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blackrain
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Told you were wrong in public? Do you expect your man to always back you even when you and him both know you're wrong? Or would you want him to just be straight up with you right then and there?
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damn, i wanna hear what these ladies say....
bbut from a man'sperspective, i try to avoid disagreements at all costs in public.....
and if i think she's just overly wrong about anything, i try to throw signs and signals to abandon and abort all conversations... -
scenario?....
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Zone6reppa wrote: »scenario?....
Please. Be more specific. -
Zone6reppa wrote: »scenario?....
ok...let's say your lady is having a discussion with somebody and the argument she's making you know is some ? ...you know the info she's saying is flat out wrong...would you tell her she's wrong, just be quiet and let her be wrong, or take her side even though you know she's wrong... -
ok...let's say your lady is having a discussion with somebody and the argument she's making you know is some ? ...you know the info she's saying is flat out wrong...would you tell her she's wrong, just be quiet and let her be wrong, or take her side even though you know she's wrong...
i'd standing behind the person she talking to like
"abort !! abort!!"
bring it in bring it in!!
we needa huddle!!! -
Nah..tell me im wrong, in my ear though. Don't play me in front of folks lmao but i need to know im wrong so i can ?
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i'd standing behind the person she talking to like
"abort !! abort!!"
bring it in bring it in!!
we needa huddle!!!
Respectfully make me aware that I am wrong.
Just do not ever cause a scene, be loud or argue with me in public, I don't do any of that.
Don't support my faults, correct me when I am wrong without undermining me of course. -
DEE-LICIOUS wrote: »Nah..tell me im wrong, in my ear though. Don't play me in front of folks lmao but i need to know im wrong so i can ?
hey Dee, im tryna figure out how to celebrate my birthday...any ideas? -
DEE-LICIOUS wrote: »Nah..tell me im wrong, in my ear though. Don't play me in front of folks lmao but i need to know im wrong so i can ?
lol @ Dee getting a text like
"I STILL
U...BUT....? " -
Conscious__Nkechi wrote: »Respectfully make me aware that I am wrong.
Don't cause a scene, don't be loud, don't argue with me in public, I don't do any of that.
Don't support my faults, correct me when I am wrong without undermining me of course. Don't be my mother now.
now this would be ideal...but I think some men have it in our heads that if we disagree with ya'll in public it's gonna make ya'll wanna do us like Michael did ol girl in Godfather 3 *Du insert gif here* -
ooo I see what u did here......mmmhmmm I got some ideas though. What day is it? I need to pre-plan my wardrobehey Dee, im tryna figure out how to celebrate my birthday...any ideas?
lmao yesterday me and this cat went back and forth via text...i was flippin the ? out too. And after it was all said and done I realized I played myself ? cause I flipped out over something I didn't fully read. I'll never tell his ass I was wrong though. We canceled our future plans and everything. Well...I canceled them.lol @ Dee getting a text like
"I STILL U...BUT....? " -
now this would be ideal...but I think some men have it in our heads that if we disagree with ya'll in public it's gonna make ya'll wanna do us like Michael did ol girl in Godfather 3 *Du insert gif here*
As long as you not do it in a "play me" kind of way, there is no issue with helping me see my wrong ways.
It's all about honest and tough love. Some females may be offended but perhaps that is a personal issue.
Growth can't occur without that kind of honesty. That isn't being rude, if anything that is love so women and men should not be offended by this. -
Nah, don't tell me I'm wrong in public.
Wait until we're alone and address it.
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[QUOTE=DEE-LICIOUS;1460668]ooo I see what u did here......mmmhmmm I got some ideas though. What day is it? I need to pre-plan my wardrobe
lmao yesterday me and this cat went back and forth via text...i was flippin the ? out too. And after it was all said and done I realized I played myself ? cause I flipped out over something I didn't fully read. I'll never tell his ass I was wrong though. We canceled our future plans and everything. Well...I canceled them.[/QUOTE]
3 days from now... -
Conscious__Nkechi wrote: »As long as you not do it in a "play me" kind of way, there is no issue with helping me see my wrong ways.
It's all about honest and tough love. Some females may be offended but perhaps that is a personal issue.
Growth can't occur without that kind of honesty. That isn't being rude, if anything that is love so women and men should not be offended by this.
see that's what I don't get...I'd rather tell my girl she's wrong and let her be mad at me than look like an idiot to somebody else cuz she wants to believe she's right...in a weird way it's a way of showing I care but I've been around some women who don't see it like that...they see it as undermining them or trying to show them up -
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see that's what I don't get...I'd rather tell my girl she's wrong and let her be mad at me than look like an idiot to somebody else cuz she wants to believe she's right...in a weird way it's a way of showing I care but I've been around some women who don't see it like that...they see it as undermining them or trying to show them up
No see, there is a way of going about things.
If I am wrong, don't act childish and play me about it, tell me I am wrong and explain how.
Put me on, that is what we are supposed to do, look out for each other. Teach each other things without trying to doing it in a "know-it-all" manner and learn from each other. I can't see a relationship any other way.
I don't like things with a coating of sugar, I'm a big kid now. -
Conscious__Nkechi wrote: »As long as you not do it in a "play me" kind of way, there is no issue with helping me see my wrong ways.
It's all about honest and tough love. Some females may be offended but perhaps that is a personal issue.
Growth can't occur without that kind of honesty. That isn't being rude, if anything that is love so women and men should not be offended by this.
yea i agree....I wouldnt get mad if he told me i was wrong, cause i need to know but just don't blatantly put me out there in front of folks like that lol show some support...let me know in a nice, private manner. shoot..even send me a text like du said lol -
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be likeConscious__Nkechi wrote: »No see, there is a way of going about things.
If I am wrong, don't act childish and play me about it, tell me I am wrong and explain how.
Put me on, that is what we are supposed to do, look out for each other. Teach each other things without trying to doing it in a "know-it-all" manner and learn from each other. I can't see a relationship any other way.
I don't like things with a coating of sugar, I'm a big kid now.
"excuse me a second yall....lemme holla at u over here right quick........she be back yall.........(gets to corner)...u need some gatoraid?? a back rub?? cold compress?? cuz u getting slaughtered outt here boo" -
Lmao.be like
"excuse me a second yall....lemme holla at u over here right quick........she be back yall.........(gets to corner)...u need some gatoraid?? a back rub?? cold compress?? cuz u getting slaughtered outt here boo"
Minus the "boo" part. We don't do "boo."parallelrhymes wrote: »You can let here know she is wrong without completely embarrassing her and belittling her in public.
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9/10 i know when im wrong
and if i chose to continue something knowing im wrong
i have a reason for it
if he decides to jump on the other side
he ?
we could discuss that ? later! -
parallelrhymes wrote: »You can let here know she is wrong without completely embarrassing her and belittling her in public. Depending on what it is I will back her though, but if it questions my integrity then I'm not going to lie for her when in reality I know she is making a fool of herself
i couldn't do that...then we're just 2 ? being wrong together lol... -
DEE-LICIOUS wrote: »smmfh...postpone it till november 4th yo
there's that NY...even coming out when you type...don't worry I don't celebrate or do much for my birthday anyway...im just gonna get some good ass sea food and find somebody to cook it for me lol -
if she says some dumb ? I just be like[IMG]http://www.gifsoup.com/view/359535/? -please-o.gif[/IMG]
