Can You Just Let Your S/O Walk Out or Leave Without An Argument Being Resolved?
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that ? annoys me. sometimes she just has to go somewhere, or maybe she wants to sleep. and in some cases she has to go somewhere but then she'll tell me she doesnt feel like talking on her phone even though she could.
? ? that. i cant just let some ? sit there in my mind and be unresolved, i wanna finish it ASAP. the sleep one is annoying as hell too cause its only sleep, like damn, it might only take a few minutes to talk it out but she just gets all set to sleep instead. going along with that, sometimes she'll just get her points in then say shes tired.
what yall think? i just feel like i want to resolve whatever it is before we're apart so im not just dwelling on it for a long time, which will probably make it worse, and make it spill over into the next day or later that day.
? ? that. i cant just let some ? sit there in my mind and be unresolved, i wanna finish it ASAP. the sleep one is annoying as hell too cause its only sleep, like damn, it might only take a few minutes to talk it out but she just gets all set to sleep instead. going along with that, sometimes she'll just get her points in then say shes tired.
what yall think? i just feel like i want to resolve whatever it is before we're apart so im not just dwelling on it for a long time, which will probably make it worse, and make it spill over into the next day or later that day.
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lol..you're just scared she's going to do something stupid while she's away and mad.
I hate drawn out arguments though...it does dominate your thoughts until its resolved which is annoying. -
it depends if we both real upset than its best to cool off and speak later but if she just wants to get the LAST word before she has to go anywhere nah i aint wit it.but sometimes it is best to sleep on it cause alot of times when you wake up its not that serious and u can either speak on it like adults or just let it go.
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it sucks at night cause she goes to bed way before me, so im just stuck up thinking about it and shes off sleeping. then she wakes up and half the time the problem is just gone because we're over it, but those hours im up thinking about it suck.
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it sucks at night cause she goes to bed way before me, so im just stuck up thinking about it and shes off sleeping. then she wakes up and half the time the problem is just gone because we're over it, but those hours im up thinking about it suck.
So either wake her ass up like i'm sure she would do to you or let it go.The fact that you woke up the next and u r over it means it wasn't that serious. -
I hate that ? too. This one girl would just storm out of my dorm when we had disagreements and it irritated me a lot. I always went after her too. SMH
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So either wake her ass up like i'm sure she would do to you or let it go.The fact that you woke up the next and u r over it means it wasn't that serious.
yeah we dont really have major issues ever, theyre always small. we just both get upset easily and end up blowing things up in the moment. -
LMAO at this ? unable to control his ? .
*frail ? thread*
Ol' Drake ass ? .
Ol' "I need someone to put this weight ooooon" ass ? . -
yeah we dont really have major issues ever, theyre always small. we just both get upset easily and end up blowing things up in the moment.
me and mines go thru that we have come to an understanding that if one of us feel like they have to walk out n cool down than go ahead but i'll be damn if she think she gone have the last word and shut the convo down like i;m supposed to stay quiet.....aww naw hell naw lol -
i think what makes it harder for me is im not the type to want to "cool down" or walk away or think about it for a little bit, then come back. like i dont ever really get super heated, im pretty cool and calculated. she isnt though, so sometimes she needs that cool down period and im just like wtf lets finish this. gotta adapt though.
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not everyone can control there emotions so if she wanna sleep on it than say whatever comes out of her mouth(that we all know can be very disrespectful) ? it let it go and move on.
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I dont have a S/O...
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i used to be that way
idk one day i just realized it was dumb to just stay mad then to make up and figure it out n stopped -
yeah alot of chicks argue with they boyfreinds then they come ? me
I ? them, they get in a better mood and go work things out with they man.
my ? is like a counselor -
I let her handle it the way she wants to.I dont care if its A or B as long as the end result is C.
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Cabana_Da_Don wrote: »I let her handle it the way she wants to.I dont care if its A or B as long as the end result is C.
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cant stay mad at my lady if its over dumb ? . ill surprise her with a lil gift when i get back. the ? always gets extra soft n wet in these instances.
as for serious issues, we need to sit down n talk that ? out like grown ups. only time either one of us will be like, u know what ? this im thru with it, is if one of us is gettin too outta hand or bein ignorant on sum loud talkin dont let u respond type ? .
but if its over stupid small things, ? that ? , enjoy urselves. theres bigger things to worry about.
i would have a prob with a chick constantly walkin out of an argument tho. what happens when u really need her? -
politicalthug202 wrote: »yeah alot of chicks argue with they boyfreinds then they come ? me
I ? them, they get in a better mood and go work things out with they man.
my ? is like a counselor
smh..........you're going to end up on the 6 o clock news one day. -
The usual evasion tactic employed by most women.....when it comes to logic and reasoning in an argument, you"d be hard pressed to find a woman willing to go toe to toe with the man without a random emotional outburst about something totally unrelated....unless he's a complete idiot......all that "cooling down" ? does is buy her time to either come up with some ? to say to u if u guys decide to continue the argument at a later time or they hope u cool off and eventually dead the argument, like MOST men do and let them off the hook......as a man, my pride won't allow me to revisit an argument when a certain amount of time has passed, which is what most womren bank on, esp if they kno they are wrong....so if it becomes a regular thing, ill purposely maintain my anger and tell her I'm even more ? off for having to wait to hash it out and tell her I don't wanna talk about it to burn her skin...cause logically the sooner we talk about it the sooner the issue is deaded...but if she wanna play that ? game ill do it to spite her and see how she likes it
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The usual evasion tactic employed by most women.....when it comes to logic and reasoning in an argument, you"d be hard pressed to find a woman willing to go toe to toe with the man without a random emotional outburst about something totally unrelated....unless he's a complete idiot......all that "cooling down" ? does is buy her time to either come up with some ? to say to u if u guys decide to continue the argument at a later time or they hope u cool off and eventually dead the argument, like MOST men do and let them off the hook......as a man, my pride won't allow me to revisit an argument when a certain amount of time has passed, which is what most womren bank on, esp if they kno they are wrong....so if it becomes a regular thing, ill purposely maintain my anger and tell her I'm even more ? off for having to wait to hash it out and tell her I don't wanna talk about it to burn her skin...cause logically the sooner we talk about it the sooner the issue is deaded...but if she wanna play that ? game ill do it to spite her and see how she likes it
yo real talk listen to this lol cause i'm actually doing this right now with mine lol -
sometimes u can't talk about it, u just got to let the person think about it...talking about it when u mad usually end up in a screaming match, and then you both can't really hear or understand each other... it gets no where, and then words get twisted up and everything get blown out of proportion:p
sometimes u gotta let a person WALK IT OUT.