Black Woman Marries HERSELF Cause She Couldn’t Find A Husband By The Time She Turned 40
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With the reported percentages of black men being dead, in jail or marrying outside their race it’s no wonder a black woman can’t find a good husband.. (If you feed into those statistics)
But now, thanks to a woman in Houston, Texas a lot of black women might start a new trend of marrying themselves.
Every little girl in America grows up fantasizing about the big day.. The day she will get married to her prince in shining armor.. The day she becomes a wife with a big ring on her finger.
For a teacher in the country’s 4th largest city with a black population totaling more than 1/4 of the city’s growing 2.1 million people, that day somehow never came.
Yasmin Eleby‘s wedding was everything she’d ever dreamed of.
Complete with singers, a band, a gorgeous candlelight ceremony and a white cake to match, Yasmine promised to love and honor… herself.
Early into adulthood Yasmin promised herself that if she hadn’t found a mate by the time she was 40, she would marry herself, and she kept her promise.
WITH HER VIRGINITY LONG GONE YASMIN SET OFF ON A SERIOUS MISSION.
What better way to start the year than with an act of self love?
After a moment of pause, you may be asking, how do you marry… yourself?
THE CEREMONY
Along with 10 bridesmaids Yasmin’s big day went down without a hitch.
Wearing a royal purple gown a glowing Yasim, walked down the aisle and bestowed her mother with the honor of giving her away..
What type of Minister would participate in an act of self Marriage you may be wondering..
Yasmin’s own sister who just happens to be a minister officiated the entire wedding and helped her say her vows.
However it was only a spiritual ceremony – because you can’t legally marry yourself in America or anywhere else for that matter.
Plus contrary to some black women’s belief, Jesus ain’t going so you can not be married to him..
She says the best part of her special day was having her family there to “stand up” for her.
Her other three sisters were bridesmaids and her mom gave her away; or back to herself in this case.
People participate in all types of phuckery these days.. Even though her phuckery is pretty cute, this woman right here is the Captain of the phuckery squad..
Sometimes a person may think they have self-love but what they have is major blockage that keeps them from being able to self-analyze themselves..
Real self-love means you’re able to evaluate yourself, you know your good and bad and what you need to work on.. If it was so important for this woman to be married by the time she was 40-years-old she should have done research on marriages and found out what she was doing wrong in dating.
That’s all I’m going to say about this cause I’m sure many of you women will applaud this mess.
IS SHE THIRSTY FOR A RING OR NAH?
Yasmin Eleby Married Herself When She Turned 40-years-old http://askkissy.com/2015/01/houston-yasmin-eleby-black-women-bride-marriage-cant-find-husband-purple-wedding-dress/6/#ixzz3Pl7iijYE
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But now, thanks to a woman in Houston, Texas a lot of black women might start a new trend of marrying themselves.
Every little girl in America grows up fantasizing about the big day.. The day she will get married to her prince in shining armor.. The day she becomes a wife with a big ring on her finger.
For a teacher in the country’s 4th largest city with a black population totaling more than 1/4 of the city’s growing 2.1 million people, that day somehow never came.
Yasmin Eleby‘s wedding was everything she’d ever dreamed of.
Complete with singers, a band, a gorgeous candlelight ceremony and a white cake to match, Yasmine promised to love and honor… herself.
Early into adulthood Yasmin promised herself that if she hadn’t found a mate by the time she was 40, she would marry herself, and she kept her promise.
WITH HER VIRGINITY LONG GONE YASMIN SET OFF ON A SERIOUS MISSION.
What better way to start the year than with an act of self love?
After a moment of pause, you may be asking, how do you marry… yourself?
THE CEREMONY
Along with 10 bridesmaids Yasmin’s big day went down without a hitch.
Wearing a royal purple gown a glowing Yasim, walked down the aisle and bestowed her mother with the honor of giving her away..
What type of Minister would participate in an act of self Marriage you may be wondering..
Yasmin’s own sister who just happens to be a minister officiated the entire wedding and helped her say her vows.
However it was only a spiritual ceremony – because you can’t legally marry yourself in America or anywhere else for that matter.
Plus contrary to some black women’s belief, Jesus ain’t going so you can not be married to him..
She says the best part of her special day was having her family there to “stand up” for her.
Her other three sisters were bridesmaids and her mom gave her away; or back to herself in this case.
People participate in all types of phuckery these days.. Even though her phuckery is pretty cute, this woman right here is the Captain of the phuckery squad..
Sometimes a person may think they have self-love but what they have is major blockage that keeps them from being able to self-analyze themselves..
Real self-love means you’re able to evaluate yourself, you know your good and bad and what you need to work on.. If it was so important for this woman to be married by the time she was 40-years-old she should have done research on marriages and found out what she was doing wrong in dating.
That’s all I’m going to say about this cause I’m sure many of you women will applaud this mess.
IS SHE THIRSTY FOR A RING OR NAH?
Yasmin Eleby Married Herself When She Turned 40-years-old http://askkissy.com/2015/01/houston-yasmin-eleby-black-women-bride-marriage-cant-find-husband-purple-wedding-dress/6/#ixzz3Pl7iijYE
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The new ? has some serious insanity.
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Maybe if she lost some weight she would get a man
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Maybe if she would have laid off the cake earlier in life she would be married. That ? is shaped like a 4 pounds of molding clay fresh out the package
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I give it two years before she gets tired of herself and kicks that ? to the curb. But you can bet she'll try to take half of everything she owns. Believe that.
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She look like Queen Latifah.
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"Hey look at how pathetic I am!"
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you can tell 10 years ago she was the type of chick who was in shape and now she got fat
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This is just sad bruh....
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So she'd rather have some strange ritual of a self-marriage ceremony and die alone than go on a diet and get a man. She coulda spent the money she wasted on her "wedding" on some Weight Watchers. Did people bring gifts? What kinda ? is this
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So she'd rather have some strange ritual of a self-marriage ceremony and die alone than go on a diet and get a man. She coulda spent the money she wasted on her "wedding" on some Weight Watchers. Did people bring gifts? What kinda ? is this
it's not that shes overweight that bothers me but to marry yourself because you couldnt find a guy to marry you before you turn 40 is quite crazy within itself. -
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MasterJayN100 wrote: »So she'd rather have some strange ritual of a self-marriage ceremony and die alone than go on a diet and get a man. She coulda spent the money she wasted on her "wedding" on some Weight Watchers. Did people bring gifts? What kinda ? is this
it's not that shes overweight that bothers me but to marry yourself because you couldnt find a guy to marry you before you turn 40 is quite crazy within itself.
lol right. maybe she couldn't get a man because she the type to go out and marry herself. -
Pathetic
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She look like a big sassy I can do bad all by myself Madea watching heffa...I'm not surprised
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This the loneliest ? I've ever seen
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She fat....she not supposed to be choosy.
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i really wanna say something deep about this. i want to talk about how beautiful and important it is to love yourself but i cant stop laughing and saying yo this ? crazy and thats why she doesnt have a husband
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My sister, my sister ....Smh
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Congrats!!! <:-P <:-P
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yeah it's sad at the same time.all these thirsty ass ? out hereBilly_Poncho wrote: »This the loneliest ? I've ever seen
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Lol that's Khaleesi right thete
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All jokes aside, this is probably best for her. It doesn't matter how much weight she loses, any chick that would even come up with some ? like this ain't marriage material. At least, not to another human being.
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But seriously if all she wanted to do was get married u know how many dudes need green cards right now?
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