Was I wrong for shattering my Pops dream on his 66th Bday…..

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  • kzzl
    kzzl Members Posts: 7,548 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    This is what happens when you want to be "nice".

    Your moms just walked all over and played you like a fiddle.

    You wanna be nice and ? , but watch. I bet she pulls this same thing again.

    Or has she done this before already?

    Either way, you're enabling her behavior.
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  • MzKB
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    Parallel wrote: »
    MzKB wrote: »
    Parallel wrote: »
    Did you try to incorporate her into the planning portion and she blew you off?

    She didn't want anything to do with the planning!

    reference post above yours

    So you did try to incorporate her into the planning and she blew you off, right?

    If so then I do see where you're coming from but I the timing of "revealing" could have been a little better.

    Understood.

    My brother called me and was like "Yeah Mom told me you were planning something for Dads birthday!"

    I'm like wtf!
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  • MzKB
    MzKB Members Posts: 3,366 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    kzzl wrote: »
    This is what happens when you want to be "nice".

    Your moms just walked all over and played you like a fiddle.

    You wanna be nice and ? , but watch. I bet she pulls this same thing again.

    Or has she done this before already?

    Either way, you're enabling her behavior.

    My Mom is extra sensitive and is emotionally unstable. So saying something to her would have made the situation worse.
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  • D0wn
    D0wn Members Posts: 10,818 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    ? ass ? . Try to make it all about uuuuuuuu
    I Know where u coming from. BUT
    U should of just road the wave. Ya pops was happy, and thats what it was all about
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  • Dr.Chemix
    Dr.Chemix Members Posts: 11,816 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    This is MzKB thread so no derail attempts here

    But hot damn Dr.Evil, who the ? is that in your sig????
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  • So ILL
    So ILL Members Posts: 16,507 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    I laughed at every strike after the third one. Not the incidents themselves, but the fact that you went past three strikes in your original post. This alone tells me that you were ? about the whole situation lol.
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  • cainvelasquez
    cainvelasquez Members Posts: 1,156 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Nah, you did that. You be happy. Your father lost though for marrying a woman who can't even buy him cake for his bday, smh.
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  • jetlifebih
    jetlifebih Guests, Members, Writer, Content Producer Posts: 4,655 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    At the end of the day does it really matter who is responsible or got the credit?? You know the truth, and what matters is that you gave him something he never had

    On the flip, ya moms ain't ? but a attention ? , she to old for that, that's something a chick my age does...
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  • Trollio
    Trollio Members Posts: 25,815 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    fight her in the streets
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  • reapin505
    reapin505 Members Posts: 4,009 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Ehhh you shoulda pulled your mom to the side instead of your dad. Just cause she is emotionally unstable doesn't mean that she should get away with this. But you coulda waited to tell your pops at least.
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  • Ajackson17
    Ajackson17 Members Posts: 22,501 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    I would have knocked my mom out for that or that got that benzino treatment.

    Black people smfh!!!!!!!
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  • dalyricalbandit
    dalyricalbandit Members, Moderators Posts: 67,918 Regulator
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    had u spoke up and said "WE" when mom dukes was taking all the shine would've been the best thing to do plus that would've prob made him happier knowing his daughter and wife set it up
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  • In Your Moms Room
    In Your Moms Room Members Posts: 7,383 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    If u smell something bad. It's because you're an ? .

    Your pops was happy. That's what should matter. You wanted to make sure you credit for the party. That's selfish.
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  • MsSouthern
    MsSouthern Members, Moderators Posts: 21,791 Regulator
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    I understand why you wanted to tell him ......but you should have waited

    If he ended up being disappointed at the end of his bday party ....you did ruin it.

    even though your mom is foul for what she did

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  • WhoisDonG???
    WhoisDonG??? Members Posts: 2,573 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    You should've just let it go. No point in ruining a great moment so you can get credit and feel vindicated. Pops was happy now you throwing salt in the game to make your moms look bad.
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  • THIRDSUPREME
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    Charge it to the game.
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  • MontyM.Max
    MontyM.Max Members Posts: 1,323 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    ? up the ? birthday so you could get some recognition? Sounds like you're more like yo moms than you realize/admit.
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  • FourEfil
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    This thread is like those scenarios when your girl is telling you her problems, you give her advice but she just wants to hear herself talk.
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