Ladies, why would you want to change a man?

because if you do, doesnt that reveal that he's weak minded and can be easily manipulated. and why would you want someone like that. So if the next chick that has better manipulating game than you,she can come an take him right from under your nose. or he wont be able to think for himself and now you have a grown ass kid, or what if you had kids with him and the next chick ? with his head and changes him, now he wont come get his kids or wants to take them from you.

I'm just curious