle to make sure we ate good and had what we needed...then we still act the ? up!...i stayed in trouble...leaving work to come and deal with my ? , gettin woke up in the middle of the night by police, bailing me out and falling behind on her own bills ....through all those hard times all a young man can think about is "damn, mama be makin it happen.......ima make sure she straight when im able" and that ? lives with you.....honestly i WISH i could do MORE for my mama right now but i cant... -
lol @ you owe her your life..? that ? .
She CHOSE to have me just as I CHOSE to have my child. I would never be the type to act like my child is in debt to me because I did what I was supposed to do after I chose to have a kid.
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gold tooth/teeth
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tha_bride22 wrote: »i'm sure most of yalls moms were doing just fine for themselves ever before you ran into a lil money. So why would they need your money so bad now? You are enabling her.
its similar to a parent who lets their 20 something year old child still live at home, laying around the house all night, sleeping all day, not doing ? . They don't want to put 'em out. they love them. but sometimes love means not giving your mamma any more ? money!!!
Respect the struggle, my dude.
Besides that, I'd prefer a man that can t take care of his mama as long as it's not in a self sacrificing way. How he treats his mom is a direct correlation to how he would treat me.
people can take care of their mothers in so many more meaningful ways besides sending them money every month. Like I said, sometimes its MORE loving and caring to NOT give them money. -
Skyler White wrote: »MzGrahamBitches wrote: »Man ? that, what part of the game is it for your children to be helping YOU out financially? I'm not talking due to old age, I get that, but because of your own POOR financial decisions?
She made her choices in life, why do I have to bail her out for them when I'm HER child?
I mean occasionally, I know ? happens, but if it's consistent because you're making the same bad decisions..it gets old.
But she had my back for a whole year after I had my baby so I still feel obligated to at least loan her some money when she needs it, even though I've easily repaid that debt.
cause its my ? mama
she had my back for 23 years and counting, spent thousands on me, but i cant give her 100 ? dollars
yall hoes silly
you in debt wit yo mama forever stingy ass ? , you owe her yo life
Meanwhile your kids on welfare.
If your mom can take money from you knowing your kids depending on the govt for food, she aint ? and you ain't ? either
aint none of my kids on welfare
i dont kno wtf you talkin bout
thats why i dont talk to ghetto ass bougie ? now -
Yall could have neon blinking "I aint ? and will show you" signs over dudes heads.. and yall would still would have ambivalent feelings towards the dude ...
"oh its love"
yall ignore the signs -
MzGrahamBitches wrote: »lol @ you owe her your life..? that ? .
She CHOSE to have me just as I CHOSE to have my child. I would never be the type to act like my child is in debt to me because I did what I was supposed to do after I chose to have a kid.
she dont tell me im in debt to her
thats how i feel, my mama aint even gotta ask for it im ready to give it to here
im happy to give it to her
one of yall hoes problems is yall be tryin to replace a ? mother
why?
why yall get jealous over a ? momma?
tell me why -
lol..these dudes must've really done their mothers bad to be feeling this indebted to them as grown ass men.
Maybe we (women) understand it differently because we are women with children ourselves.
There are hard times/luck and then there are repercussions for continuous poor decision making.
I'm not about to be another outlet for when the money runs low...and I love my mother to death.
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imo its ok to help out your parent or parents as needs arise. but making monthly payments to them, paying their bills, etc.. is just beyond strange. and your spouse has every right to raise an issue about that. But if its just a girlfriend/boyfriend then it really isn't your place to say what they do with their money.
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yall hoes only show yall mothers love on mothers day
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Skyler White wrote: »Skyler White wrote: »MzGrahamBitches wrote: »Man ? that, what part of the game is it for your children to be helping YOU out financially? I'm not talking due to old age, I get that, but because of your own POOR financial decisions?
She made her choices in life, why do I have to bail her out for them when I'm HER child?
I mean occasionally, I know ? happens, but if it's consistent because you're making the same bad decisions..it gets old.
But she had my back for a whole year after I had my baby so I still feel obligated to at least loan her some money when she needs it, even though I've easily repaid that debt.
cause its my ? mama
she had my back for 23 years and counting, spent thousands on me, but i cant give her 100 ? dollars
yall hoes silly
you in debt wit yo mama forever stingy ass ? , you owe her yo life
Meanwhile your kids on welfare.
If your mom can take money from you knowing your kids depending on the govt for food, she aint ? and you ain't ? either
aint none of my kids on welfare
i dont kno wtf you talkin bout
thats why i dont talk to ghetto ass bougie ? now
Stop fronting plap, we know all three of your babymoms get Wic & $300 in stamps.
why you always talkin bout my kids and babymommas and ?
is you tryin to have the next one or somethin?
ill drop one in ya and hope the lil ? never do ? for you
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