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The hustle for the perfect gif is serious. I wanted to give you ? something ya'll ain't already seen. Or at least not overly used. Some thing fresh. Something funny. Something silly. Something that had that... that.. that spark. My search was long and arduous.
But I've gotten hungry as hell in the process, so I'm just giving y'all whatever while I grabs some chicken and beer.
Till next time...
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Skyler White wrote: »I cant do white men. The majority that are into black women date us because of some ? up stereotype or fetish...not because of genuine love for our beauty or culture.
me too @ the bolded, but not for the same reason as you, for me, pink ? looks terrifying, like it's see through or some ? , very off putting just from what i've seen in porn, i can only imagine how much scarier they look irl lol
You just broke will munny's heart. The anguish...the anguish! DO IT AGAIN.CashmoneyDux wrote: »Skyler White wrote: »I cant do white men. The majority that are into black women date us because of some ? up stereotype or fetish...not because of genuine love for our beauty or culture.
You need numbers to back that up.
You're kinda revealing yourself as a white here, buddy. Anything you wanna tell us?
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here is my official take...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gaj-7BroWNY -
Ok ? dat I declare logic...women want dope boys by an large women decide what they want in a man an men cater to that...if u want us in silk shirts silk is bak...u get preg he go to jail old story blame ya self..in africa the woman pays the bills an we stay home yall ? need better Jobs word to the lion
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Skyler White wrote: »Skyler White wrote: »I cant do white men. The majority that are into black women date us because of some ? up stereotype or fetish...not because of genuine love for our beauty or culture.
me too @ the bolded, but not for the same reason as you, for me, pink ? looks terrifying, like it's see through or some ? , very off putting just from what i've seen in porn, i can only imagine how much scarier they look irl lol
*deep sigh*
It's worse in person
*walks away*
lmao, no! i knew it
i know i'm wrong for this, but pink ? reminds me of naked mole rats lol
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Hate to say it, but I didn't read that ? either. That said, if TJ Sotomayor can create video after video demonizing and denigrating black women, it should be acceptable for a black woman to do the same with respect to black men. Why either is necessary, I don't know, but how about we all just agree that we're all ? up and leave it at that.
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SMH @ Kai ruining naked molerats for everyone.
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sweetheart93 wrote: »(:| Maybe she should just avoid black men, then maybe her problems will go away.
? yo cac husband -
BlackGerald wrote: »? yo cac husband
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Dr. Stitch wrote: »Look, I understand that racism is a ? . The way society treats you is ? --got it. But it's no excuse for the negative and poor treatment many Black women receive at the hands of Black men. And this is why I have just lost interest in the entire convo--because ? want hand holding instead of doing self reflection, self criticism and how they can better our community. Not angry. Not bitter. Just disinterested and over it.
I dont think we do our women any worse than ppl of other races do theirs...
I didn't say that. Since I am black, that's where my focus is.
I kno that aint exactly wut you said, my point is if someone told me "they dont like the way dogs treat cats"...that would "in my mind" imply that you feel like other animals treat cats better...i kno for a fact there are other races that go much harder on their women than blacc men do, & cant even complain about it...most young blacc women dont want the ? unless he fits the blacc hood/athletic stereotypes... -
Black women have it incredibly rough in this world, I will agree that a lot of Black men don't recognize that or do anything to help them. Black men got it hard but Black women have it twice as hard being double minorities.
? don't really wanna discuss that though so let's stick to the:The hustle for the perfect gif is serious. I wanted to give you ? something ya'll ain't already seen. Or at least not overly used. Some thing fresh. Something funny. Something silly. Something that had that... that.. that spark. My search was long and arduous.
But I've gotten hungry as hell in the process, so I'm just giving y'all whatever while I grabs some chicken and beer.
Till next time...
Kudos my ? , by far the funniest gif I've ever seen on here. -
Skyler White wrote: »Its funny how when you find happiness and love, articles like this make you laugh.
Even if I got divorced and ended up back on the market (? forbid!), my husband, men I've encountered in my social circles and profession, and a handful of you fine men on the IC have opened my eyes to how many good, quality black men there are out there. It ain't that damn dire out here.
You are what you attract. When I was out here doing hoodrat ? with my friends, I attracted bummy hoodrat ? .
It's always single ugly ? writing this ? when they could be bent over the bed getting ? and loved on by their nonexistent man.
Nothing to see here folks.
Let her hate Skyler, she just mad because Ice Cube don't want to reunite the Westside Connection
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Overall, black woman-centric discussion in this and similar spaces I found is not concerned with black men despite them being a topic. There is no wailing and moaning about why black men won’t change. There is no impatient demand that black men get themselves together. Or a lot of wincing for them to “come home” from non-black women. African American men simply have caused a lot of irreparable damage to themselves and the women in their group. And no amount of excuses, finger-pointing or demands that black women shut up about their experiences is going to change that.
This is probably the most telling and most important part of the article.
Unfortunately, I think the fragile egos of men will prevent them from taking anything constructive from this. The whole discussion of problems that we face have always been framed as being Black women's fault, from Steve Harvey and Tyler Perry. However, a lot of the dialogue never really centers on brothers learning to have better relationships with Black women and how racism contributes to them being unable to fully open up about how they can negatively effect sisters.
I can take all the bad rep, since I'm use to it, but you are right and most black men do not want to change from ? mongers, dead beats, sex addicts, drug addicts, chasing all the different races of women throughout the world, selling drugs, not going to school, living with their mother, etc due to not having higher standards. Black women and black men and the individual have failed them. Society takes advantage and pushes for that kind of backwater mentality as well and for black women. They need to wake up and smell the roses that they need to be an example and strengthen their community since no one is gonna do it for you. You just have to take care of your responsibilities and make it YOU and than you can preach to everyone about it and show them the true growth and progress.
Get rid of the Celtic mindset and foolishness and regain true principles and ideology to help your communities. -
Look, I understand that racism is a ? . The way society treats you is ? --got it. But it's no excuse for the negative and poor treatment many Black women receive at the hands of Black men. And this is why I have just lost interest in the entire convo--because ? want hand holding instead of doing self reflection, self criticism and how they can better our community. Not angry. Not bitter. Just disinterested and over it.
I don't want to pile on black women, because enough dudes already do this, but on the real, there is no group on earth that the bold applies to more than black women. I'm sorry but with black women it is always a pity party. Y'all are the ones always complaining about how bad you have it and blaming every other group under the sun for it. And if anyone even suggests that at least part of your position is due to your own actions, it's like that person committed the worst offense imaginable. -
Ajackson17 wrote: »Overall, black woman-centric discussion in this and similar spaces I found is not concerned with black men despite them being a topic. There is no wailing and moaning about why black men won’t change. There is no impatient demand that black men get themselves together. Or a lot of wincing for them to “come home” from non-black women. African American men simply have caused a lot of irreparable damage to themselves and the women in their group. And no amount of excuses, finger-pointing or demands that black women shut up about their experiences is going to change that.
This is probably the most telling and most important part of the article.
Unfortunately, I think the fragile egos of men will prevent them from taking anything constructive from this. The whole discussion of problems that we face have always been framed as being Black women's fault, from Steve Harvey and Tyler Perry. However, a lot of the dialogue never really centers on brothers learning to have better relationships with Black women and how racism contributes to them being unable to fully open up about how they can negatively effect sisters.
I can take all the bad rep, since I'm use to it, but you are right and most black men do not want to change from ? mongers, dead beats, sex addicts, drug addicts, chasing all the different races of women throughout the world, selling drugs, not going to school, living with their mother, etc due to not having higher standards. Black women and black men and the individual have failed them. Society takes advantage and pushes for that kind of backwater mentality as well and for black women. They need to wake up and smell the roses that they need to be an example and strengthen their community since no one is gonna do it for you. You just have to take care of your responsibilities and make it YOU and than you can preach to everyone about it and show them the true growth and progress.
Get rid of the Celtic mindset and foolishness and regain true principles and ideology to help your communities.
you sound like a member of the KKK with your ? ass generalizations -
The Lonious Monk wrote: »Look, I understand that racism is a ? . The way society treats you is ? --got it. But it's no excuse for the negative and poor treatment many Black women receive at the hands of Black men. And this is why I have just lost interest in the entire convo--because ? want hand holding instead of doing self reflection, self criticism and how they can better our community. Not angry. Not bitter. Just disinterested and over it.
I don't want to pile on black women, because enough dudes already do this, but on the real, there is no group on earth that the bold applies to more than black women. I'm sorry but with black women it is always a pity party. Y'all are the ones always complaining about how bad you have it and blaming every other group under the sun for it. And if anyone even suggests that at least part of your position is due to your own actions, it's like that person committed the worst offense imaginable.
It's more than just black women who do this. Every group does this. -
@stopitfive just give me a rebuttal or something if you going to wack or push feelings, let's have a healthy discussion.
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Ajackson17 wrote: »@stopitfive just give me a rebuttal or something if you going to wack or push feelings, let's have a healthy discussion.
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Overall, black woman-centric discussion in this and similar spaces I found is not concerned with black men despite them being a topic. There is no wailing and moaning about why black men won’t change. There is no impatient demand that black men get themselves together. Or a lot of wincing for them to “come home” from non-black women. African American men simply have caused a lot of irreparable damage to themselves and the women in their group. And no amount of excuses, finger-pointing or demands that black women shut up about their experiences is going to change that.
This is probably the most telling and most important part of the article.
Unfortunately, I think the fragile egos of men will prevent them from taking anything constructive from this. The whole discussion of problems that we face have always been framed as being Black women's fault, from Steve Harvey and Tyler Perry. However, a lot of the dialogue never really centers on brothers learning to have better relationships with Black women and how racism contributes to them being unable to fully open up about how they can negatively effect sisters.
Black men need to get their act together, and some of the posts in this thread are troubling reminders of that fact. (Not me, because I'm so awesome already.) But this post (and the blog in general) is not about constructive criticism. The author, like many of the commenters, sees black men as irreparably damaged. Her mind is made up; she doesn't want dialogue. She wants out. -
Didnt read but if u tryna blame black men 4 black womens problems then u lost...
stop tryna play da victim.. -
Lmao @ the first page...Hell naw...Hahahahahahaha...
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Skyler White wrote: »representingda203 wrote: »Ajackson17 wrote: »Overall, black woman-centric discussion in this and similar spaces I found is not concerned with black men despite them being a topic. There is no wailing and moaning about why black men won’t change. There is no impatient demand that black men get themselves together. Or a lot of wincing for them to “come home” from non-black women. African American men simply have caused a lot of irreparable damage to themselves and the women in their group. And no amount of excuses, finger-pointing or demands that black women shut up about their experiences is going to change that.
This is probably the most telling and most important part of the article.
Unfortunately, I think the fragile egos of men will prevent them from taking anything constructive from this. The whole discussion of problems that we face have always been framed as being Black women's fault, from Steve Harvey and Tyler Perry. However, a lot of the dialogue never really centers on brothers learning to have better relationships with Black women and how racism contributes to them being unable to fully open up about how they can negatively effect sisters.
I can take all the bad rep, since I'm use to it, but you are right and most black men do not want to change from ? mongers, dead beats, sex addicts, drug addicts, chasing all the different races of women throughout the world, selling drugs, not going to school, living with their mother, etc due to not having higher standards. Black women and black men and the individual have failed them. Society takes advantage and pushes for that kind of backwater mentality as well and for black women. They need to wake up and smell the roses that they need to be an example and strengthen their community since no one is gonna do it for you. You just have to take care of your responsibilities and make it YOU and than you can preach to everyone about it and show them the true growth and progress.
Get rid of the Celtic mindset and foolishness and regain true principles and ideology to help your communities.
you sound like a member of the KKK with your ? ass generalizations
Now imagine if someone said that about all of the black men who throw generalizations out about black women.
Sucks when the shoe is on the other foot
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Her blog is voided by her being ugly
? her because she is fat
