Cheating in a relationship..yall don't wanna know?

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Rock_Well
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It the situation where your other cheated and you had no clue about it...

would you rather not know about it ever? why

Or you rather find out the truth, and know everything...even if was some time ago? why
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  • NoCompetition
    NoCompetition Members Posts: 3,661 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Hellyeah I wanna know. You can usually tell anyway somehow. I aint takin that.
  • Rock_Well
    Rock_Well Members Posts: 2,185 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited June 2013
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    i understand, but even if was a while ago in the relationship and the cheating was over and done with? Why ever find out if its not ongoing?
  • loch121
    loch121 Members Posts: 12,884 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    hell yeah I need to know

  • Ip man
    Ip man Members Posts: 995 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Hells yeah

    Poll this ?
  • Kat
    Kat Members Posts: 50,667 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Depends on the circumstances.
  • AZTG
    AZTG Members Posts: 7,598 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Cain1 wrote: »
    I would wanna know but I hope she never find out.

    realest post in this thread
  • 9TRAY
    9TRAY Members Posts: 6,830 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Out Of The Dark Into The Light
  • Billy_Poncho
    Billy_Poncho Members Posts: 22,382 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Why wouldn't you wanna know?
  • Rock_Well
    Rock_Well Members Posts: 2,185 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited June 2013
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    too late to add a poll...

    so everyone saying yall would need to know, if the situation was reversed, you were the one that cheated once upon a time a while back, and got away with it, you would confess to your girl about it all the way after the fact?
  • spit_fiya
    spit_fiya Members Posts: 2,531 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Dezehoesaintsheeeeeit
  • Rock_Well
    Rock_Well Members Posts: 2,185 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    CC_Poncho wrote: »
    Why wouldn't you wanna know?

    well me I would, i just wouldn't wanna tell her if it was me who did the cheating. lol

    not fair?
  • $ineedmoney$
    $ineedmoney$ Members Posts: 3,627 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Yeah Id wanna' know so I can prepare my next moves.

    I know people thats living together and gettin' cheated on so skantless, but dont have a clue. Some people ignore the signs and continue to play the sucker role. Some people are just built like that. I could never be on some, "Why did you do this to us?! I gave you everything! Lets work this out together!" lol
  • CeLLaR-DooR
    CeLLaR-DooR Members Posts: 18,880 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    In response to the thread. Course I'd wanna kno'. But she shouldn't tell me if she wants us to stay together. Some ? I hit a few years back told her man she cheated on him and he apologised to her. Can you believe that?

    "Jemma, I kno' you'd never do something like that unless you were pushed. What can I do to make you happy? I'm sorry if you felt I wasn't makin' you feel appreciated" smh fam what is that
  • 9TRAY
    9TRAY Members Posts: 6,830 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    LMAO @? To The Tenth Power
  • Crude_
    Crude_ Members Posts: 19,964 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Depends on the circumstances like its already been said.

    If it was just a one time thing were there is no chance of me ever finding out or if it was on my end where it was one time and no chance of my wife ever finding out I'd probably keep that ? to myself.

    I probably wouldn't hold it against my wife if she did the same either if it was something I never found out about just speaking hypothetical.

    Sometimes being to honest is more hurtful than lying.

    Everyone can't handle the truth know your mate.

  • Well Got Dam
    Well Got Dam Members Posts: 5,440 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    there are signs to tell if your hoe cheating

    getting mad at you for no particular reason

    stops giving you head

    when you go to kiss the ? she turns her head to kiss her cheeks

    ? start changing her dress code

    just a few signs that will tell you you are just a seceondary ? now
  • Crude_
    Crude_ Members Posts: 19,964 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    there are signs to tell if your hoe cheating

    getting mad at you for no particular reason

    stops giving you head

    when you go to kiss the ? she turns her head to kiss her cheeks

    ? start changing her dress code

    just a few signs that will tell you you are just a seceondary ? now

    Sounds like you speaking from experience pimpin.
  • Well Got Dam
    Well Got Dam Members Posts: 5,440 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited June 2013
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    there are signs to tell if your hoe cheating

    getting mad at you for no particular reason

    stops giving you head

    when you go to kiss the ? she turns her head to kiss her cheeks

    ? start changing her dress code

    just a few signs that will tell you you are just a seceondary ? now

    Sounds like you speaking from experience pimpin.

    no doubt, i had two hoes do this exact ? ........and i kept it moving never understood them try to work it out (relationship) ? .........im off to the next brawd
  • playmaker88
    playmaker88 Members Posts: 67,905 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    hell yea i want to know, so i can bounce, i have an ability to mentally ball ? up like a little piece of paper and throw it away
  • KingFreeman
    KingFreeman Members Posts: 13,731 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    I definitely need to know so I can leave. She doesn't need to know but if she finds out we need to work it out!!
  • CapitalB
    CapitalB Members Posts: 24,556 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited June 2013
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    when iv been cheated on in the past id always use that ? against the ? ..
    u dont get leverage on someone until they ? up..

    ? 'll look up and cant have friends.. visit family.. have any social site activity and so on..
    meanwhile im out doin what the ? i want. lol

    but real ? .. i use to always tell ? if u go do what u do.. do it to where i dont find out.. at
    least give me that respect.. be smart..
  •   Colin$mackabi$h
    Colin$mackabi$h Members Posts: 16,586 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    you have to know