How easy is it for you to cheat in a relationship?
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Before u crybabys n white knights come in here this a players ball...its natural for men to be with alot of women
I got one ? thats caked up...house car etc....but i want another side piece...i been using snapchat n other text apps...phone locks
I got one ? thats caked up...house car etc....but i want another side piece...i been using snapchat n other text apps...phone locks
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not easy at all because i dont do it.
might as well be single. -
i plead the 5th dimension
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Ive done it, but I know before anything gets serious if I would do it.
I tend to not do it because it'd hurt my feelings if it was done to me. Also, sometimes there is too much invested in a relationship to ? it up with cheating. ? should not have the power to put your life in jeopardy.
Also, i dont know wtf im talking about.
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too easy
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Married with 3 kids so I don't want to deal with the ? if I get caught.
Watch some porn, rub one out, and keep it moving. -
i think i might this thread in the bag as far as it being easy to do.
im on the wagon. i got at least year clean -
not easy at all because i dont do it.
might as well be single.
Ive done that for while...
But me telln a broad..ay i just wana FWB after a while she gona wana Bf...
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lies
I got ? I been ? for years who just cool with that
of course they ain't ? but that's not important -
It used to be super easy but it kinda destroyed me mentally cause I knew it was wrong no matter how I rationalized.
I think I cheated a lot because when I was younger I really struggled to get laid, and really felt like girls had no interest in me. But then later in life I realized it is possible to ? girls (don’t ask about their weight plz) and it was very hard for me to say no. -
If you like the chick your with and want to build with her, it becomes hard cause you really try to keep a secret and it ends up backfiring.
If you dont really care for any of the chicks your with, its actually really easy -
Hardest part of being in a relationship is turning down new ?
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there is no reason to cheat. u know who u are. u know if u can be with one woman or if u cant. if u cant then u need to learn how to present ur feelings. ur fear is that if u tell her u want to ? others she is going to say what's good for the goose is good for the gander and go ? other dudes. u insecure in ur spot lol. u need to work on ur ? game a bit more champ.
if u want multiple chicks get ur game up and explain to them all they have a lane and a purpose and u expect them to stay in it or be out.
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when u say ? like i got me a chick that is caked up that ? sounds weak as ? . please tell me u aint jody from baby boy? it's almost 5 what time u gotta pick up ur girl from work? u know u got HER car smh -
Damn @Max He at yo Throat fam.....lmaooo
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semi-auto-mato wrote: »there is no reason to cheat. u know who u are. u know if u can be with one woman or if u cant. if u cant then u need to learn how to present ur feelings. ur fear is that if u tell her u want to ? others she is going to say what's good for the goose is good for the gander and go ? other dudes. u insecure in ur spot lol. u need to work on ur ? game a bit more champ.
if u want multiple chicks get ur game up and explain to them all they have a lane and a purpose and u expect them to stay in it or be out.
P.s.
when u say ? like i got me a chick that is caked up that ? sounds weak as ? . please tell me u aint jody from baby boy? it's almost 5 what time u gotta pick up ur girl from work? u know u got HER car smh
I work n have my own ? ...i say caked uo bcuz i like ? with they OWN ? house car etc
Lol at telln a bad ? ay we fuckn but ima ? other females...unless the ? a bird or ugly that aint flyn -
Ive been loyal n passed up ? before
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u can't "cheat" on a gf IMO
bf/gf relationships are not serious enough to be considered cheating when u step out
it's basically a situation of one person ? somebody else and the s/o has a choice on whether they will continue being exclusive
now marriage is a different story.........u have a home, kids, shared families, and responsibilities, then the consequences get real if u decide to step out
most cats ain't built for that -
2stepz_ahead wrote: »i think i might this thread in the bag as far as it being easy to do.
im on the wagon. i got at least year clean
This post explains alot -
blakfyahking wrote: »u can't "cheat" on a gf IMO
bf/gf relationships are not serious enough to be considered cheating when u step out
it's basically a situation of one person ? somebody else and the s/o has a choice on whether they will continue being exclusive
now marriage is a different story.........u have a home, kids, shared families, and responsibilities, then the consequences get real if u decide to step out
most cats ain't built for that
? if you can't trust somebody to not step out when they just a gf/bf how can you as a wife/husband? That ? matters because trust matters -
It seems like when you're in a Relationship new ? pops up more rapidly than usual compare to when you were single.
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I got a theory on this ? .
There are only 3 types of people:
1. People who will cheat, at any given moment, nothing you can do to stop them, and it doesn't matter how fulfilling their relationship is.
2. People who won't cheat unless they feel like their mate gives them a reason.
3. People who just won't cheat even if they feel like their mate gave them a reason. They'd rather just bounce.
Throughout different points, I've been all 3. Used to be #1 as a teenager before i knew any better. Was #2 when I actually became an adult, but before I really understood how this relationship is supposed to work. Now I'm #3. I don't do ? halfway. If I'm in a relationship, I'm IN it. If i'm single, I'm slanging' ? all over the city. -
It seems like when you're in a Relationship new ? pops up more rapidly than usual compare to when you were single.
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semi-auto-mato wrote: »there is no reason to cheat. u know who u are. u know if u can be with one woman or if u cant. if u cant then u need to learn how to present ur feelings. ur fear is that if u tell her u want to ? others she is going to say what's good for the goose is good for the gander and go ? other dudes. u insecure in ur spot lol. u need to work on ur ? game a bit more champ.
if u want multiple chicks get ur game up and explain to them all they have a lane and a purpose and u expect them to stay in it or be out.
P.s.
when u say ? like i got me a chick that is caked up that ? sounds weak as ? . please tell me u aint jody from baby boy? it's almost 5 what time u gotta pick up ur girl from work? u know u got HER car smh
I work n have my own ? ...i say caked uo bcuz i like ? with they OWN ? house car etc
Lol at telln a bad ? ay we fuckn but ima ? other females...unless the ? a bird or ugly that aint flyn
why aint it flying? i would explain to her that she aint the only bad ? walking. if she as bad as u say then i might give her some stain. i aint stressing myself about cheating though. i be damn if i try to hide some ? and im a grown ass man. bad ? and all either get with my program or get the ? out.
like i said ur post speaks to ur insecurities my dude and no i am not getting at u. start telling urself u a top notch ? . u worried about losing a bad ? but is that bad ? worried about losing u? -
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I been with my girl for a long time. Was 100% faithful for like 5 years and then opened pandora’s box in 2015 and went off the rails, smashed like 10 girls since. I been too lazy to bother cheating lately, but I still could quite easily. The real question is can I fully hang it up when I marry her.
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It seems like when you're in a Relationship new ? pops up more rapidly than usual compare to when you were single.
I always wonder why this is.
Is it because you just have more confidence when you’re in a relationship? Is it because women can see that other women like you, and in their mind that makes you more valuable? A combination of the two?
