My Dad Told Me To Never Have Kids Or Get Married
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Very odd thing to say, seeing as how him and my mom are still married
He told me to just use women and keep it movin, focus on money and dont get locked down
He told me to just use women and keep it movin, focus on money and dont get locked down
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Your father is being brutally honest.
Doesnt mean he doesnt love you.
Just means, given the choice, he wouldve never had you or married your mother. -
Damn thats ? *d up for a father to say to his own child.
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American Loo VII 3D wrote: »Your father is being brutally honest.
Doesnt mean he doesnt love you.
Just means, given the choice, he wouldve never had you or married your mother.
ouch!!!!
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American Loo VII 3D wrote: »Your father is being brutally honest.
Doesnt mean he doesnt love you.
Just means, given the choice, he wouldve never had you or married your mother.
I'm gonna have to agree -
my mom said some similar ? to me one time about marriage
changed my outlook for life
+ i know way too many miserable married people with pain in the ass kids -
ouch!!!!
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That wasnt meant as a diss. but sometimes the truth can be so sharp its like a knife.
there are millions of ppl that love their families yet secretly wish they could do it all over -
b@squ1@t redux wrote: »my mom said some similar ? to me one time
changed my outlook for life
what did she say exactly, and what was your outlook on life before/after -
was he drinking??... my father once told me some self defeated ? once.. yo said
"whatever you do in life.. never "just get" someone pregnant"
them ? stay telling thier sons where they feel they ? up in life -
American Loo VII 3D wrote: »That wasnt meant as a diss. but sometimes the truth can be so sharp its like a knife.
there are millions of ppl that love their families yet secretly wish they could do it all over
I understand, but as a child hearing ur father say that and understanding what he really meant is painful.
My parents told me I wasn't suppose to be born, ( i wasn't planned) that ? stung!
but they are grateful that they had me -
I remember when Kid's dad in House Party told him some similiar ?
Kid was crushed lol -
I understand, but as a child hearing ur father say that and understanding what he really meant is painful.
My parents told me I wasn't suppose to be born, ( i wasn't planned) that ? stung!
but they are grateful that they had me
my father told me to never get married. its the only advice of his i ever took. -
My dad said not to marry a man like him: an ? .
My mom says "you can always come home" and keep a separate account just in case. -
Will you take his advice?
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American Loo VII 3D wrote: »what did she say exactly, and what was your outlook on life before/after
edited first post
but basically said she felt like she got married too young...and she was always tellin me not to get too deep with a chick and get married in my 20s
and to never have kids young...
so now i live and breathe that ? -
Your pops sneak dissin on the low
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father said to me
"Men will do a song a dance just to get in ur pants" -
your father told u a matrix kind of way that u were a mistake so make sure u dont make the same one he made .....
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American Loo VII 3D wrote: »That wasnt meant as a diss. but sometimes the truth can be so sharp its like a knife.
there are millions of ppl that love their families yet secretly wish they could do it all over
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American Loo VII 3D wrote: »my father told me to never get married. its the only advice of his i ever took.
Do you think you'll ever change ur mind?
Or is common law an option -
People always want the opposite of what they have...
But yea my folks have never said anything like that to me at all... -
That is some real ? . He could be referring to todays day and age, which is why i recommend the same thing to my boys. They be lookin hurt oh soft ass ? , actin like they wanna have kids. That's a womans dream.
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saying marriage isnt for everyone is an understatement, marriage aint for MOST people
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Do you think you'll ever change ur mind?
Or is common law an option
everytime i get comfortable with a chick and start to think "you know, marriage with her wouldnt be that bad...." like an hour later she does something to remind me why i live alone.
besides, humans are so flawed. i would never base my entire life's happiness on another person. thats not fair to me or them. -
that is some real ? . He could be referring to todays day and age, which is why i recommend the same thing to my boys. they be lookin hurt oh soft ass ? , actin like they wanna have kids. That's a womans dream.
lmao........ -
father said to me
"Men will do a song a dance just to get in ur pants"
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