Ladies Would you forget about your kids well being to run behind a Man?

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JadaRoss
JadaRoss Members Posts: 6,791 ✭✭✭
edited September 2011 in The Powder Room
Whether He's a THug,Wallstreet cat,well paid brothaz etc?

Ive seen alot of women do this.they will run behind a man hoping for a better life

I was watching basketball Wives LA

And Draya Michelle and another chick are known for mistreating their kids

Im wondering is it worth it?

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  • Nthngis4vr
    Nthngis4vr Members Posts: 2,171 ✭✭
    edited September 2011
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    No i would not.
  • Conscious__Nkechi
    Conscious__Nkechi Members Posts: 6,110 ✭✭✭
    edited September 2011
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    Never, not ever.
  • kat2180
    kat2180 Members Posts: 12,056 ✭✭✭
    edited September 2011
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    Women like that shouldn't have children.
  • MsSouthern
    MsSouthern Members, Moderators Posts: 21,791 Regulator
    edited September 2011
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    never ever ever ever would I do that
  • atribecalledgabi
    atribecalledgabi Members, Moderators Posts: 14,063 Regulator
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    i wouldn't do that. i will be great mother. i'm perfect and will ALWAYS put my child first.
  • Yummy.Lix
    Yummy.Lix Members Posts: 1,398
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    I don't even do that now without children.
  • kat2180
    kat2180 Members Posts: 12,056 ✭✭✭
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    I'm perfect? lol
  • thehonorable
    thehonorable Members Posts: 2,979 ✭✭✭✭
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    No woman is going to admit this.

    If you going to set women up you gotta come with a better question
  • chilly
    chilly Members Posts: 1,206 ✭✭
    edited September 2011
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    No woman is going to admit this.

    If you going to set women up you gotta come with a better question

    ................
  • Yummy.Lix
    Yummy.Lix Members Posts: 1,398
    edited September 2011
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    I will never understand why women chase men.
  • MsSouthern
    MsSouthern Members, Moderators Posts: 21,791 Regulator
    edited September 2011
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    kat2180 wrote: »
    I'm perfect? lol

    I lol'd too
  • JadaRoss
    JadaRoss Members Posts: 6,791 ✭✭✭
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    alot of women lie and say they wont but in reality they will

    you really dont even gotta have alot of dough for a woman to be that trifling

    my homie sister dropped off her 3 kids over their mama house leaving the kids there weeks at a time and then one day she called her moms saying she should get custody of the kids cuz she's tired and wants to start over and she's in love with this guy she met at this hole in the wall club

    then she said something that shocked me,that her new beau doesnt have kids and dont want any so it's best for the kids to finish school across town

    im like what a lousy ass mother foreal

    she abandoned her kids for some ? she aint guaranteed to be with so sad
  • kat2180
    kat2180 Members Posts: 12,056 ✭✭✭
    edited September 2011
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    @Jada - That's a trifling ass ? , and there are plenty of mothers that couldn't even fathom doing that. I've never been away from my daughter for more than a weekend in four years.
  • dwade206
    dwade206 Members Posts: 11,558 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Yummy.Lix wrote: »
    I don't even do that now without children.

    That's pretty impressive. So let me guess, even without children, you wouldn't leave them. What are they, imaginary? Pretend children? Magical children?


    ...I swear this chick says the dumbest ?
  • Conscious__Nkechi
    Conscious__Nkechi Members Posts: 6,110 ✭✭✭
    edited September 2011
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    JadaRoss wrote: »
    alot of women lie and say they wont but in reality they will

    you really dont even gotta have alot of dough for a woman to be that trifling

    my homie sister dropped off her 3 kids over their mama house leaving the kids there weeks at a time and then one day she called her moms saying she should get custody of the kids cuz she's tired and wants to start over and she's in love with this guy she met at this hole in the wall club

    then she said something that shocked me,that her new beau doesnt have kids and dont want any so it's best for the kids to finish school across town

    im like what a lousy ass mother foreal

    she abandoned her kids for some ? she aint guaranteed to be with so sad

    Years back a mother of two drowned her kids in their car in a lake because the boyfriend didn't want kids.
    I'm practically with my child 24/7 (aside from when he is at school) and haven't been away from him for more than a few days since he was born and I am pretty sure I am not the only one. There is good and bad (parenting) anywhere you go, this female just happened to be one of those unfit mothers who shouldn't have ever reproduced.
  • Idi Amin Dada
    Idi Amin Dada Members Posts: 3,192 ✭✭
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    kat2180 wrote: »
    Women like that shouldn't have children.

    But Kat, didn't you and your daughter move in with a man you've known for 5 months? Is that really safe for her?


    Lemme come cape, you've known me for 4+ years.
  • Yummy.Lix
    Yummy.Lix Members Posts: 1,398
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    dwade206 wrote: »
    That's pretty impressive. So let me guess, even without children, you wouldn't leave them. What are they, imaginary? Pretend children? Magical children?


    ...I swear this chick says the dumbest ?


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    You must be confused.
    So let me break it down to you so that you can understand.

    I DO NOT chase men,PERIOD,that's what I meant.
    Move along now.
  • kat2180
    kat2180 Members Posts: 12,056 ✭✭✭
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    But Kat, didn't you and your daughter move in with a man you've known for 5 months? Is that really safe for her?


    Lemme come cape, you've known me for 4+ years.

    We had been together longer than that..and they have a great relationship. If I ever doubted her safety for a second he would be gone.