How do y'all feel about dudes who don't smoke or drink?
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I'm a social drinker (2 drink max).
After this whole breastfeeding thing is done, I'm not sure if I'm going to continue on this sober route. I'm a smoker. I can completely function without it. I just prefer to smoke.
I had a couple ex's who didn't smoke and me doing it wasn't a problem, but I do prefer to smoke with my partner.
But if my partner didn't- he'd have to be funny af lol -
SixSickSins wrote: »I'm happy that you've turned your life around and are hopefully much better But I'm just not down with taking drugs for recreational purposes.
"taking drugs for recreational purposes" and what do you think alcohol is young lady? -
ay ya'll.....wtf is a bidi?
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mryounggun wrote: »Lol. The ? ??? How can that possibly be a bad thing or a turn off? I'd be interested to hear from any ladies who feel like that.
Alcohol/smoking comes up:
females: I be dranking on this blah blah blah that's hella good blah blah blah I was gone last night!! blah blah blah what you dranking on? Hey 7 rolls royces, what you like to drank?
Me: I don't drink.
Females: (silence & blank stares) You don't drink...... ..... ...do you smoke..... ..?
me: Nope, I don't smoke either
females: Wow!..........ummm..... ... well what do you do then?.... ... I mean...... is it for spiritual reasons?
Me: Ummm, what are you talking about? what do you mean by what do I do? Am I supposed to be doing something?
Females: Ummm, well......I......I mean that's cool, that's...that's nice, congratulations. I mean there's nothing wrong with that I guess...... ...
Me: Well damn!, is that like a problem or something? I usually get that response.
Females: I mean..........nothing is wrong with it, it's just.........rare, that's allBye Felicia wrote: »Cigarette smoke is a no go though. Ever since I quit, I can't tolerate the odor
The conversation is the reverse whenever it's about smoking lol.
Bidis and black & milds are tolerable but no squaresMoneyPowerRespect wrote: »I'm a social drinker (2 drink max).
After this whole breastfeeding thing is done, I'm not sure if I'm going to continue on this sober route. I'm a smoker. I can completely function without it. I just prefer to smoke.
I had a couple ex's who didn't smoke and me doing it wasn't a problem, but I do prefer to smoke with my partner.
But if my partner didn't- he'd have to be funny af lol
Could you ladies please explain? I think this might have went over my head.
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Lamilton3000 wrote: »SixSickSins wrote: »I'm happy that you've turned your life around and are hopefully much better But I'm just not down with taking drugs for recreational purposes.
"taking drugs for recreational purposes" and what do you think alcohol is young lady?ay ya'll.....wtf is a bidi?
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@7_rolls_royces
You know I just had a bby, right?
Well, I'm breastfeeding. Which means no smoking and I haven't even attempted to drink anything. Hence the 'sober route'. But, I'm not going to breastfeed him forever tho. And I'm not sure if I wanna get off the 'sober wagon'.
But when I was smoking, I preferred that my partner smoke with me. It's just weird being around somebody doesn't.
The 'funny' comment was because some people that I've come across who don't do either are...well...boring to an extent. -
MoneyPowerRespect wrote: »@7_rolls_royces
You know I just had a bby, right?
Well, I'm breastfeeding. Which means no smoking and I haven't even attempted to drink anything. Hence the 'sober route'. But, I'm not going to breastfeed him forever tho. And I'm not sure if I wanna get off the 'sober wagon'.
But when I was smoking, I preferred that my partner smoke with me. It's just weird being around somebody doesn't.
The 'funny' comment was because some people that I've come across who don't do either are...well...boring to an extent.
why is it weird for you to be around a man who doesn't inhale deadly toxins and smell like an ash tray?(smoking)?
What's so great/fun about a man that smokes to you?
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@7_rolls_royces
Imho, 2 drinks isn't enough to be considered ? and I don't drink to get ? . Just unwind and chill to be perfectly honest. I'm not in a rush to do any of that.
As far as smoking, it was something that I liked to do. It has nothing to do with anybody else. It's just a plus that I can do it with him. -
7_rolls_royces wrote: »mryounggun wrote: »Lol. The ? ??? How can that possibly be a bad thing or a turn off? I'd be interested to hear from any ladies who feel like that.
Alcohol/smoking comes up:
females: I be dranking on this blah blah blah that's hella good blah blah blah I was gone last night!! blah blah blah what you dranking on? Hey 7 rolls royces, what you like to drank?
Me: I don't drink.
Females: (silence & blank stares) You don't drink...... ..... ...do you smoke..... ..?
me: Nope, I don't smoke either
females: Wow!..........ummm..... ... well what do you do then?.... ... I mean...... is it for spiritual reasons?
Me: Ummm, what are you talking about? what do you mean by what do I do? Am I supposed to be doing something?
Females: Ummm, well......I......I mean that's cool, that's...that's nice, congratulations. I mean there's nothing wrong with that I guess...... ...
Me: Well damn!, is that like a problem or something? I usually get that response.
Females: I mean..........nothing is wrong with it, it's just.........rare, that's all
The bolded always kills me with some people... as if the only logical reason for a person not to smoke or drink must be for religious/spiritual reasons!
And lol @ the congratulations also, like it's somewhat of an achievement in life not to indulge in this ? .
Give me props when you see me going without oxygen for 10 minutes
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Just get in great shape and develop a playa ass personality. If ur body is ripped and personality is on point even the biggest drug and liquor head bird won't give a ? that u don't smoke or drink.
Also when the topic comes up, don't be so damn serious and learn to make jokes about why u don't smoke or drink -
Just get in great shape and develop a playa ass personality. If ur body is ripped and personality is on point even the biggest drug and liquor head bird won't give a ? that u don't smoke or drink.
Also when the topic comes up, don't be so damn serious and learn to make jokes about why u don't smoke or drink
I slack off for a month or 2 but I'm bout to get back into the gym. It wont take long for my muscles to develop because I only got a 12% body mass. Plus I'm bout to start back shooting ball. Exercising is one of the most important hobbies to do & it relieves alot of health issues -
I don't know what it is but whenever a chick found out that I don't drink, she tends to try to get me to drink lol (but I never do). I had a neighbor like that, she use to always say "T, you gon drink with me one day?".
Sometimes it lead me easy access to that pu**y from various chicks But I am a funny mfer, so must be a strong reason too -
ay ya'll.....wtf is a bidi?
A bidi is tobacco wrapped in ? leaves...They look like little greenish brown joints...And because they wrapped in ? you actually get a lil high from the ? ... -
MoneyPowerRespect wrote: »@7_rolls_royces
Imho, 2 drinks isn't enough to be considered ? and I don't drink to get ? . Just unwind and chill to be perfectly honest. I'm not in a rush to do any of that.
As far as smoking, it was something that I liked to do. It has nothing to do with anybody else. It's just a plus that I can do it with him.
I just asked you what was so special about a man who indulges in these activities. I also asked you what turns you off/your issue with a dude who didn't. Juts give me one serious solid answer to these questions woman!Valentinez A. Kaiser wrote: »7_rolls_royces wrote: »mryounggun wrote: »Lol. The ? ??? How can that possibly be a bad thing or a turn off? I'd be interested to hear from any ladies who feel like that.
Alcohol/smoking comes up:
females: I be dranking on this blah blah blah that's hella good blah blah blah I was gone last night!! blah blah blah what you dranking on? Hey 7 rolls royces, what you like to drank?
Me: I don't drink.
Females: (silence & blank stares) You don't drink...... ..... ...do you smoke..... ..?
me: Nope, I don't smoke either
females: Wow!..........ummm..... ... well what do you do then?.... ... I mean...... is it for spiritual reasons?
Me: Ummm, what are you talking about? what do you mean by what do I do? Am I supposed to be doing something?
Females: Ummm, well......I......I mean that's cool, that's...that's nice, congratulations. I mean there's nothing wrong with that I guess...... ...
Me: Well damn!, is that like a problem or something? I usually get that response.
Females: I mean..........nothing is wrong with it, it's just.........rare, that's all
The bolded always kills me with some people... as if the only logical reason for a person not to smoke or drink must be for religious/spiritual reasons!
And lol @ the congratulations also, like it's somewhat of an achievement in life not to indulge in this ? .
Give me props when you see me going without oxygen for 10 minutesJust get in great shape and develop a playa ass personality. If ur body is ripped and personality is on point even the biggest drug and liquor head bird won't give a ? that u don't smoke or drink.
Also when the topic comes up, don't be so damn serious and learn to make jokes about why u don't smoke or drink
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i wouldn't care unless he was on some i don't do it neither should you ? . he can do whatever makes him happy long as i can do the same. drugs are fun tho so i'll probably be a bad influence on them lol
Have fun but becareful with them drugs sweete,make sure you with people who look out for you,we don't need yo pretty black ass od'n on nothin
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Druggs are funny until you reach33 y/o and you start having soft to none ? while layin on the bed and having a trash sex game (quick exhaustion, ? time severly reduced during ? ).
T/S most of the people who smoke are just doing it cause they wanted to be in during their teenage. Plus its still the image of the tough guy/gentleman/marlene Dietrich, the individual who has 'swagg'.
Do you.
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Druggs are funny until you reach33 y/o and you start having soft to none ? while layin on the bed and having a trash sex game (quick exhaustion, ? time severly reduced during ? ).
T/S most of the people who smoke are just doing it cause they wanted to be in during their teenage. Plus its still the image of the tough guy/gentleman/marlene Dietrich, the individual who has 'swagg'.
Do you.
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being sober is highly overrated
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A guy who indulges in such activities is cool with me because it gives me a partner.
It's a turn off when they don't because the people that I've come across seem to be boring/uninteresting. -
MoneyPowerRespect wrote: »A guy who indulges in such activities is cool with me because it gives me a partner.
It's a turn off when they don't because the people that I've come across seem to be boring/uninteresting.
So basically what you're saying is that smoking and drankin is an important thing in your life. So if a dude doesn't take part in it then it's a turn off/deal breaker.
I hear you about having somebody to indulge in something that's important in your life. But what I really want to know is what's so "appealing", "exciting", and "interesting" about a guy who does?
This is something else I wanted to talk about.
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I like it when female asks me if I smoke or drink before I ask her. it let's me know that she smokes and drinks..
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i dont mind a women who drinks but smoking of any kind is gross to me big turn off to me,trying to kiss a women with a smelley body or stank breath
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Don't matter to me as long as he ain't trying to preach.
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SixSickSins wrote: »I'm happy that you've turned your life around and are hopefully much better But I'm just not down with taking drugs for recreational purposes.
How you doing? Did I ever introduce myself to u? If not, then Im Silverfoxx. And im drug/ alcohol free. -
But me and TS in the same boat because I agree what everything he is saying. I feel that whenever females find that out be me, they consider me to be a lame or some ? . Then again my age group is still wild n ? so im considered to mature and old.