Why do "Independent" women be the first one's to jump the broom?

There's a big difference between a self sufficient woman who holds her own and takes care of things and a self proclaimed "Independent woman" who claims she doesn't need the company of a man to bring any form happiness or fulfilment to her life.

These are the ones who have most likely been done wrong and remain in a bitter place. They're only hurting themselves by hindering their growth, a woman who is in tune with herself understands a mans place in a woman's life and remains open.

The pride of these so called "independent women" won't allow them to surrender to what a good man can bring to the table of a woman who all the while can remain goal oriented and is capable of sustaining herself, wants and appreciates his role.

These women will remain stagnant in a place which essentially will keep them from having love until they get over themselves which is where your question comes in. Love comes in and knocks them down, strips them of that pride and they become vulnerable to the mental, emotional, spiritual and physical element of union between man and woman. To really value and let a brother in, one must destroy the ego and remain open, not everyone is capable of this.

I myself am a very head strong woman who has been taking care of herself for at least a decade. Never have I relied on a man to take care of my responsibilities. With that said, a truly strong woman can be that powerful force all the while allowing a man to be a man in the relationship. Allowing him to lead in areas without questioning and nagging him.

One must surrender and submit. This does not mean one must become docile, compromise their beliefs and lose a piece of themselves, this simply means they understand the nature of balance between sexes and what love really is. To let go, let in and allow a good man to be just that.