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  • blackrain
    blackrain Members, Moderators Posts: 27,269 Regulator
    edited December 2016
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    blackrain wrote: »
    blackrain wrote: »
    blackrain wrote: »
    blackrain wrote: »
    EmM HoLLa. wrote: »
    With all relationships communication is key.. With age i've found that you may not get every women to agree but there are women who are perfectly all right with this kind of relationship as long as it is understood from the beginning.. Prop to @kai I wish you and your husband a strong and enduring marriage..

    I got a potna who recently got married and he told his old lady straight up that marriage aint gonna change him, he still gonna go out and he still gone slide in something strange every now and then, if she aint cool with it this is her chance to walk. Apparently she was cool with it, ? I need to find me a broad like that for real.

    want who wants u and ull never have a problem.

    you cant have who u want AND do what u want..
    it doesnt work like that unfortunately.

    Nah if you're a person who is truly happy with one person you can have who you want and do what you want. Problem is people don't know how to say what they want

    what did i jus say??

    Why the hostility.."come on man we supposed to brothers" lol

    cause u jus tryin to argue..
    i aint got time for u today... nor the energy. lol

    ? I got a 2 week old...time and energy are a luxury right now. I take my moments to antagonize when I can lol

    ? ill see ur 2wk old and raise u this 2yr old thats next to me full of ? energy and words!! she wont be still she wont ? up and i can barely understand the ? she say!! lol

    Lol I'm actually looking forward to when he can talk so he use some damn words instead of crying, though people weren't lying when they told me you learn to decipher the baby crying language damn near instantly. Know what the hungry cry is, the i need a change cry, the i'm tired of laying here pick me up ? cry lol...

    yeh.. i know what u talkin about..
    when my daughter was first born everyone was askin me "how it feel??" i was like "boring!" lol she didnt do ? but eat sleep ? and cry. lol & smh

    from like 7mnths on she been turnt up since.. she acts jus like me and im finding out how much of a burden i am on people as far as energy and patience is concerned..

    ur kid may be different.. they all have they own personalities.. but mine.. soon as she wakes up and jump out the bed she hits the ground runnin..

    im.. tired!!! hahhaahaha

    and now that she's in school its worse..
    its like she bottles up all her energy at school to be good.. but soon as she's wit me and her mom that ? explodes. smmfh

    Lol yeah pretty much I've binge watched like 5 shows on netflix i been meaning to get to for the longest because all he does is eat, sleep, and ? /? and it's just a waiting game to see which he needs attention for next. ? if he got my personality though my wife gonna be mad as ? . One of me is bad enough, a mini me would drive her nuts with all the sarcasm and smart comments she'd have to deal with
  • CapitalB
    CapitalB Members Posts: 24,556 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    blackrain wrote: »
    blackrain wrote: »
    blackrain wrote: »
    blackrain wrote: »
    blackrain wrote: »
    EmM HoLLa. wrote: »
    With all relationships communication is key.. With age i've found that you may not get every women to agree but there are women who are perfectly all right with this kind of relationship as long as it is understood from the beginning.. Prop to @kai I wish you and your husband a strong and enduring marriage..

    I got a potna who recently got married and he told his old lady straight up that marriage aint gonna change him, he still gonna go out and he still gone slide in something strange every now and then, if she aint cool with it this is her chance to walk. Apparently she was cool with it, ? I need to find me a broad like that for real.

    want who wants u and ull never have a problem.

    you cant have who u want AND do what u want..
    it doesnt work like that unfortunately.

    Nah if you're a person who is truly happy with one person you can have who you want and do what you want. Problem is people don't know how to say what they want

    what did i jus say??

    Why the hostility.."come on man we supposed to brothers" lol

    cause u jus tryin to argue..
    i aint got time for u today... nor the energy. lol

    ? I got a 2 week old...time and energy are a luxury right now. I take my moments to antagonize when I can lol

    ? ill see ur 2wk old and raise u this 2yr old thats next to me full of ? energy and words!! she wont be still she wont ? up and i can barely understand the ? she say!! lol

    Lol I'm actually looking forward to when he can talk so he use some damn words instead of crying, though people weren't lying when they told me you learn to decipher the baby crying language damn near instantly. Know what the hungry cry is, the i need a change cry, the i'm tired of laying here pick me up ? cry lol...

    yeh.. i know what u talkin about..
    when my daughter was first born everyone was askin me "how it feel??" i was like "boring!" lol she didnt do ? but eat sleep ? and cry. lol & smh

    from like 7mnths on she been turnt up since.. she acts jus like me and im finding out how much of a burden i am on people as far as energy and patience is concerned..

    ur kid may be different.. they all have they own personalities.. but mine.. soon as she wakes up and jump out the bed she hits the ground runnin..

    im.. tired!!! hahhaahaha

    and now that she's in school its worse..
    its like she bottles up all her energy at school to be good.. but soon as she's wit me and her mom that ? explodes. smmfh

    Lol yeah pretty much I've binge watched like 5 shows on netflix i been meaning to get to for the longest because all he does is eat, sleep, and ? /? and it's just a waiting game to see which he needs attention for next. ? if he got my personality though my wife gonna be mad as ? . One of me is bad enough, a mini me would drive her nuts with all the sarcasm and smart comments she'd have to deal with

    i dont even believe in ? but may he help us all if that lil ? acts like u!! hahahaahaha
  • blackrain
    blackrain Members, Moderators Posts: 27,269 Regulator
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    blackrain wrote: »
    blackrain wrote: »
    blackrain wrote: »
    blackrain wrote: »
    blackrain wrote: »
    EmM HoLLa. wrote: »
    With all relationships communication is key.. With age i've found that you may not get every women to agree but there are women who are perfectly all right with this kind of relationship as long as it is understood from the beginning.. Prop to @kai I wish you and your husband a strong and enduring marriage..

    I got a potna who recently got married and he told his old lady straight up that marriage aint gonna change him, he still gonna go out and he still gone slide in something strange every now and then, if she aint cool with it this is her chance to walk. Apparently she was cool with it, ? I need to find me a broad like that for real.

    want who wants u and ull never have a problem.

    you cant have who u want AND do what u want..
    it doesnt work like that unfortunately.

    Nah if you're a person who is truly happy with one person you can have who you want and do what you want. Problem is people don't know how to say what they want

    what did i jus say??

    Why the hostility.."come on man we supposed to brothers" lol

    cause u jus tryin to argue..
    i aint got time for u today... nor the energy. lol

    ? I got a 2 week old...time and energy are a luxury right now. I take my moments to antagonize when I can lol

    ? ill see ur 2wk old and raise u this 2yr old thats next to me full of ? energy and words!! she wont be still she wont ? up and i can barely understand the ? she say!! lol

    Lol I'm actually looking forward to when he can talk so he use some damn words instead of crying, though people weren't lying when they told me you learn to decipher the baby crying language damn near instantly. Know what the hungry cry is, the i need a change cry, the i'm tired of laying here pick me up ? cry lol...

    yeh.. i know what u talkin about..
    when my daughter was first born everyone was askin me "how it feel??" i was like "boring!" lol she didnt do ? but eat sleep ? and cry. lol & smh

    from like 7mnths on she been turnt up since.. she acts jus like me and im finding out how much of a burden i am on people as far as energy and patience is concerned..

    ur kid may be different.. they all have they own personalities.. but mine.. soon as she wakes up and jump out the bed she hits the ground runnin..

    im.. tired!!! hahhaahaha

    and now that she's in school its worse..
    its like she bottles up all her energy at school to be good.. but soon as she's wit me and her mom that ? explodes. smmfh

    Lol yeah pretty much I've binge watched like 5 shows on netflix i been meaning to get to for the longest because all he does is eat, sleep, and ? /? and it's just a waiting game to see which he needs attention for next. ? if he got my personality though my wife gonna be mad as ? . One of me is bad enough, a mini me would drive her nuts with all the sarcasm and smart comments she'd have to deal with

    i dont even believe in ? but may he help us all if that lil ? acts like u!! hahahaahaha

    Lmao ? ? help me if he acts like me. I'd have to hit him with a stone cold stunner just off gp when he's 14 just to let him know not to try me
  • deadeye
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    Kai wrote: »
    MsSouthern wrote: »
    So @Kai are you ok with him saying "I'm not coming home cause I'm with *insert girl name* tonight " what if you want him home with you ????

    Do you ask questions about where he is or who he is with or are you not allowed to ?


    I have a friend who dated a guy for years. He told her he would give her 6 good nights and the 7th she wasn't allowed to ask about

    Worked for her .... could never be me

    If he said it just like that, I'd have no problem with it, just tell him to drive safe and have fun. he comes home like 99% of the time tho, it's probably more cuz he likes sleeping in his own bed, he'll usually just stay out as late as he wants then go home after

    He'll tell me he's going out and just goes. I don't really ask usually, or care to, about where he's going in general, so the same applies to this. I mean if he volunteers the info, I'm like sure, but I don't care either way

    Like if we're just making small talk let's say after dinner on a Friday or something, I might ask him if he had any plans for the night if we're not going out together and he'll tell me he's having drinks with so and so

    I mean I can ask whatever I want, I really don't care to usually. As far as him leaving if I need him to stay, he'd never go anywhere if he knew I genuinely needed him there. He's very attentive to my needs that way


    @Kat



    Is TarrTarr going to be granted the same privileges in your marriage?
  • deadeye
    deadeye Members Posts: 22,884 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    ChiCity wrote: »
    LPast wrote: »
    The thing with situations like @kai isn't the mechanics... It's the EGO. Kai has to be REALLY secure, even a bit naive to make this work.

    My question is if things didn't work out. Is this your rule for any man or just your husband?

    She puts minced celery in her tuna salad my ? ....

    He ain't going NO WHERE.
    Grade A creeper.......


    @Arya Tsaddiq




    You forgot to say............*no deadeye*
  • deadeye
    deadeye Members Posts: 22,884 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    EmM HoLLa. wrote: »
    With all relationships communication is key.. With age i've found that you may not get every women to agree but there are women who are perfectly all right with this kind of relationship as long as it is understood from the beginning.. Prop to @kai I wish you and your husband a strong and enduring marriage..

    I got a potna who recently got married and he told his old lady straight up that marriage aint gonna change him, he still gonna go out and he still gone slide in something strange every now and then, if she aint cool with it this is her chance to walk. Apparently she was cool with it, ? I need to find me a broad like that for real.



    Apparently being the key word.


    Chicks like @Kai are the exception...............not the norm.


    Get too comfortable and not realize that "cool chick" is really a woman scorned, dude might be in for some problems he's not prepared for.
  • Peace_79
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    blackrain wrote: »
    blackrain wrote: »
    EmM HoLLa. wrote: »
    With all relationships communication is key.. With age i've found that you may not get every women to agree but there are women who are perfectly all right with this kind of relationship as long as it is understood from the beginning.. Prop to @kai I wish you and your husband a strong and enduring marriage..

    I got a potna who recently got married and he told his old lady straight up that marriage aint gonna change him, he still gonna go out and he still gone slide in something strange every now and then, if she aint cool with it this is her chance to walk. Apparently she was cool with it, ? I need to find me a broad like that for real.

    want who wants u and ull never have a problem.

    you cant have who u want AND do what u want..
    it doesnt work like that unfortunately.

    Nah if you're a person who is truly happy with one person you can have who you want and do what you want. Problem is people don't know how to say what they want

    what did i jus say??

    Why the hostility.."come on man we supposed to brothers" lol

    https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=VOe6g9OFd3g