IC Plz help a brotha : Is It Women or Pregnant Women

young law
young law Members Posts: 4,537 ✭✭✭
edited May 2011 in For The Grown & Sexy
So last nite i was chillin,
downstairs,
at my new table writing,listening to beats and enjoyin this new Jeremiah Weed,

my lady come and sit next to me,
and after 20 minutes she jus start an argument/says were not doin good.

shocked the ? outta me because i jus asked her two days ago were we okay and she had nothin but good things to say,
man,
i cant even get in a good space to sit at the table & write knowing that my house aint in order,
now she tellin me she unhappy.

we argue,she wants to quit arguing and say nah, we didnt accomplish nothin in our talk, i wanna keep talkin till we resolve this ? ,
she gets upset and starts crying,

she says she wanna go upstairs and talk,
i jus sit and listen once we get upstairs

and you know what,
i dont think ? really got accomplished,
i think she jus wanted me to come upstairs




wtf,
is this somethin women do
or
something that pregnant women do???

Comments

  • SoutCity
    SoutCity Members Posts: 1,901 ✭✭
    edited May 2011
    We need more details ? ..
  • young law
    young law Members Posts: 4,537 ✭✭✭
    edited May 2011
    It depend wat ya arguin bout

    the amount of time i spend writing/listening to beats/helpin my brotha and lil homie write/pick beats vs the time i spend with her

    but,
    my side is,
    shework everyday and every day she come home and take a nap. ever since she got like 6 months she be sleepin like a beast,

    so how am i to jus know when to spend time with you when you slepp everyday.

    so i said,you want me to jus come up stairs when you wake up from your nap,
    and she like "nooooooo. i dont wanna have to tell you that. you should jus do it"

    um like,why cant you jus say yeah,come up stairs when i wake up.

    and she like,"cause that like you dont care if i gotta say that"


    but um like,if i didnt care,i wouldnt take out the time to ask you.


    for 6 weks i aint did no type of writing. i jus been in slumper,
    expectin this baby has really gave me some type of anxiety.
    so ? ,i really jus been downstairs to not be around her while im depressed.
    man, i would take a drive but gas is too damn high
  • SoutCity
    SoutCity Members Posts: 1,901 ✭✭
    edited May 2011
    young law wrote: »
    the amount of time i spend writing/listening to beats/helpin my brotha and lil homie write/pick beats vs the time i spend with her

    but,
    my side is,
    shework everyday and every day she come home and take a nap. ever since she got like 6 months she be sleepin like a beast,

    so how am i to jus know when to spend time with you when you slepp everyday.

    so i said,you want me to jus come up stairs when you wake up from your nap,
    and she like "nooooooo. i dont wanna have to tell you that. you should jus
    do it"

    um like,why cant you jus say yeah,come up stairs when i wake up.

    and she like,"cause that like you dont care if i gotta say that"


    but um like,if i didnt care,i wouldnt take out the time to ask you.


    for 6 weks i aint did no type of writing. i jus been in slumper,
    expectin this baby has really gave me some type of anxiety.
    so ? ,i really jus been downstairs to not be around her while im depressed.
    man, i would take a drive but gas is too damn high

    typical woman answer bruh
  • shawnbrown
    shawnbrown Members Posts: 2,256
    edited May 2011
    you cant make her happy dog... you cant
  • Pura~Diabla
    Pura~Diabla Members Posts: 1,157
    edited May 2011
    Sounds like she was just having a bad day. Everybody has one of those every now and then.
  • young law
    young law Members Posts: 4,537 ✭✭✭
    edited May 2011
    shawnbrown wrote: »
    you cant make her happy dog... you cant

    i been thinkin that. that these hormones jus need to ride themselves out and in 8 weeks she'll be her normal cool self again
    Sounds like she was just having a bad day. Everybody has one of those every now and then.

    yeah,
    and the fact that i think what chris rock said is true,
    women dont want you to have happiness outside of them

    if im sittin miserable & bored then she aint got much to say,
    but if she see im talkin to someone else or writing or even watchin tv downstairs,
    she flip out

    she is an excellent artist(drawing) and for whatever reason she stopped drawing,
    i got more serious in my writing and she be like "well what about me"

    um like"i neva told yo ass to quit your hobby(s)"
  • haute
    haute Members Posts: 11,581 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited May 2011
    When will you men learn to read our minds


    I mean, get with it

    Stop making relationships hard
  • MC The Rapper
    MC The Rapper Members Posts: 8,140 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited May 2011
    can you get her involved in your writing process so she doesn't feel left out
  • lilhd47
    lilhd47 Members Posts: 833
    edited May 2011
    i wonder if my bm felt this way..guess i should'a asked these qustion
  • missiamtheshit
    missiamtheshit Members Posts: 949
    edited May 2011
    it gets like that when a woman is prego. she wants what she wants right then and there.
  • young law
    young law Members Posts: 4,537 ✭✭✭
    edited May 2011
    can you get her involved in your writing process so she doesn't feel left out

    i tried,
    but she dont like sittin downstairs

    i even tried to write upstairs but its jus somethin about it.
    i like sittin at a table, i like lookin out the window, i like the open space of downstairs
    and most importantly, i like sittin at a table


    i jus got a new table yesterday and for the first time in like 6 weeks i was ready to write
  • bmoreeast
    bmoreeast Members Posts: 3,436 ✭✭✭
    edited May 2011
    young law wrote: »
    the amount of time i spend writing/listening to beats/helpin my brotha and lil homie write/pick beats vs the time i spend with her

    but,
    my side is,
    shework everyday and every day she come home and take a nap. ever since she got like 6 months she be sleepin like a beast,

    so how am i to jus know when to spend time with you when you slepp everyday.

    so i said,you want me to jus come up stairs when you wake up from your nap,
    and she like "nooooooo. i dont wanna have to tell you that. you should jus do it"

    um like,why cant you jus say yeah,come up stairs when i wake up.

    and she like,"cause that like you dont care if i gotta say that"


    but um like,if i didnt care,i wouldnt take out the time to ask you.


    for 6 weks i aint did no type of writing. i jus been in slumper,
    expectin this baby has really gave me some type of anxiety.
    so ? ,i really jus been downstairs to not be around her while im depressed.
    man, i would take a drive but gas is too damn high

    When women are pregnant their extra emotional.

    Never underestimate the power of quality time. That may sound like some female ? but its some true ? believe me.

    You cant ask women ? you know what your supposed to do so you should just take that initiative and step up first.

    I have three boys so believe me i know how it is. Dont look at it as your kissing up or being a sucker thats just how it is when their pregnant.

    They want you to lay next to them while their sleep run up and down the steps for them rub their feet all that, lls. ? it tho its your future BM you gotta pamper her.
  • young law
    young law Members Posts: 4,537 ✭✭✭
    edited May 2011
    haute wrote: »
    When will you men learn to read our minds


    I mean, get with it

    Stop making relationships hard

    lol
    this is a joke but its true,
    she do that rosie perez ?

    "bae,im thirsty"
    3 minutes pass
    "bae,im so thirsty"
    3 minutes pass
    "bae,could you go get me some tea"

    um like yeah,
    of course i'll get you some tea,but dont jus announce some "im thirsty" ? like you the queen of Zamuba and i should automatically know what you want upon request

    jus say it
  • kzzl
    kzzl Members Posts: 7,548 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited May 2011
    young law wrote: »
    the amount of time i spend writing/listening to beats/helpin my brotha and lil homie write/pick beats vs the time i spend with her

    but,
    my side is,
    shework everyday and every day she come home and take a nap. ever since she got like 6 months she be sleepin like a beast,

    so how am i to jus know when to spend time with you when you slepp everyday.

    so i said,you want me to jus come up stairs when you wake up from your nap,
    and she like "nooooooo. i dont wanna have to tell you that. you should jus do it"

    um like,why cant you jus say yeah,come up stairs when i wake up.

    and she like,"cause that like you dont care if i gotta say that"


    but um like,if i didnt care,i wouldnt take out the time to ask you.


    for 6 weks i aint did no type of writing. i jus been in slumper,
    expectin this baby has really gave me some type of anxiety.
    so ? ,i really jus been downstairs to not be around her while im depressed.
    man, i would take a drive but gas is too damn high

    The bolded would of had me spazzing out on her. I can't ? stand it when they say this ? .