Ladies: If your man denied your child at first but, eventually came back....

Rey Negro
Rey Negro Members Posts: 2,774 ✭✭✭
edited October 2011 in The Powder Room
Would you forgive him?????

Let's say yall was kids (18-21). You popped up pregnant. He couldn't handle the situation and bounced. At year or two later he realizes he was wrong and wants to be with you and be a father to little Apollonia. Would you forgive him?????

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  • yanniiiee
    yanniiiee Members Posts: 465
    edited October 2011
    I wouldn't deny him the right to be in the childs life, can't say I'd take him back though..
  • Rey Negro
    Rey Negro Members Posts: 2,774 ✭✭✭
    edited October 2011
    ? moved my thread....

    the new mod in G&S is WOAT....
  • taeboo
    taeboo Members Posts: 4,669 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited October 2011
    I would let him be in my child's life, but I wouldn't take him back...
  • bignorm73
    bignorm73 Banned Users Posts: 5,031 ✭✭✭
    edited October 2011
    The problem is, in this situation, is despite some contrary behavior in the past, some women want a clean slate.

    Sorry ? , your past behavior is taken into account.

    If its not wifey, every guys first instinct is to deny.

    I denied mine, until i saw her. Since she has been born,
    there has not been a day we have not been together tho.
  • kat2180
    kat2180 Members Posts: 12,056 ✭✭✭
    edited October 2011
    Who is that in the avi kai?

    I would give hin a chance to step up..you can't let personal feelings to get in the way of what's best for your child.
  • Iheart~Cali
    Iheart~Cali Members Posts: 5,991 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited October 2011
    Lol @ Apollonia. Ummm it's hard to say. It's not a black & white scenario. But I tend to be a forgiving person. I also believe people can and do change and mature. so the answer is I couldn't say.
  • atribecalledgabi
    atribecalledgabi Members, Moderators Posts: 14,063 Regulator
    edited October 2011
    if we weren't serious when i got knocked up (which wouldn't happen), then his questioning would be justified. i would assume a dude would get a paternity test from jump anyway tho.....better that & being sure than walking out on his kid & missing the first years of his/her life on an unfounded assumption.

    i can't speak on what would happen relationship-wise tho. i just don't know.