Why You Should Always Have Sex On A First Date
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Ladies – we’ve all heard it before: every woman’s magazine, all your girlfriends and every dating site have always been adamant about one rule of dating – no sex on the first date. Even Millionaire Matchmaker, Patti Stanger, is strict about the rule “no sex without monogamy.”
You know Patti Stanger is still single, right?
I’m here to tell you to ignore what everyone says and go ahead and bang him on the first date. How do I know? Well, nearly all my long-term relationships have stemmed from giving it up on date one – including my now husband.
Sexually compatible
From a girl who has slept with countless amounts of men, and a few ladies – I know from doing my research that it’s difficult to find a good lay nowadays. We are all into different things in bed, and if he has a really f*cked up fetish like symorophilia, mucophilia or plushophilia – trust me, you want to find this out straight away and get the f*ck out of there. And if you didn’t really have a good time on your date, but you find him really ridiculously hot, the sex might be amazing and boom: you’ve found yourself a new f*ck-buddy!
? size
I don’t know about you, but when I’m interested in a man, my mind usually goes towards the issue of size: the size of his wallet and also the size of his ? . Sure, every guy probably thinks that he’s huge, but ladies – we know that the majority of men are average at best. So, before you invest any of your valuable spare time in this man, it’s advantageous for you to meet his ? – and the sooner, the better.
How disappointed would you be if you dated this man for weeks, invested weekends where you forwent hanging out in the Hamptons with your girlfriends getting white girl wasted, only to discover that your potential boyfriend has a weird, bendy ? , is an uncircumcised sharpei, or has a ? the size of a cocktail wiener? Take my advice and investigate down south sooner rather than later.
Avoids Awkwardness
When there is so much sexual tension between the two of you, it tends to make things awkward. While courtship and dating are fun, a lot of the time dating is a bit of a drag. After all, isn’t all that dating just leading to the big finale of a ? ? Having sex on the first date greatly reduces the anxiety that you both are experiencing and also eliminates all the trivial concerns that go with dating.
If you bang him on the first date, you don’t really need to worry so much about the impression you’re giving off on the second date – feel free to show up in yoga pants and a tank top because – guess what? He’s already seen you naked! The jig is up. And all those games that you play on the first few dates can also be eradicated – not sure about who is going to pay the check? Feel free to push that bill right over to him because, guess what? You sucked his ? last week. He can at least pay for dinner.
Investment of time
We are all busy and time-poor in today’s hectic world. Dating is a huge endeavor that not only sucks up your free time, but sometimes it could end up costing you money; money that you can be spending on those new shoes, liposuction or Botox.
Sex, on the other hand, is a good gauge of whether all this effort is worth it, so why go through countless dates only to find out that hey – maybe you don’t want his ? in you? Alternatively, if you bang him right away, you can make an informed decision about whether you want to invest anymore of your valuable time and money into this man.
Let’s face it – we are busy ladies. F*ck being coy – go out and get laid. If it feels right, do it.
Good things comes to those who wait? I say wait too long and no one gets to come.
The Trophy Wife
Photo Credit: The Paper Wall
@_Trophy_Wife
www.LifeofaTrophyWife.co
Ladies – we’ve all heard it before: every woman’s magazine, all your girlfriends and every dating site have always been adamant about one rule of dating – no sex on the first date. Even Millionaire Matchmaker, Patti Stanger, is strict about the rule “no sex without monogamy.”
You know Patti Stanger is still single, right?
I’m here to tell you to ignore what everyone says and go ahead and bang him on the first date. How do I know? Well, nearly all my long-term relationships have stemmed from giving it up on date one – including my now husband.
Sexually compatible
From a girl who has slept with countless amounts of men, and a few ladies – I know from doing my research that it’s difficult to find a good lay nowadays. We are all into different things in bed, and if he has a really f*cked up fetish like symorophilia, mucophilia or plushophilia – trust me, you want to find this out straight away and get the f*ck out of there. And if you didn’t really have a good time on your date, but you find him really ridiculously hot, the sex might be amazing and boom: you’ve found yourself a new f*ck-buddy!
? size
I don’t know about you, but when I’m interested in a man, my mind usually goes towards the issue of size: the size of his wallet and also the size of his ? . Sure, every guy probably thinks that he’s huge, but ladies – we know that the majority of men are average at best. So, before you invest any of your valuable spare time in this man, it’s advantageous for you to meet his ? – and the sooner, the better.
How disappointed would you be if you dated this man for weeks, invested weekends where you forwent hanging out in the Hamptons with your girlfriends getting white girl wasted, only to discover that your potential boyfriend has a weird, bendy ? , is an uncircumcised sharpei, or has a ? the size of a cocktail wiener? Take my advice and investigate down south sooner rather than later.
Avoids Awkwardness
When there is so much sexual tension between the two of you, it tends to make things awkward. While courtship and dating are fun, a lot of the time dating is a bit of a drag. After all, isn’t all that dating just leading to the big finale of a ? ? Having sex on the first date greatly reduces the anxiety that you both are experiencing and also eliminates all the trivial concerns that go with dating.
If you bang him on the first date, you don’t really need to worry so much about the impression you’re giving off on the second date – feel free to show up in yoga pants and a tank top because – guess what? He’s already seen you naked! The jig is up. And all those games that you play on the first few dates can also be eradicated – not sure about who is going to pay the check? Feel free to push that bill right over to him because, guess what? You sucked his ? last week. He can at least pay for dinner.
Investment of time
We are all busy and time-poor in today’s hectic world. Dating is a huge endeavor that not only sucks up your free time, but sometimes it could end up costing you money; money that you can be spending on those new shoes, liposuction or Botox.
Sex, on the other hand, is a good gauge of whether all this effort is worth it, so why go through countless dates only to find out that hey – maybe you don’t want his ? in you? Alternatively, if you bang him right away, you can make an informed decision about whether you want to invest anymore of your valuable time and money into this man.
Let’s face it – we are busy ladies. F*ck being coy – go out and get laid. If it feels right, do it.
Good things comes to those who wait? I say wait too long and no one gets to come.
The Trophy Wife
Photo Credit: The Paper Wall
@_Trophy_Wife
www.LifeofaTrophyWife.co
Comments
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No ? all your relationships started with having sex on the first date...because all your first dates started with having sex.
That's like me wearing a braves hat to every baseball game I attend and being like "Well, I was wearing this hat every time we won!"
I was also wearing it every time they lost, just like you slutted yourself to every guy that didn't call you the next day -
Also, being a trophy wife requires that you be attractive. She's just a wife.
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Someone should give this broad a medal damnit.
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lol @ ALWAYS.
Me and the BF ? on our first 'technical' date and it's been my longest relationship.
I have a couple notches where I feel like if I'd had waited just a fewww more days I would've saved myself a notch altogether.
I can see the logic in some of the points, but lol..nah.
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http://elitedaily.com/dating/sex/why-you-should-always-have-sex-on-a-first-date/
Ladies – we’ve all heard it before: every woman’s magazine, all your girlfriends and every dating site have always been adamant about one rule of dating – no sex on the first date. Even Millionaire Matchmaker, Patti Stanger, is strict about the rule “no sex without monogamy.”
You know Patti Stanger is still single, right?
I’m here to tell you to ignore what everyone says and go ahead and bang him on the first date. How do I know? Well, nearly all my long-term relationships have stemmed from giving it up on date one – including my now husband.
Sexually compatible
From a girl who has slept with countless amounts of men, and a few ladies – I know from doing my research that it’s difficult to find a good lay nowadays. We are all into different things in bed, and if he has a really f*cked up fetish like symorophilia, mucophilia or plushophilia – trust me, you want to find this out straight away and get the f*ck out of there. And if you didn’t really have a good time on your date, but you find him really ridiculously hot, the sex might be amazing and boom: you’ve found yourself a new f*ck-buddy!
? size
I don’t know about you, but when I’m interested in a man, my mind usually goes towards the issue of size: the size of his wallet and also the size of his ? . Sure, every guy probably thinks that he’s huge, but ladies – we know that the majority of men are average at best. So, before you invest any of your valuable spare time in this man, it’s advantageous for you to meet his ? – and the sooner, the better.
How disappointed would you be if you dated this man for weeks, invested weekends where you forwent hanging out in the Hamptons with your girlfriends getting white girl wasted, only to discover that your potential boyfriend has a weird, bendy ? , is an uncircumcised sharpei, or has a ? the size of a cocktail wiener? Take my advice and investigate down south sooner rather than later.
Avoids Awkwardness
When there is so much sexual tension between the two of you, it tends to make things awkward. While courtship and dating are fun, a lot of the time dating is a bit of a drag. After all, isn’t all that dating just leading to the big finale of a ? ? Having sex on the first date greatly reduces the anxiety that you both are experiencing and also eliminates all the trivial concerns that go with dating.
If you bang him on the first date, you don’t really need to worry so much about the impression you’re giving off on the second date – feel free to show up in yoga pants and a tank top because – guess what? He’s already seen you naked! The jig is up. And all those games that you play on the first few dates can also be eradicated – not sure about who is going to pay the check? Feel free to push that bill right over to him because, guess what? You sucked his ? last week. He can at least pay for dinner.
Investment of time
We are all busy and time-poor in today’s hectic world. Dating is a huge endeavor that not only sucks up your free time, but sometimes it could end up costing you money; money that you can be spending on those new shoes, liposuction or Botox.
Sex, on the other hand, is a good gauge of whether all this effort is worth it, so why go through countless dates only to find out that hey – maybe you don’t want his ? in you? Alternatively, if you bang him right away, you can make an informed decision about whether you want to invest anymore of your valuable time and money into this man.
Let’s face it – we are busy ladies. F*ck being coy – go out and get laid. If it feels right, do it.
Good things comes to those who wait? I say wait too long and no one gets to come.
The Trophy Wife
Photo Credit: The Paper Wall
@_Trophy_Wife
www.LifeofaTrophyWife.co
Picture of this goddess of truth? -
lol @ ALWAYS.
Me and the BF ? on our first 'technical' date and it's been my longest relationship.
I have a couple notches where I feel like if I'd had waited just a fewww more days I would've saved myself a notch altogether.
I can see the logic in some of the points, but lol..nah.
Goat! -
sex is what you make it.....
you can make a ? wait 2 months and still get smutted out.....so why prolong it if the sexual tension is already there from the jump??
just denying yourself a pleasure outta spite....
sometimes it's good to find out exactly what type of situation you in off top -
http://elitedaily.com/dating/sex/why-you-should-always-have-sex-on-a-first-date/
Ladies – we’ve all heard it before: every woman’s magazine, all your girlfriends and every dating site have always been adamant about one rule of dating – no sex on the first date. Even Millionaire Matchmaker, Patti Stanger, is strict about the rule “no sex without monogamy.”
You know Patti Stanger is still single, right?
I’m here to tell you to ignore what everyone says and go ahead and bang him on the first date. How do I know? Well, nearly all my long-term relationships have stemmed from giving it up on date one – including my now husband.
Sexually compatible
From a girl who has slept with countless amounts of men, and a few ladies – I know from doing my research that it’s difficult to find a good lay nowadays. We are all into different things in bed, and if he has a really f*cked up fetish like symorophilia, mucophilia or plushophilia – trust me, you want to find this out straight away and get the f*ck out of there. And if you didn’t really have a good time on your date, but you find him really ridiculously hot, the sex might be amazing and boom: you’ve found yourself a new f*ck-buddy!
? size
I don’t know about you, but when I’m interested in a man, my mind usually goes towards the issue of size: the size of his wallet and also the size of his ? . Sure, every guy probably thinks that he’s huge, but ladies – we know that the majority of men are average at best. So, before you invest any of your valuable spare time in this man, it’s advantageous for you to meet his ? – and the sooner, the better.
How disappointed would you be if you dated this man for weeks, invested weekends where you forwent hanging out in the Hamptons with your girlfriends getting white girl wasted, only to discover that your potential boyfriend has a weird, bendy ? , is an uncircumcised sharpei, or has a ? the size of a cocktail wiener? Take my advice and investigate down south sooner rather than later.
Avoids Awkwardness
When there is so much sexual tension between the two of you, it tends to make things awkward. While courtship and dating are fun, a lot of the time dating is a bit of a drag. After all, isn’t all that dating just leading to the big finale of a ? ? Having sex on the first date greatly reduces the anxiety that you both are experiencing and also eliminates all the trivial concerns that go with dating.
If you bang him on the first date, you don’t really need to worry so much about the impression you’re giving off on the second date – feel free to show up in yoga pants and a tank top because – guess what? He’s already seen you naked! The jig is up. And all those games that you play on the first few dates can also be eradicated – not sure about who is going to pay the check? Feel free to push that bill right over to him because, guess what? You sucked his ? last week. He can at least pay for dinner.
Investment of time
We are all busy and time-poor in today’s hectic world. Dating is a huge endeavor that not only sucks up your free time, but sometimes it could end up costing you money; money that you can be spending on those new shoes, liposuction or Botox.
Sex, on the other hand, is a good gauge of whether all this effort is worth it, so why go through countless dates only to find out that hey – maybe you don’t want his ? in you? Alternatively, if you bang him right away, you can make an informed decision about whether you want to invest anymore of your valuable time and money into this man.
Let’s face it – we are busy ladies. F*ck being coy – go out and get laid. If it feels right, do it.
Good things comes to those who wait? I say wait too long and no one gets to come.
The Trophy Wife
Photo Credit: The Paper Wall
@_Trophy_Wife
www.LifeofaTrophyWife.co
Picture of this goddess of truth?
http://www.lifeofatrophywife.com/
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sex is what you make it.....
you can make a ? wait 2 months and still get smutted out.....so why prolong it if the sexual tension is already there from the jump??
just denying yourself a pleasure outta spite....
sometimes it's good to find out exactly what type of situation you in off top
This is absolutely true, but I've had sexual tension with MFers that I was completely turned off to after some interaction.
It's so easy for a man to ruin his shot at sex, but you'll never know that if you don't wait a little bit. -
I can finally release my inner ? !!!!
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sex is what you make it.....
you can make a ? wait 2 months and still get smutted out.....so why prolong it if the sexual tension is already there from the jump??
just denying yourself a pleasure outta spite....
sometimes it's good to find out exactly what type of situation you in off top
it's not about that, well for me at least. i need to know a person a little bit before i'd feel comfortable enough to have sex with them.
you don't have to have sex with them from the jump to figure out what type of situation you are in. if anything not having sex right away would be more effective in weeding out those that just want sex, cuz they will not be willing to wait
that's such bs...
willingness to wait means absolutely nothing in the long run.....
because a dude could be willing to wait simply because all he wants to do is ? .....everything he does is simply to gain more favor to smash....
so here a dude is doing his best to be the perfect guy, and you get all emotionally vested in him, cuz you think he's the perfect guy....and soon as he smashes he's like
and proceeds to act the ? up immediately after....
at least if you ? on the first date.....u know if he's solely there for the ? or if he's actually trying to hang around for a while -
sex is what you make it.....
you can make a ? wait 2 months and still get smutted out.....so why prolong it if the sexual tension is already there from the jump??
just denying yourself a pleasure outta spite....
sometimes it's good to find out exactly what type of situation you in off top
it's not about that, well for me at least. i need to know a person a little bit before i'd feel comfortable enough to have sex with them.
you don't have to have sex with them from the jump to figure out what type of situation you are in. if anything not having sex right away would be more effective in weeding out those that just want sex, cuz they will not be willing to wait
I disagree but i respect your opinion. You won't know a person after a few more dates, assuming you guys talked a couple of times before going on that first date. If you're observant enough, the signs will be all there for you to see cos a psychopath will be a psychopath be it first date or 4th date -
sex is what you make it.....
you can make a ? wait 2 months and still get smutted out.....so why prolong it if the sexual tension is already there from the jump??
just denying yourself a pleasure outta spite....
sometimes it's good to find out exactly what type of situation you in off top
This is absolutely true, but I've had sexual tension with MFers that I was completely turned off to after some interaction.
It's so easy for a man to ruin his shot at sex, but you'll never know that if you don't wait a little bit.
so either way you're going to eventually get let down.....
might as well get a nut outta the situation -
sex is what you make it.....
you can make a ? wait 2 months and still get smutted out.....so why prolong it if the sexual tension is already there from the jump??
just denying yourself a pleasure outta spite....
sometimes it's good to find out exactly what type of situation you in off top
This is absolutely true, but I've had sexual tension with MFers that I was completely turned off to after some interaction.
It's so easy for a man to ruin his shot at sex, but you'll never know that if you don't wait a little bit.
so either way you're going to eventually get let down.....
might as well get a nut outta the situation
I don't get it.
If I wait and realize I don't want to ? him, nothing lost that I can't acheive with my ? .
If I go ahead and ? then realize I didn't want to ? him, now you got feelings and regret..and a wasted notch. -
sex is what you make it.....
you can make a ? wait 2 months and still get smutted out.....so why prolong it if the sexual tension is already there from the jump??
just denying yourself a pleasure outta spite....
sometimes it's good to find out exactly what type of situation you in off top
This is absolutely true, but I've had sexual tension with MFers that I was completely turned off to after some interaction.
It's so easy for a man to ruin his shot at sex, but you'll never know that if you don't wait a little bit.
lol @ "this is absolutely true"....hoe please, like u ever made a man wait 2 months. -
so either way you're going to eventually get let down.....
might as well get a nut outta the situation
If it was just a nut, I would agree....but if you get one STD, you're gonna have a hard time getting any nuts in the future
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True. *shrugs*
But I was talking about the overall point Benji. -
doesn't matter....sex is what you make it.....
you can make a ? wait 2 months and still get smutted out.....so why prolong it if the sexual tension is already there from the jump??
just denying yourself a pleasure outta spite....
sometimes it's good to find out exactly what type of situation you in off top
This is absolutely true, but I've had sexual tension with MFers that I was completely turned off to after some interaction.
It's so easy for a man to ruin his shot at sex, but you'll never know that if you don't wait a little bit.
so either way you're going to eventually get let down.....
might as well get a nut outta the situation
I don't get it.
If I wait and realize I don't want to ? him, nothing lost that I can't acheive with my ? .
If I go ahead and ? then realize I didn't want to ? him, now you got feelings and regret..and a wasted notch.
had sex
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sex is what you make it.....
you can make a ? wait 2 months and still get smutted out.....so why prolong it if the sexual tension is already there from the jump??
just denying yourself a pleasure outta spite....
sometimes it's good to find out exactly what type of situation you in off top
it's not about that, well for me at least. i need to know a person a little bit before i'd feel comfortable enough to have sex with them.
you don't have to have sex with them from the jump to figure out what type of situation you are in. if anything not having sex right away would be more effective in weeding out those that just want sex, cuz they will not be willing to wait
that's such bs...
willingness to wait means absolutely nothing in the long run.....
because a dude could be willing to wait simply because all he wants to do is ? .....everything he does is simply to gain more favor to smash....
so here a dude is doing his best to be the perfect guy, and you get all emotionally vested in him, cuz you think he's the perfect guy....and soon as he smashes he's like
and proceeds to act the ? up immediately after....
at least if you ? on the first date.....u know if he's solely there for the ? or if he's actually trying to hang around for a while
if i can't say "i love you" and have it reciprocated, i'm not having sex with you. no guy that just wants sex is gonna date me for months before that happens.
thank ? i only date nice muslim guys, they reserve their hoe chasing for the non-muslim girls and don't pressure you into anything
also people like to pretend that they are having sex casually because they are so free and liberated while ignoring how often that is a symptom of deeper underlying emotional issues. using sex as a substitute for real emotional connections is not particularly healthy. and for every person having free, liberated sex there are 10 using it to fill the emotional hole in their lives
lets not even get started on how women and men differ hormonally, and how that makes it almost impossible for women to not grow attached to people they have sex with, whether they plan to or not. i save myself the trouble and get attached before i have sex
Damn really Kai? -
sex is what you make it.....
you can make a ? wait 2 months and still get smutted out.....so why prolong it if the sexual tension is already there from the jump??
just denying yourself a pleasure outta spite....
sometimes it's good to find out exactly what type of situation you in off top
it's not about that, well for me at least. i need to know a person a little bit before i'd feel comfortable enough to have sex with them.
you don't have to have sex with them from the jump to figure out what type of situation you are in. if anything not having sex right away would be more effective in weeding out those that just want sex, cuz they will not be willing to wait
that's such bs...
willingness to wait means absolutely nothing in the long run.....
because a dude could be willing to wait simply because all he wants to do is ? .....everything he does is simply to gain more favor to smash....
so here a dude is doing his best to be the perfect guy, and you get all emotionally vested in him, cuz you think he's the perfect guy....and soon as he smashes he's like
and proceeds to act the ? up immediately after....
at least if you ? on the first date.....u know if he's solely there for the ? or if he's actually trying to hang around for a while
if i can't say "i love you" and have it reciprocated, i'm not having sex with you. no guy that just wants sex is gonna date me for months before that happens.
thank ? i only date nice muslim guys, they reserve their hoe chasing for the non-muslim girls and don't pressure you into anything
also people like to pretend that they are having sex casually because they are so free and liberated while ignoring how often that is a symptom of deeper underlying emotional issues. using sex as a substitute for real emotional connections is not particularly healthy. and for every person having free, liberated sex there are 10 using it to fill the emotional hole in their lives
lets not even get started on how women and men differ hormonally, and how that makes it almost impossible for women to not grow attached to people they have sex with, whether they plan to or not. i save myself the trouble and get attached before i have sex
i liked the women i ? ....
how much i like them is determined on how much i ? them...
it's like a scale from 1-10
if we only ? once.. then it's safe to say they scored a 1 on the like scale....
if we ? like 4 or 5 times....i prolly ranked my like for them around that same number
as in the case of my wife.. the number is too high to count....which is about as accurate of a description of my like for her as i can possibly make
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if you scared to get punched don't get into fights ? -
Lol..du why you trolling?
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sex is what you make it.....
you can make a ? wait 2 months and still get smutted out.....so why prolong it if the sexual tension is already there from the jump??
just denying yourself a pleasure outta spite....
sometimes it's good to find out exactly what type of situation you in off top
it's not about that, well for me at least. i need to know a person a little bit before i'd feel comfortable enough to have sex with them.
you don't have to have sex with them from the jump to figure out what type of situation you are in. if anything not having sex right away would be more effective in weeding out those that just want sex, cuz they will not be willing to wait
that's such bs...
willingness to wait means absolutely nothing in the long run.....
because a dude could be willing to wait simply because all he wants to do is ? .....everything he does is simply to gain more favor to smash....
so here a dude is doing his best to be the perfect guy, and you get all emotionally vested in him, cuz you think he's the perfect guy....and soon as he smashes he's like
and proceeds to act the ? up immediately after....
at least if you ? on the first date.....u know if he's solely there for the ? or if he's actually trying to hang around for a while
if i can't say "i love you" and have it reciprocated, i'm not having sex with you. no guy that just wants sex is gonna date me for months before that happens.
thank ? i only date nice muslim guys, they reserve their hoe chasing for the non-muslim girls and don't pressure you into anything
also people like to pretend that they are having sex casually because they are so free and liberated while ignoring how often that is a symptom of deeper underlying emotional issues. using sex as a substitute for real emotional connections is not particularly healthy. and for every person having free, liberated sex there are 10 using it to fill the emotional hole in their lives
lets not even get started on how women and men differ hormonally, and how that makes it almost impossible for women to not grow attached to people they have sex with, whether they plan to or not. i save myself the trouble and get attached before i have sex
Damn really Kai?
lol, yes really. my now husband and i dated for like 6 months before we had sex
180 days of staring at your perky nips and not having a go at them? No wonder the man has a lot of leeway when it comes to matters of the carnal kind lmao -
Lmfao naa I'm not giving away my ? power so quick
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Lmfao naa I'm not giving away my ? power so quick
you saying the ? is so mediocre that once dude smashes and finds out the truth
you'll basically no longer have any leverage?
say it ain't so young yella
