Would a platonic friendship be ruined if the girl wanted more and you rejected her

makaveli03
makaveli03 Members Posts: 2,392
edited February 2011 in For The Grown & Sexy
For Example: Lets say both of you was overweight, and yall not dating or nothing but yall just mad close but noone has brought up anything about getting together, then lets say she gets in a relationship with someone while shes losing the weight...and she cool with him an everything...but in the back of your head, your a lil jealous just because shes basically the only girl that gives u the time of day while being 300 pounds. So then yall lose the weight ur tip top shape...and she also is in good shape but all of a sudden u end up looking more attractive than she does in the general aspect....and you subliminally have the idea that now you can go out and get as much ass as you could. If she breaks up with her current BF because she felt that your friendship with her is more important than her relationship...and you rejected her, do you think the friendship can continue between you and her?

And how much of you rejecting her is motivated by getting the attention after losing all that weight being 26 and single?

this question geared to the fellas but women can comment too

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