Ladies how do you feel about your man watching porn in a relationship
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I really don't give a damn, but my man gets ? on demand plus he can ? who ever he wants irl too, so he really don't give much of a ? about porn. More than anything we probably watch it together to set the mood or he'll watch it while he gets some head
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I really don't give a damn, but my man gets ? on demand plus he can ? who ever he wants irl too, so he really don't give much of a ? about porn. More than anything we probably watch it together to set the mood or he'll watch it while he gets some head
You ain't ordinary -
@kai is awesome.
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I really don't give a damn, but my man gets ? on demand plus he can ? who ever he wants irl too, so he really don't give much of a ? about porn. More than anything we probably watch it together to set the mood or he'll watch it while he gets some head
Mr. Kai got a real one rightchea...
...props to that brotha.
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Not really, only on his end whenever he wants. I'm fine with that, and he's the only man I want anyway.
I guess you could label it a D/s relationship and as such the Dom can do what ever he wants and makes the rules
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Not really, only on his end whenever he wants. I'm fine with that, and he's the only man I want anyway.
I guess you could label it a D/s relationship and as such the Dom can do what ever he wants and makes the rules
My mind is going into overload right now, this breed of female was previously thought to not exist. I feel like Darwin at the island right now. -
not_osirus_jenkins wrote: »@ kai is awesome.
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not_osirus_jenkins wrote: »@ kai is awesome.
I want to think so but there's always an exception to every rule -
dallas' 4 eva wrote: »obnoxiouslyfresh wrote: »obnoxiouslyfresh wrote: »
Isn't he a cop? Instead of fighting crime on the streets of Chicago, he watches porn?
long shifts. Gotta stay motivated
Why don't you give him head in his squad car, I think that would be great motivation.
Some ? just ain't worth it
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not_osirus_jenkins wrote: »@ kai is awesome.
Hey if you say so. It really makes no difference what you believe. My man knows the real and that's all that matters
Just cuz you never managed to have it like that doesn't mean other men can't
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Thats cool.
U still lying tho -
not_osirus_jenkins wrote: »@ kai is awesome.
Hey if you say so. It really makes no difference what you believe. My man knows the real and that's all that matters
Just cuz you never managed to have it like that doesn't mean other men can't
*raises hand*
Ms.Kai I got a question.
Ok so since Mr.Kai has this "freedom", what is his limits? I mean can he REALLY do what he wants like bring another broad to have a 3sum wit you?
Or is that crossing the boundaries and the safe word "Pineapples juice" has to be used? -
@Kai
You ever consider making a video series with some 1-3 minute video clips of various relationship advise?
Think about it. -
Thats cool.
U still lying tho
Well great for you then, you get to be right on the internet, I'm sure that counts for something in real life
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I really don't give a damn, but my man gets ? on demand plus he can ? who ever he wants irl too, so he really don't give much of a ? about porn. More than anything we probably watch it together to set the mood or he'll watch it while he gets some head
This just might be the greatest post I've ever read in my life...need more like ya...we need more like ya
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Recaptimus_Prime360 wrote: »not_osirus_jenkins wrote: »@ kai is awesome.
Hey if you say so. It really makes no difference what you believe. My man knows the real and that's all that matters
Just cuz you never managed to have it like that doesn't mean other men can't
*raises hand*
Ms.Kai I got a question.
Ok so since Mr.Kai has this "freedom", what is his limits? I mean can he REALLY do what he wants like bring another broad to have a 3sum wit you?
Or is that crossing the boundaries and the safe word "Pineapples juice" has to be used?
I really have absolutely no sexual attraction to women so we don't do threesomes. I trust him completely, so all he has to do is be safe which he would be doing anyway even if he was single.
He's up front and honest with any other woman, like they know he's married and he's not going anywhere. You'd be surprised how many women that alone scares away, like they'd be cool with it if he was cheating on his wife but the complete honesty rattles them I guess.
Funny story that's kind of related, he was giving a buddy a ride home from the gym and he (the friend) was looking for his phone in the glove compartment my husband has some magnums in there. Anyway I was on the phone with him and his friend didn't realize this and was like "all I see is the rubbers" and realized I was on the phone after he said that, and he was all apologetic like he had just dry snitched on my husband. I was laughing and my husband was like she doesn't give a ? lol
I mean I can see how other people might not get our set up, but it works for us. I think my background makes it easier for me to understand that his biological urges as a man are just that, and that they have nothing to do with our love and commitment towards each other.
I'm very secure in myself and what I mean to him, so I don't feel any jealousy or threatened by any other woman. I'm not going to bind him to some unrealistic notion of monogamy that is just not natural simply because our society says that's what we should do
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NeighborhoodNomad. wrote: »@Kai
You ever consider making a video series with some 1-3 minute video clips of various relationship advise?
Think about it.
I'll pass, this works for us and we are perfect for each other. I can't and don't want to tell anyone else what to do in there relationships. Only advice I'd give is to be honest and open with each other about your needs and wants.
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Kai story isn't unique. She's muslim and comes from a predominately muslim country (last I checked).
Why do you think these hotep ? always trying to convert women to islam while eating pork chops and ham sandwiches? -
how you ? gonna feel when you rubbin one out....she upstairs vibrating on out
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2stepz_ahead wrote: »how you ? gonna feel when you rubbin one out....she upstairs vibrating on out
I'll feel 2steps_ahead of her -
NeighborhoodNomad. wrote: »@Kai
You ever consider making a video series with some 1-3 minute video clips of various relationship advise?
Think about it.
I'll pass, this works for us and we are perfect for each other. I can't and don't want to tell anyone else what to do in there relationships. Only advice I'd give is to be honest and open with each other about your needs and wants.
I respect that. -
depends how much you watch , if you gat saved tabs on your laptop and phone , yeah you doing too much.
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fortyacres wrote: »depends how much you watch , if you gat saved tabs on your laptop and phone , yeah you doing too much.
Damn I guess I'm doin too much -
NeighborhoodNomad. wrote: »@Kai
You ever consider making a video series with some 1-3 minute video clips of various relationship advise?
Think about it.
I'll pass, this works for us and we are perfect for each other. I can't and don't want to tell anyone else what to do in there relationships. Only advice I'd give is to be honest and open with each other about your needs and wants.
wow this is interesting.....so if you don't mind me asking when was the last time he stepped out?....or does the fact that you give him the ultimate hall pass as well as still handlin your own bizness even make him want to step out? -
NeighborhoodNomad. wrote: »@Kai
You ever consider making a video series with some 1-3 minute video clips of various relationship advise?
Think about it.
I'll pass, this works for us and we are perfect for each other. I can't and don't want to tell anyone else what to do in there relationships. Only advice I'd give is to be honest and open with each other about your needs and wants.
wow this is interesting.....so if you don't mind me asking when was the last time he stepped out?....or does the fact that you give him the ultimate hall pass as well as still handlin your own bizness even make him want to step out?
I haven't asked him recently, but as far as a I know it's been a while. The sentiment at the end of your post is pretty apt, him being able to do whatever wants has made him exceptionally picky actually
He be passing on hoes more than not. Now imagine this vs guys that are supposed to be strictly monogamous, when let's be real they're most likely still cheating anyway. In that situation those guys gotta take whatever opportunity presents themselves.
So it'd be the not so cute chick at the club cuz your girl is out of town and it'll be your only chance to do something without getting caught. Beggars can't really be choosers.
And he doesn't play games with these chicks. If they trying it with the mind games, or think he's gonna be chasing them, he's quick to go ghost on them lol