Why do women hate bad boy characters in movies/tv....but love them in real life?

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makaveli03
makaveli03 Members Posts: 2,392
edited July 2011 in The Powder Room
its an upcoming trend ive been noticing

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  • Copper
    Copper Members Posts: 49,532 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    lol @ upcoming trend....its been the thing to do

    but yeah theyl shout at the screen "he aint no good 4 u girl", while they sit next to tyrone who is ruining thier credit, jobless with a criminal record a mile long
  • Real Lady
    Real Lady Banned Users Posts: 1,878 ✭✭
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    sometimes it's confusing when a woman falls for a man who did bad things, vs falling for a man because he did bad things..


    o.k sometimes women fall for men who did bad things, but we think we can see the GOOD in him....so in your mind its not falling for a bad person...

    The onlooker can only see the image of how it looks to the naked eye.


    maybe it look like most women who fall for "bad boys" adore the evil, in some cases it's because we can see a good person in someone that nobody else can see good in..

    think about it. player:cool:
  • Real Lady
    Real Lady Banned Users Posts: 1,878 ✭✭
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    & also because alot of men who come in good packages as good men are EVIL underneathe when you get to know them, it makes women fall for men who have bad packages with good hearts.
  • Little JJ
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    Really, why do girls usually go for bad guys?

    It's annoying.
  • Copper
    Copper Members Posts: 49,532 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Its not what u are underneath or how u feel underneath that determines u, its ur actions what u do that truly matters
  • makaveli03
    makaveli03 Members Posts: 2,392
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    my whole thing is women can like what they like..I could care less, its just the hypocrisy of it that annoys a ? , especially when watching movies, or shows like The Wire
  • Bussy_Getta
    Bussy_Getta Members Posts: 37,679 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Ive never dated a bad boy, they bad duh :-/
  • CMac
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    It's true in the movies, chicks never cheer on the bad guys in movies. As for real life, most women don't even know what they want in a man, so dating bad guys is inevitable.

    I don't think they fall in love with bad guys, it seems to be an infatuation until they realize he anit ? .
  • lovelycreation
    lovelycreation Members Posts: 1,765
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    Little JJ wrote: »
    Really, why do girls usually go for bad guys?

    It's annoying.

    I thought you was a boy, big time drug dealer!!!
  • lovelycreation
    lovelycreation Members Posts: 1,765
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    Whats your fasination with bad boys, since u like to make threads about them.
  • makaveli03
    makaveli03 Members Posts: 2,392
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    lol this is not depressing at all, i dont give a ? if women want to ? a thug, or a nice guy...my beef is with the way they act like the bad boy on tv/movies is ? , and they never shut their mouths about it....example "the situation" (jersey shore)
  • Copper
    Copper Members Posts: 49,532 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    most women dont know the definition of a good man ....and thier choices in life reflect that
  • yanniiiee
    yanniiiee Members Posts: 465
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    ..Any bad boy I have ever spoken to lost my interest after a few texts..
  • Ishi
    Ishi Members Posts: 4,649 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    most women dont know the definition of a good man ....and thier choices in life reflect that

    ...........................................
  • yanniiiee
    yanniiiee Members Posts: 465
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    :[ well that's disappointing,
  • garv
    garv Confirm Email Posts: 4,080 ✭✭✭
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    Young-Ice wrote: »
    No it isnt. You are wrong Kai.

    It's been scientifically proven that women are becoming more attractive with each generation and men are not
    . This is because men seek spouses by attractiveness, and women seek mates by how well they can provide for offspring. in this day and age that means moolahh.

    Money: Helping ugly old men ? young sexy ? since 500 BC

    How do you even begin to 'scientifically prove' this? Pseudo science at its finest.
  • Bwoahmizzee
    Bwoahmizzee Members Posts: 6,962 ✭✭✭
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    people like what they like

    not all women are lookin for thugs

    * shrugs*
  • b@squ1@t redux
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  • dwade206
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    Real Lady wrote: »
    & also because alot of men who come in good packages as good men are EVIL underneathe when you get to know them, it makes women fall for men who have bad packages with good hearts.

    nah, no disrespect but shut the ? up. A lot of women make the mistake of falling for the loser/bad-guy/thug ? because they interpret violent/reckless/erratic behavior as manly hence they feel protected. Once dude starts ? up, or perhaps ? you up, then you realize the educated, employed, "prison recordless", dude was the way to go....








    and now its too late
  • deaththreats
    deaththreats Members Posts: 1,602 ✭✭
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    Real Lady wrote: »
    sometimes it's confusing when a woman falls for a man who did bad things, vs falling for a man because he did bad things..


    o.k sometimes women fall for men who did bad things, but we think we can see the GOOD in him....so in your mind its not falling for a bad person...

    The onlooker can only see the image of how it looks to the naked eye.


    maybe it look like most women who fall for "bad boys" adore the evil, in some cases it's because we can see a good person in someone that nobody else can see good in..

    think about it. player:cool:

    That's some deep ? ........preciate the post
  • Co_Town_Michael
    Co_Town_Michael Members Posts: 5,551 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Because women are the WOAT at making up their mind about ? .