do black women mind being approached at work?

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5toneg
5toneg Members Posts: 32
edited December 2010 in The Powder Room
im white and i only started messing w/black women earlier this year but they act differently than white women. like sometimes i could get a white girls phone # if she was busy doing something but she would act annoyed. but i wouldnt even bother talking to them at work. but sometimes black women flirt w/me while they are working. so is it ok if a guy does this while you are working as long as your boss/coworkers arent around?

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  • bankrupt baller
    bankrupt baller Members Posts: 12,927 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited December 2010
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    Wtf kind of question is this? Lol
  • robdaze151
    robdaze151 Banned Users Posts: 2,019 ✭✭
    edited December 2010
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    Depends. if you're flipping burgers gofor it. If you have to wear anything Business Casual or up don't try it. They take that job seriously and won't want to jeporadize it. They will probably cuss you the ? out and emberass you. Not to mention:
    sexual harassment lawsuit
  • shadb33
    shadb33 Members Posts: 3,810 ✭✭✭
    edited December 2010
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    women are supposed to be nice at work...sounds like u are a customer and u ask for their number while their working..or are u guys coworkers?...if u are a customer make sure she is really flirting and not just giving good customer service
  • TrueGodHS
    TrueGodHS Members Posts: 2,670 ✭✭✭✭
    edited December 2010
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    T/S is white right... lol at his avi
  • richspiffy
    richspiffy Members Posts: 3
    edited December 2010
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    Aren't you the same guy from lipstick alley?
  • TrueGodHS
    TrueGodHS Members Posts: 2,670 ✭✭✭✭
    edited December 2010
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    women flirt at work predominantly because they are around a dude alot pretty much at work. I mean its fairly nothing new. I dont really believe in that ? too much
  • bankrupt baller
    bankrupt baller Members Posts: 12,927 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited December 2010
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    truegodhs wrote: »
    t/s is white right... Lol at his avi

    im pretty sure that is the very first thing he said
  • 5toneg
    5toneg Members Posts: 32
    edited December 2010
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    TrueGodHS wrote: »
    women flirt at work predominantly because they are around a dude alot pretty much at work. I mean its fairly nothing new. I dont really believe in that ? too much

    Im not talking about ones you work w/ and like I said w/white women didnt do this. I'm talking about ones who are working in a store you come into or something.

    and about my avator Vitali is the best since Dempsey :p deal w/it
  • TrueGodHS
    TrueGodHS Members Posts: 2,670 ✭✭✭✭
    edited December 2010
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    im pretty sure that is the very first thing he said

    I know that ? .... I was observing lil homie
  • TrueGodHS
    TrueGodHS Members Posts: 2,670 ✭✭✭✭
    edited December 2010
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    5toneg wrote: »
    Im not talking about ones you work w/ and like I said w/white women didnt do this. I'm talking about ones who are working in a store you come into or something.

    and about my avator Vitali is the best since Dempsey :p deal w/it

    Best since Dempsey........... lol... okay

    You shouldnt do that ? at all.... I mean, most women just flirt with customers just cause. I mean, I had women flirt with me in stores, but I dont know. It feels like..... kinda stupid to do it to me
  • 5toneg
    5toneg Members Posts: 32
    edited December 2010
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    yeah not women i work w/ and not business type women or anything. it's just w/white women i didnt do this because of the way they acted working, unapproachable but black women dont act like that. and the "right" opportunities dont come up enough. have any of u talked to women who were working?
  • TrueGodHS
    TrueGodHS Members Posts: 2,670 ✭✭✭✭
    edited December 2010
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    5toneg wrote: »
    yeah not women i work w/ and not business type women or anything. it's just w/white women i didnt do this because of the way they acted working, unapproachable but black women dont act like that. and the "right" opportunities dont come up enough. have any of u talked to women who were working?

    I have talked to women who were working, its just kind of awkward to do. Especially in the interracial sense.... its tough
  • Conscious__Nkechi
    Conscious__Nkechi Members Posts: 6,110 ✭✭✭
    edited December 2010
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    Can you be a little bit more general?
  • b@squ1@t redux
    b@squ1@t redux Members Posts: 13,035 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited December 2010
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    those black chicks wanna steal your soul and sell it to witchdoctor's brobro


    dont look em in the eyes
  • 5toneg
    5toneg Members Posts: 32
    edited December 2010
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    TrueGodHS wrote: »
    I have talked to women who were working, its just kind of awkward to do. Especially in the interracial sense.... its tough

    you are white too? For me black women are easier to talk to than white women were. and its wierd because im not the type that "acts black" but thanks for the response. and some of you are funny :)
  • b@squ1@t redux
    b@squ1@t redux Members Posts: 13,035 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited December 2010
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    5toneg wrote: »
    you are funny :)


    nh


    just another day for me gettin my weight up in ethiopian fitness clubs
  • TrueGodHS
    TrueGodHS Members Posts: 2,670 ✭✭✭✭
    edited December 2010
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    5toneg wrote: »
    you are white too? For me black women are easier to talk to than white women were. and its wierd because im not the type that "acts black" but thanks for the response. and some of you are funny :)

    Naw im black but I talked to women in the interracial sense...... white women before and some initiate flirting, but I try not to indulge for two reasons: One, cause I had/have a girl. Two, it's just awkward to do this ? honestly.... Black women, white women.... women can be easy to talk to upon first meeting.. thats part of their illusion my friend