She does not want kids...But she loves you...How to handel the drama?
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Cabana_Da_Don
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Imagem yourself with a girl that loves you.Buys all your medicine that you need.Helps you out with out you asking.You got a good job she got an ok job.ou just bought land and is trying to build a house but......SHE DOES NOT WANT KIDS.EVER AND YOUR DREAM IS TO HAVE KIDS A CLASSIC HOME.What would you do?
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Bust in it raw
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jetlifebih wrote: »
How is it ? if she consents to it. Condoms rip all the time be -
SolemnSauce wrote: »Bust in it raw
Come on I´m serious. -
Stick it out until she's in her 30s. Then the baby need comes.
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BiblicalAtheist wrote: »Stick it out until she's in her 30s. Then the baby need comes.
She´s 33.I´m 31 but she´s fine lol.I don´t want to take an L and be with her for like 10 years and look back and be like damn...I don´t got a kid. -
What is her reason for not wanting kids?
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Cabana_Da_Don wrote: »... Buys all your medicine that you need...
Is this question only for the senior citizens on the IC or can anyone answer ?
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you can always just bring a kid home.
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Cabana_Da_Don wrote: »... Buys all your medicine that you need...
Is this question only for the senior citizens on the IC or can anyone answer ?
I do sports lol but I have ashtma....Go figure.But while I fight I don´t feel anything but sometimes I feel it.I also take vitamines lmao.Funny ? but true. -
Have a side baby
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semi-auto-mato wrote: »What is her reason for not wanting kids?
She says she does not have patience.She does not want to take care of any kids.I also think it has to do with her mother and mistreating her when she was young.She hates her mother.She says she worried that she´s going to be a horrible mom.When I toucht the subject she gets really mad.Like very mad screaming on the phone.I´m thinking of lettting her go.But I love her. -
Find a chick that does all the same things AND wants kids.
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? city
Ow ya im cheating too -
Cabana_Da_Don wrote: »BiblicalAtheist wrote: »Stick it out until she's in her 30s. Then the baby need comes.
She´s 33.I´m 31 but she´s fine lol.I don´t want to take an L and be with her for like 10 years and look back and be like damn...I don´t got a kid.
31? damn you better get a move on you and a prospective girl don't have much time. You wanna be 50 running around with a kid? -
Cabana_Da_Don wrote: »semi-auto-mato wrote: »What is her reason for not wanting kids?
She says she does not have patience.She does not want to take care of any kids.I also think it has to do with her mother and mistreating her when she was young.She hates her mother.She says she worried that she´s going to be a horrible mom.When I toucht the subject she gets really mad.Like very mad screaming on the phone.I´m thinking of lettting her go.But I love her.
She's not a woman. sounds more like a teenage drama queen -
BiblicalAtheist wrote: »Cabana_Da_Don wrote: »BiblicalAtheist wrote: »Stick it out until she's in her 30s. Then the baby need comes.
She´s 33.I´m 31 but she´s fine lol.I don´t want to take an L and be with her for like 10 years and look back and be like damn...I don´t got a kid.
31? damn you better get a move on you and a prospective girl don't have much time. You wanna be 50 running around with a kid?
I have no problem being 50 and running around with a kid.I´m going to do martial arts my whole life.I can handle it. -
OK here is a suggestion I know is not popular in our community. Go to therapy. Go as a couple first and try to convince her to go solo. I say go as couple first so she can see u are cool with it. U won't look at her differently if she goes by herself. She needs to go solo though cuz she might not open up to u. It sounds like something happened that she is not telling u.
If u love her give it ur all. If u gotta leave at least u tried. -
yellowtapesport wrote: »Cabana_Da_Don wrote: »semi-auto-mato wrote: »What is her reason for not wanting kids?
She says she does not have patience.She does not want to take care of any kids.I also think it has to do with her mother and mistreating her when she was young.She hates her mother.She says she worried that she´s going to be a horrible mom.When I toucht the subject she gets really mad.Like very mad screaming on the phone.I´m thinking of lettting her go.But I love her.
She's not a woman. sounds more like a teenage drama queen
I´m starting to think that too.She did miss her teenage years living in a boarding school.It seems like she´s living it right now with me but she does not act like a teen. -
is having kids that much fun really? i sure can't tell with how much my friends with kids are always complaining or trying to get me to babysit. what is wrong with spending y'all lives fulfilling each other? cuz having kids is a guaranteed lock-down for at least 13 years cuz they can't be left alone before then.
i actually know i'd be a great mom, i just like my carefree life too much, plus peace and quiet, sleeping in and disposable income. if you really love this girl, think about if giving her up is worth hypothetical children. and do you really wanna have kids because it's what you want or what you think you should want or do?
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Get a dog.
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I'll stay with her cuz we're like-minded
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is having kids that much fun really? i sure can't tell with how much my friends with kids are always complaining or trying to get me to babysit. what is wrong with spending y'all lives fulfilling each other? cuz having kids is a guaranteed lock-down for at least 13 years cuz they can't be left alone before then.
i actually know i'd be a great mom, i just like my carefree life too much, plus peace and quiet, sleeping in and disposable income. if you really love this girl, think about if giving her up is worth hypothetical children. and do you really wanna have kids because it's what you want or what you think you should want or do?
I always wanted one.I heard people complain about kids but can´t imagem themselves without them. -
She said that.I was like wtf?Bulletproof Wallets wrote: »Get a dog.
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semi-auto-mato wrote: »OK here is a suggestion I know is not popular in our community. Go to therapy. Go as a couple first and try to convince her to go solo. I say go as couple first so she can see u are cool with it. U won't look at her differently if she goes by herself. She needs to go solo though cuz she might not open up to u. It sounds like something happened that she is not telling u.
If u love her give it ur all. If u gotta leave at least u tried.
Okay I will.That makes a lot of sense.I will try.I like this ideia a lot.
