How Many of Y'all Have Actually Stayed in a Relationship After Cheating Has Happened?
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Blue you trying to get to the nitty gritty huh?
Nah, I'm not a cheater...never have been, never will be.
I strongly dislike cheaters--just be upfront about the situation and I'll leave you to do you. -
Coby Vibes wrote: »yeah. I dont expect to meet all his needs. some things I just aint capable of giving (not meaning sexually) so if he needs a oanother woman to meet a particular need, it may develop into sex. what am I say... do without that ? .
nah it aint fair to force people to do without...makes em miserable
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Yeah your ? got nothing intelligent or relevant to say in rebuttal because I'm right and you're just a sex-crazed scumbag. Take your pulsing ? elsewhere, ? .
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I've cheated he forgave me, we stayed together for few months before it ended
One cheated on me, I dropped him immediately
Funny how that works -
Coby Vibes wrote: »monogamy is not natural. so no it aint deal breaker. some men dont know how to multitask. they dont know how to keep a side piece and maintain home.
and oh yeah.. dont try to regulate my punash neither. I got options too
Tell that to the hundreds of millions of people walking around work stds -
Coby Vibes wrote: »yeah. I dont expect to meet all his needs. some things I just aint capable of giving (not meaning sexually) so if he needs a oanother woman to meet a particular need, it may develop into sex. what am I say... do without that ? .
nah it aint fair to force people to do without...makes em miserable
PFTT.
You have no self respect. You don't belong in a relationship. Your man is supposed to love you for you, not for what you do and do not suck or for how low you can and cannot get down. Relationships, marriage in particular is about compromise. You can't get everything you want or have it all. There will always be something seemingly better, you will always want more if you're that greedy and stupid. No matter who you are, you cannot expect to satisfy everything a man wants, and that goes for him to you too, it's not fair to use that as an excuse to cheat. Don't be in a relationship, then. Go be a ? like the rest of today's society then.
You can have a million girls and still be unsatisfied and always be searching for more, those men are greedy, selfish and disgusting with their STDs and sex addiction. Until you grow some esteem and learn what relationships are about don't even bother with one. -
I've cheated he forgave me, we stayed together for few months before it ended
One cheated on me, I dropped him immediately
Funny how that works
haute I don't believe you, that's unpossible.....................you don't have a ?
or do you? :screwface wtf -
blakfyahking wrote: »haute I don't believe you, that's unpossible.....................you don't have a ?
or do you? :screwface wtf
When I was younger I was such a brat
I really didn't give a ? then
I'm nice now -
i cheated on her and we got married she cheated on me and had his twins....we still ? ..i think i need jesus
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i cheated on her and we got married she cheated on me and had his twins....we still ? ..i think i need jesus
damn u lost cuz -
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i cheated on her and we got married she cheated on me and had his twins....we still ? ..i think i need jesus
Jesus loves everyone.
But you. Find Allah you cheating dog. -
i cheated on her and we got married she cheated on me and had his twins....we still ? ..i think i need jesus
White Jesus can't help you
Black Jesus with dreads and muscles can't either
You need Allah in your life -
std's come from irresponsibility which is a separate issue from monogamy or lack of it.Tell that to the hundreds of millions of people walking around work stdsPFTT.
You have no self respect. You don't belong in a relationship. Your man is supposed to love you for you, not for what you do and do not suck or for how low you can and cannot get down. Relationships, marriage in particular is about compromise. You can't get everything you want or have it all. There will always be something seemingly better, you will always want more if you're that greedy and stupid. No matter who you are, you cannot expect to satisfy everything a man wants, and that goes for him to you too, it's not fair to use that as an excuse to cheat. Don't be in a relationship, then. Go be a ? like the rest of today's society then.
You can have a million girls and still be unsatisfied and always be searching for more, those men are greedy, selfish and disgusting with their STDs and sex addiction. Until you grow some esteem and learn what relationships are about don't even bother with one.
my self respect comes from me being honest with myself and who I am and has zero influence from outside parties. It aint about anyone else but me....that's why it starts with SELF.
I didnt say it was better and most people want it all. people want all parts of themselves satisfied. compromising parts of your self is a lovely gesture... but it's doing yourself a disservice. not everybody cheats just for the sake of fukking
well some do and that' usually men who want to marry the ? , but fukk the ? . if people knew themselves better, they wouldnt have such issues. folks aint honest with themselves. -
cheating is good for the relationship keeps everyone on there toes
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blue virgo wrote: »So...you're going to be accepting of it?
Oh no, Ive been cheated on and it ended on the spot. It sounds bad to saythat I expect it.... but I wouldnt put it past anyone aymore.Coby Vibes wrote: »yeah. I dont expect to meet all his needs. some things I just aint capable of giving (not meaning sexually) so if he needs a oanother woman to meet a particular need, it may develop into sex. what am I say... do without that ? .
nah it aint fair to force people to do without...makes em miserable
There's a book about a women who catches her dude cheating, and instead of putting him out, she makes the jumpoff/ mistress move in and become their "wife" to do all their cooking and cleaning. I dont remember the name.... but I think you might like it.i cheated on her and we got married she cheated on me and had his twins....we still ? ..i think i need jesus
SMH... So NOW you need Jesus?! -
Women and Men dont cheat for the same reasons though. When you woman cheat, u actually LIKE the new dude.
We just wanna ? . U shouldnt take it so personal -
Women and Men dont cheat for the same reasons though. When you woman cheat, u actually LIKE the new dude.
We just wanna ? . U shouldnt take it so personal
that's exactly why men CANT handle a cheating woman and it aint a deal breaker for me. Men usually feel inadequate. no way I can feel threatened by a chick you dont even like. and if he does like her, that is separate from why he loves me. it's not to be take personal. -
Women and Men dont cheat for the same reasons though. When you woman cheat, u actually LIKE the new dude.
We just wanna ? . U shouldnt take it so personal
............quoted cause this is a real ass statement
only smuts ? ? they don't even like haha
meanwhile men have sex with women they don't care about all the time -
THat sounds sexy.
There's a book about a women who catches her dude cheating, and instead of putting him out, she makes the jumpoff/ mistress move in and become their "wife" to do all their cooking and cleaning. I dont remember the name.... but I think you might like it. -
Coby Vibes wrote: »that's exactly why men CANT handle a cheating woman and it aint a deal breaker for me. Men usually feel inadequate. no way I can feel threatened by a chick you dont even like. and if he does like her, that is separate from why he loves me. it's not to be take personal.
LOL this is why you need self respect. It's not about what's natural and what isn't. If it's that damn serious tell the truth upfront and don't be with the man. You are so ? naive. Love is not going behind someone's back ? , sucking and petting another ? then go home and lay in bed with you just to get up the next day and continue it all over again. There's men who do not do this and love and respect their women. You see some guys' perspectives on the subject as well as my bf not being the same as well. These men exist. FIND THEM. -
blakfyahking wrote: »............quoted cause this is a real ass statement
only smuts ? ? they don't even like haha
meanwhile men have sex with women they don't care about all the time
so lets not talk about smuts. let's talk about real women. the real woman who has ? sorted that mad dudes is trying to lock down because she represents it.
all different kinds of dudes respect her so her options are limitless. she dont have to fukk dudes she dont like... now what?
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LOL this is why you need self respect. It's not about what's natural and what isn't. If it's that damn serious tell the truth upfront and don't be with the man. You are so ? naive. Love is not going behind someone's back ? , sucking and petting another ? then go home and lay in bed with you just to get up the next day and continue it all over again. There's men who do not do this and love and respect their women. You see some guys' perspectives on the subject as well as my bf not being the same as well. These men exist. FIND THEM.
you so busy being angry and making a fukking spectacle of yourself you dont see that I agree with you. Not every relationship is a monogamous one. I never said all men cheat nor do all women. I think people cheat because they dont know that it is okay to be honest about their disbelief in monogamy.
stop responding to some issue going on in your head and pay attention to what I am typing. I agree with you -
Coby Vibes wrote: »you so busy being angry and making a fukking spectacle of yourself you dont see that I agree with you. Not every relationship is a monogamous one. I never said all men cheat nor do all women. I think people cheat because they dont know that it is okay to be honest about their disbelief in monogamy.
stop responding to some issue going on in your head and pay attention to what I am typing. I agree with you
YOU'RE making a ? of yourself because you figure just because you cannot take care of every lil' need of a man he has a right to go cheat, AND I PARAPHRASE, "some things i just can't fulfill, so he may go after another woman and who am I to say it's wrong? Better satisfied than miserable, I always say."
