LADIES, WHAT ARE YOUR THOUGHTS ON YOUR MAN....
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Iheartheels
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Ladies or men, what are your thoughts on your significant other keeping pictures of their exes on hand?!
My man has old pictures of his ex stashed away....i don't approve of them but he insists that "you don't get rid of pictures".
My man has old pictures of his ex stashed away....i don't approve of them but he insists that "you don't get rid of pictures".
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Umm...and you are?
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Does that matter?
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You g'on find out if it does matter.
INB4 the IC Onslaught Interrogation.p -
Throw them ? away. Unless they have kids together and the pictures are with their child(ren).
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if d pics are on hand - means d current relationship isnt serious yet
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Not at all...no kids....he keeps them in a box but it still bothers me....i would understand if it's one but a whole stash....gtfoh
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I just want to get rid of the damn pictures but I also want to respect him and his belongings....am i a ? for wanting to get rid of old stuff?!
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is he a hoarder?
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No I don't think so...just thinks is wrong to get rid of pictures for some reason
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Iheartheels wrote: »No I don't think so...just thinks is wrong to get rid of pictures for some reason
Wait...so you dont know if he's a hoarder?
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Iheartheels wrote: »Not at all...no kids....he keeps them in a box but it still bothers me....i would understand if it's one but a whole stash....gtfoh
Dude might be a hoarder or he still has feelings for his ex or both. smh
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^^````i know so....the only thing he hoards is stupid pictures
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He's dumb for letting u see them ? ...or he just doesn't give a ? . I got a bunch of old pics & momentos from past relationships in a box in my moms attic. I won't see them unless I'm purposely looking for them. Otherwise...outta sight, outta mind.
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How did you see them? They're just pictures they shouldn't make you insecure unless they're placed around the house, he's fapping to them, or he tapes one of them to your head during sex. In a box? So what.
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Eh..is he looking at these pics or are they in storage? Are they risque pics or just regular?
I mean they do represent a time of his life even if it was before you. I have photo albums that have some pics of exes and past lovers in them. I'm not about to throw them away either, that was a chapter of my life.
I don't have them out nor do I really even look at them, but I might want to in my old age.
Guess it just depends on the nature of the pics. -
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I don't feel there is anything wrong with not getting rid of them, it's a part of his past, doesn't mean it's an active presence in the now or future.
If all that is bothering you is knowing he kept them and unless he constantly reminisces and relives the past, I'd say let it go. It's not that serious if what you have is secure and stable. -
I held onto old pics and letters too, until my "girl" became my wife. I had to let that ? go then.
Imagine him getting rid of all his pics and mementos only for you to blindside him on some "It's not you, it's me," or "I need to find myself" on a random Tuesday.
Well now all he's left with are pics of you. Pics that remind him of how you ? on him and how cruel love can be. He'll stop showering and shaving and eventually become obsessed with you and begin to stalk you and those in your new life, eventually driving you insane and incapable of walking alone in public without fear. Eventually you'll become an old crazy ass cat lady with a head full of rollers and an old robe with the string missing so you have to hold it together with one hand and a cigarette in the other.
You'll die alone with your face down in a bowl of kitty litter and fur ? sticking out ya ass.
Those old pics he keeps aren't for your man....they're for you. -
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wth? -
let me guess
He's light skin
Comes with the sensitive ? territory
You'll have to deal -
He's dumb for letting u see them ? ...or he just doesn't give a ? . I got a bunch of old pics & momentos from past relationships in a box in my moms attic. I won't see them unless I'm purposely looking for them. Otherwise...outta sight, outta mind.
This... -
let me guess
He's light skin
Comes with the sensitive ? territory
You'll have to deal
Whatchu tryna say about lightskin ? , B. -
Sexy pics? He should get rid of them
Social pics? keep them
If you catch him going through the pics reminiscing then get rid of him and his pics cause he's just not that into you. -
u share that dude...
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Breh for real?
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