Should I tell her I smashed the homie?
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Say y'all was dating someone that you wanted to get more serious with and you introduce them to your roommate of the opposite sex. What would you say if they asked were you and you're roommate ever involved knowing that y'all did? You really like this person so would you be straight up with them? Thinking about stepping to this girl but i wanna come correct...
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Damned if you do and damned if you don't.
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i see a no win situation here..
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Tell her you smashed the homie cuz she might smash thinking you anit serious with the roommate.
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Wait until you're in a committed relationship.
Then hit them with the "no lies, no BS" oath.
Once she takes the oath, explain that you smashed the roomie. -
Did you make her pay for herself on the first date? Are you going to?
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Don't tell her because she'll never trust you around her.
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If it comes up, tell her the truth. Until then it's still frankly none of her business.
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Don't tell her because she'll never trust you around her.
Not true. You're speaking from men's logic aka real logic. Women's logic dictates that the chick will act like it doesn't faze her in your face but will ask her roommate if you were good or not. If the girl gives you a good review, you have nothing to worry about... but they won't be roommates for much longer. -
not pimpish
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Yea its a no win situation, but if your honest you'll get more points for being a man about it and telling her... sooner or later she will ask they always do.
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The_Recruiter wrote: »Did you make her pay for herself on the first date? Are you going to?
I always pay but is she worth me paying? yes, she's cool as hell. I wouldn't regret paying for her because I know she's cool people and not a stupid broad. -
it depends.....
IF the question was ever brought to me, I''d admit it.......you cant lose in this type of situation if you admit it......
If I was never asked before hand, I'd say something AFTER they were in my clutches to strenghten our bond.... -
Ultimately, this is NOT going to end well. Only thing you can do is salvage the situation for as long as possible.
To that end, if the issue comes up, don't lie.
If it doesn't come up, don't volunteer any information. -
dont tell .... if ole girl tries exposing u just flip the script and make her look jealous .