Ladies - How would you feel if you found out your man was a trick in a former life?

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Kat
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Before ya'll get all riled up, this topic IS NOT about me and my bf.

Okay, so lets say you got nosey and went through some ? and found emails basically showing your man was tricking off on females before ya'll got together?

Like emails where the girl basically sends him a link to something she wants and him jumping to buy it for her?

Would that turn you off?
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  • MsSouthern
    MsSouthern Members, Moderators Posts: 21,791 Regulator
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    Only if he wasn't buying me stuff now


    or if he was going broke behind it


    it' ain't really trickin if you got it


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  • deadeye
    deadeye Members Posts: 22,884 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    What inspired this thread Kathryn?
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  • Kat
    Kat Members Posts: 50,667 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Does it matter?

    I agree @MsSouthern.

    If he either wasn't spending OR being financially tough on his current gf, I'd be ? .

    But you wouldn't be a bit turned off?

    I would.

    Just cause you got it doesn't mean you should be throwing it at broke ? .
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  • Bussy_Getta
    Bussy_Getta Members Posts: 37,679 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    AS LONG AS HE TRICKIN ON ME THEN NOOOOO ? !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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  • BrideofKilla
    BrideofKilla Guests, Members, Writer, Content Producer Posts: 4,566 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Depends on how much he was spending.

    Small trinkets, getting nails done, special occasion gifts, no problem.

    But if he's paying for vacations, cosigning cars,stuff like that? He will be labeled a trick and would be treated as such from that moment on.

    And if he doesn't comply he can kick rocks because clearly he felt some kind of way about the woman he did all the tricking on.
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  • deadeye
    deadeye Members Posts: 22,884 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    MzGrahamBitches wrote: »
    Does it matter?

    Just curious.

    Usually whenever these types of threads are made, it's because of a real-life situation that the t/s either experienced or heard about from a friend or acquaintance.

    Figured it might make things more interesting.

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  • Kat
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    B.BeST wrote: »
    LoL @ it aint trickin if u got it, logically if u are giving its because u HAVE IT, so yea your a trick that gives on demand to receive pleasure.... Duhhhhh.

    If a ? gives up his last hunnid to ? a broad its because HE GOT IT to give.... Rich ? get no pass, just because they have more to give doesn't make it any better. Trickin is Trickin rather u Rich or Check to Check.

    Co-sign.

    Tricking isn't just about the money, it's about the pride you have in yourself.

    ? a broke ? .
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  • Copper
    Copper Members Posts: 49,532 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Materialistic hoes.....buy ur own ?
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  • Copper
    Copper Members Posts: 49,532 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Why zee get clapped?
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  • MsSouthern
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    Copper wrote: »
    Materialistic hoes.....buy ur own ?

    you're not welcome in here due to the fact that you didn't drop a pic in that thread


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  • Kat
    Kat Members Posts: 50,667 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Ain't nobody trying to see that...
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  • Copper
    Copper Members Posts: 49,532 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    MsSouthern wrote: »
    Copper wrote: »
    Materialistic hoes.....buy ur own ?

    you're not welcome in here due to the fact that you didn't drop a pic in that thread

    ? that thread
    MzGrahamBitches wrote: »
    Ain't nobody trying to see that...

    U were
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  • Chi Snow
    Chi Snow Guests, Members, Writer, Content Producer Posts: 28,111 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    So paying for ? means you have no pride?

    I guess those that eat out vs cooking have no pride.....
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  • Meta_Conscious
    Meta_Conscious Members Posts: 26,227 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    so a ? buying a "chick" something is automatic tricking?
    so y'all s/o dont buy y'all ? or y'all consider them tricks?
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  • Kat
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    Chicity wrote: »
    So paying for ? means you have no pride?

    I guess those that eat out vs cooking have no pride.....

    Nah, I couldn't in good faith spend money on a man KNOWING damn well the only reason they're giving me any play is to see what they could get out of me...I'd rather be alone.

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  • nex gin
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    MsSouthern wrote: »
    Only if he wasn't buying me stuff now


    or if he was going broke behind it


    it' ain't really trickin if you got it


    A ? lie perpetrated by self hating simps and thirsty ass sugar daddies.
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  • blakfyahking
    blakfyahking Members Posts: 15,785 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    one of you females please explain to me how it's bad for a male to be a "trick" in your eyes

    confused-bush.jpg

    are you salty cause he spent/spending more on other females?

    or are you looking down on him somehow cause you think he had to pay for ? to get any?
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  • Copper
    Copper Members Posts: 49,532 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Stop measuring relationshipa in how much money a man spends on u vs someone else
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  • Copper
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    Copper wrote: »
    Why zee get clapped?

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  • Kat
    Kat Members Posts: 50,667 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    I wouldn't be salty cause he spent money on other females if I felt it were a two way street.

    But to get the vibe that this dude is truly tricking off on a broke leeching ass ? like some type of simp, that ? is a turn off.


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  • MsSouthern
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    Copper wrote: »
    Copper wrote: »
    Why zee get clapped?

    goodness

    she asked to be banned ....now get on topic

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  • Kat
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    Copper wrote: »
    Stop measuring relationshipa in how much money a man spends on u vs someone else

    ? that ? .

    Let's say you were with a woman that was selfish about giving head, then you get in the emails and see that this ? was giving head to dudes before you freely...

    You wouldn't feel some type of way?
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  • Copper
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    MzGrahamBitches wrote: »
    Copper wrote: »
    Stop measuring relationshipa in how much money a man spends on u vs someone else

    ? that ? .

    Let's say you were with a woman that was selfish about giving head, then you get in the emails and see that this ? was giving head to dudes before you freely...

    You wouldn't feel some type of way?

    Giving head is the female equivalent to spending money?
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  • Copper
    Copper Members Posts: 49,532 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    I just cut a chick off last month for asking me for 30$
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