QUESTION ABOUT SEX AND DISRESPECTFULNESS
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MzGrahamBitches wrote: »HAF BAYKED wrote: »Semantics.
The "? Madonna" complex does exist though.
To not want to do everything you desire with the one person you're supposed to do said things with seems odd....yet these same people have no problem with cheating to get those things from a random j/o.
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i get this but i cant help it......i really dont wanna skeet on my main's face lol.....cant really explain it.... like after u really just ? a chick out...like leave her in a puddle of shame...u really dont wanna go eat breakfast with her or talk about getting new curtains lol....some of us like to do all that ? to hoes b/c then we dont gotta look at that ? ....we got all our demons out and now its good ol wholesome, family mode....
some of ya'll gone trip for this but ? it....at least im admitting i see whats going on and trying to get out of it
Do you have it out your system though? Or does that just mean you're wanting someone else to play that role while you keep wifey in her role?
This is why this ? trips me out.
it means nothing for the most part....i dont feel like im holding back or missing out on anything by not glazing my girl lol......thats just some extra ? that would indeed give me a thrill, but its not needed...HAF BAYKED wrote: »Semantics.
The "? Madonna" complex does exist though.
To not want to do everything you desire with the one person you're supposed to do said things with seems odd....yet these same people have no problem with cheating to get those things from a random j/o.
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i get this but i cant help it......i really dont wanna skeet on my main's face lol.....cant really explain it.... like after u really just ? a chick out...like leave her in a puddle of shame...u really dont wanna go eat breakfast with her or talk about getting new curtains lol....some of us like to do all that ? to hoes b/c then we dont gotta look at that ? ....we got all our demons out and now its good ol wholesome, family mode....
some of ya'll gone trip for this but ? it....at least im admitting i see whats going on and trying to get out of it
If that's how you look at it then that's your understanding, thats your perception of sex and women who indulge in it freely with their s/o. I understand where it stems from, I get it. It's a more traditional, old school view.
The mind is what makes it perverse. Though it shouldn't, your spouse is the one person you should be exploring and going all out with, that's the thing about relationships.
All in all, preference is preference, I just find it silly for anyone's perception of a persons character and personality as a whole to change just because they get "freaky" with the one they are committed to. Your opinion could also change with sexual maturity and growth. Sexual compatibility is important, just be with someone who is on your level.
thats true but this particular "act" isnt included in that....for me anyway.....im not saying i wanna eat my j/o's ass in traffic.....thats the kind of "exploring" and "going all out" u do with your s/o lol.....this is just some porno ? that we like to see but it serves no purpose for either party....
and it wouldnt change my perception or view of her if she let me do that....its just not something i associate with the one i kick it with like that...
in all honesty i've never even done it.....one broad asked for it but i was already "spent" and it was a big fail smh....
i agree with the part about sexual compatibility and the person being on your level.....very important....maybe if i got with somebody and we were kinda doin ? like that from jump, i would feel different....again, this is not about exploring or turning over new leaves lol -
@HAF BAKED
Understood. It's just your preference, one would think most brothers prefer it inside of their woman anyways.
As long as you're not looking down on your lady for enabling you to do something shed only do with you, that kind of mentality within sex is rather juvenile and takes away from a couples relationship. -
? ain't disrespectful. Like someone said, you swallow but won't take love juice on ya face? That's ass backwards.
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I see Religion and the media
Still holds people hands how to have sex.
A horrible way to live, I tell ya -
I'm dating a chick and I've busted everywhere you can possibly bust. I wish she would be like 'Na Na Na, that's disrespectful. I'll just swallow instead.'
I'd be like 'Say that again and listen to how stupid it sounds.' -
Yah I thought like that w my first chicHAF BAYKED wrote: »Semantics.
The "? Madonna" complex does exist though.
To not want to do everything you desire with the one person you're supposed to do said things with seems odd....yet these same people have no problem with cheating to get those things from a random j/o.
#backwards
i get this but i cant help it......i really dont wanna skeet on my main's face lol.....cant really explain it.... like after u really just ? a chick out...like leave her in a puddle of shame...u really dont wanna go eat breakfast with her or talk about getting new curtains lol....some of us like to do all that ? to hoes b/c then we dont gotta look at that ? ....we got all our demons out and now its good ol wholesome, family mode....
some of ya'll gone trip for this but ? it....at least im admitting i see whats going on and trying to get out of it
Till I found out a police ? was slutting "my little angel" out
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^^^^^^^AW GOT DAMN!!!!!!!!!!!!!
im goin home early on that one bruh...
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mryounggun wrote: »? ain't disrespectful. Like someone said, you swallow but won't take love juice on ya face? That's ass backwards.
I think some chicks just don't like being in that vulnerable of a spot.
Its already a submissive act and then you end up with egg on your face.
There has to be a certain vibe for it to be a go..definitely not a regular occurrence in a relationship.
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MzGrahamBitches wrote: »mryounggun wrote: »? ain't disrespectful. Like someone said, you swallow but won't take love juice on ya face? That's ass backwards.
I think some chicks just don't like being in that vulnerable of a spot.
Its already a submissive act and then you end up with egg on your face.
There has to be a certain vibe for it to be a go..definitely not a regular occurrence in a relationship.
Those wild nights...
Understandable. But if a woman can't be vulnerable to her man or husband, that's prolly an issue.
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mryounggun wrote: »MzGrahamBitches wrote: »mryounggun wrote: »? ain't disrespectful. Like someone said, you swallow but won't take love juice on ya face? That's ass backwards.
I think some chicks just don't like being in that vulnerable of a spot.
Its already a submissive act and then you end up with egg on your face.
There has to be a certain vibe for it to be a go..definitely not a regular occurrence in a relationship.
Those wild nights...
Understandable. But if a woman can't be vulnerable to her man or husband, that's prolly an issue.
Generally speaking, not specific to this topic, this is important.
One must submit and surrender.
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mryounggun wrote: »MzGrahamBitches wrote: »mryounggun wrote: »? ain't disrespectful. Like someone said, you swallow but won't take love juice on ya face? That's ass backwards.
I think some chicks just don't like being in that vulnerable of a spot.
Its already a submissive act and then you end up with egg on your face.
There has to be a certain vibe for it to be a go..definitely not a regular occurrence in a relationship.
Those wild nights...
Understandable. But if a woman can't be vulnerable to her man or husband, that's prolly an issue.
One must submit and surrender.
Yes.......
Surrender to the D..........
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Black ? just be bullshittin when it come to getting it in they hair, the rest wash n go.
As far as yo main or whatever, stuff happens depending on the whole vibe of the act on that day at that time.
Some rare breed broads be on that dumb funny ? tho. I know a chic that loves to give head but don't wanna get on her knees. Talking bout that's only for ? , ok. Like u gotta lay back while she lay on her stomach propped up on her elbows or that lean over the side ? . -
mryounggun wrote: »MzGrahamBitches wrote: »mryounggun wrote: »? ain't disrespectful. Like someone said, you swallow but won't take love juice on ya face? That's ass backwards.
I think some chicks just don't like being in that vulnerable of a spot.
Its already a submissive act and then you end up with egg on your face.
There has to be a certain vibe for it to be a go..definitely not a regular occurrence in a relationship.
Those wild nights...
Understandable. But if a woman can't be vulnerable to her man or husband, that's prolly an issue.
Generally speaking, not specific to this topic, this is important.
One must submit and surrender.
lol..freeeeak! ; ) -
Lol nahhh it's not. In fact, she will beg for me to do so...? GOAT
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mryounggun wrote: »MzGrahamBitches wrote: »mryounggun wrote: »? ain't disrespectful. Like someone said, you swallow but won't take love juice on ya face? That's ass backwards.
I think some chicks just don't like being in that vulnerable of a spot.
Its already a submissive act and then you end up with egg on your face.
There has to be a certain vibe for it to be a go..definitely not a regular occurrence in a relationship.
Those wild nights...
Understandable. But if a woman can't be vulnerable to her man or husband, that's prolly an issue.
True that..the bedroom is one place I don't mind surrendering.. -
I'm paying attention to empress and kat's post. They know what's good
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I've come in a few faces but it was by request & they were some ? . I didn't really enjoy it b/c I had to stand up while they kneeled and then beat off. If I'm hitting raw I'm not pulling out, if I pull out, until I ? & it just goes where it goes.
Only times I enjoyed it was w/ this petite white chick I was ? w/. She was about 5'2 110 soak & wet & she had a fetish for being dominated by tall athletic black guys. I'd take in her ass in the shower and go ham on her throat until I was satisfied...but I was literally disgusted by the ? after I was done -
how is it disrespectful? that's your spouse. how would them doing something sexual with you make it disrespectful?
some people seem to think the act in itself is what's nasty/disrespectful, but that's not true. the situation and circumstances make something disrespectful. having sex with someone that doesn't respect you would make it disrespectful, not your husband who's vowed to love and honour you doing it
what's next, ? is disrespectful, foh
And this is true. Kai stay on point.
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Almost Every chick I ? got a ? ...I see it like marking my territiory..a chick that let's you skeet in her face is less likely to disrespect during non-sex hours..how she gon call you out your name knowing you bussed up her nostril? It won't happen..the small few I wasn't able to splash were sum disrespectful high falutin hoes that still aint on ? ..real ? ? with pearl necklaces
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I don't think it's disrespectful
But I buss on her ? or azz, these chics be tripping about their hair so if I'm getting head they can just swallow it
Last time I tried to bust on this girl ? that ? still got in her hair b. She was like "Why does it go so far?!?" Hahaha. -
any where but my hair
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MzGrahamBitches wrote: »mryounggun wrote: »MzGrahamBitches wrote: »mryounggun wrote: »? ain't disrespectful. Like someone said, you swallow but won't take love juice on ya face? That's ass backwards.
I think some chicks just don't like being in that vulnerable of a spot.
Its already a submissive act and then you end up with egg on your face.
There has to be a certain vibe for it to be a go..definitely not a regular occurrence in a relationship.
Those wild nights...
Understandable. But if a woman can't be vulnerable to her man or husband, that's prolly an issue.
True that..the bedroom is one place I don't mind surrendering..
Katherine...Can I ? On You A Little Bit?
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leftcoastkev wrote: »Black ? just be bullshittin when it come to getting it in they hair, the rest wash n go.
As far as yo main or whatever, stuff happens depending on the whole vibe of the act on that day at that time.
Some rare breed broads be on that dumb funny ? tho. I know a chic that loves to give head but don't wanna get on her knees. Talking bout that's only for ? , ok. Like u gotta lay back while she lay on her stomach propped up on her elbows or that lean over the side ? .
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A lot of women have issues. Like being molested and ? . Some are very religious and using it to cover up something. Then you have the mediocre ones that will go but so far and last you have freaks some can be ? with no limitations. I mean there's all kinds of women. Pick your poison!
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