should single moms remain single until their kids are older?
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Single mothers don't need to bring any ? around their kids until they are for sure know they are getting married. Then you let the kids be around them and get to know them.
New laws should be in effect.
1) Adultery like in various countries for example South Korea should be illegal and 30 days to 90 days jail time for first time offense.
2) Divorce should be only available if there is abuse and if there is the one that is causing it should be in prison for 5 years or more.
3) If you get a woman pregnant and you do not violate it and you are the father after DNA test you are forced to marry her and vice versa.
Stiff penalities for all parties. -
Lou Cypher wrote: »I think itd be better than having 7 boyfriends while the kid is growing up.
I think you meant UNCLES -
let them
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I don't see anything wrong with single moms dating .... They just need to be held accountable for their choices.
Most abuse cases I've seen that involve the current boyfriend as the perp usually there have been some signs that's he is a ? . Like previous DV and drug abuse
I refuse to believe these women saw no signs what so ever -
Yep..
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Alot of women date solely for the free babysitting.
I have an acquaintance like that...she has a daughter too.
I just smh @ that.
*Doe B voice* Let Me Find Out -
The replies in this thread are the exact reason why the west in falling.
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No she shouldn't wait til they're older per say but she should wait until the relationship is serious before introducing that man to her children. Those are your kids and they're automatically going to be part of his life too so you shouldn't have to be told make sure as much as you can he's not some random crazy person before you introduce him
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who is this ? ?? somebody give him some attention. lol
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did i touch a nerve ?BOSSExcellence wrote: »who is this ? ?? somebody give him some attention. lol
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Yet you didn't provide an answer to my question, which leads me to believe you just reached up your ass for a typical single mother logic remark. -
nah.. not even the slightest..
did i touch a nerve ?BOSSExcellence wrote: »who is this ? ?? somebody give him some attention. lol
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It's not even about dating imo...
Why is he around your child while you are still getting to know him?
Why is he watching your child unsupervised?
Why does he live with you? Went do you live with him?
Why is all of this necessary? -
It's not even about dating imo...
Why is he around your child while you are still getting to know him?
Why is he watching your child unsupervised?
Why does he live with you? Went do you live with him?
Why is all of this necessary?
If you can't avoid this, stay single. -
i jus wanna know what ? broke this ? heart!!? u can tell he got wit a ? got too attached to the kid and lost himself..
ur not gonna find redemption in talkin ? about single mothers bruh..
jus man up next time.. -
Take it one step further...
Should women be charged with child endangerment when they leave the child with these molestors/ abusers? -
It's not even about dating imo...
Why is he around your child while you are still getting to know him?
Why is he watching your child unsupervised?
Why does he live with you? Went do you live with him?
Why is all of this necessary?
Agreed. For me to feel comfortable with my son being around a woman that's not his mother when I'm not around...it's gonna take some YEARS. -
Take it one step further...
Should women be charged with child endangerment when they leave the child with these molestors/ abusers?
you know single mothers cant be held for their actions -
BOSSExcellence wrote: »i jus wanna know what ? broke this ? heart!!? u can tell he got wit a ? got too attached to the kid and lost himself..
ur not gonna find redemption in talkin ? about single mothers bruh..
jus man up next time..
Not me, I live in ATL. Like Thot said these dudes been killing these kids lately. ? had been in the news a lot recently. -
Just depends on the maturity of the woman, alot of these young women are too focus on themselves more so...(peep that hoodrat FB thread)...women like that should wait until their kids are of age (teens)...they themselves are mentally messed up...So yea some women should wait..because of the fact that I don't think they could balance a family like that..meaning...having a intelligent man and being a woman and try to build with that dude..being able to see if that dude fits her life..rather than seeing if he can fit to pay her bills or so tells you if a single mother is ready to date a man with a small kid...most are still little girls with kids..so that's alot there on her plate already.....and to bring a man in their lives that would only add on the ? -upness of her situation...most women with a kid want a good dude or to date, but can she balance that...meaning can she spend time with the dude and her (child), it may sound and read off as being a easy task but the ? isn't ? can stress out a chick who mind isn't prepared for that life..so maturity comes into play on the woman side..
Her mind has to be on point, first and foremost..now if the woman is focus on actually wanting a family or trying to build something not just 'wanting a man' cuz she's lonely and that's protocol for her..(again peep that hoodrat FB thread) then she can date and look for her a man... -
are we still wacking @kat post just because
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It Ain't Ralph Doe wrote: »are we still wacking @kat post just because
nah..
we govin her "feelings" lol -
BOSSExcellence wrote: »i jus wanna know what ? broke this ? heart!!? u can tell he got wit a ? got too attached to the kid and lost himself..
ur not gonna find redemption in talkin ? about single mothers bruh..
jus man up next time..
Not me, I live in ATL. Like Thot said these dudes been killing these kids lately. ? had been in the news a lot recently.
? shut up..
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BOSSExcellence wrote: »It Ain't Ralph Doe wrote: »are we still wacking @kat post just because
nah..
we govin her "feelings" lol
You hush. -
Take it one step further...
Should women be charged with child endangerment when they leave the child with these molestors/ abusers?
They usually are ....
