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I call ? . Women need to start owning up to their ? a little bit more. You want the man to be father like in his handling of you but when he takes that route, yall got a million objections to it. But that's just how it is...
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I didnt read but in fairness. Most of you ? REALLY aint ? . So Im sure its at least 35% truth in that wall of Niggress hate.
That said most human beings in general arent worth a ? so its not necessarily race centric. The only real problem is people dont realize the person they attract says a lot about them. Easier to blame others than look internally.
If your Girlfriends are all attractive but stupid it says you're shallow.
If your boyfriends keep beating you it says you need to learn to ? or keep your hands to yourself.
They things you go through in your relationships say a lot about YOU more than they say about the other person. And until everybody white, black or otherwise can admit that they will continue on that same bitter road. Not to say that everything is YOUR fault. But your reaction to everything because your responsibility.
I think the fact that a good number of people still don't really socialize outside their direct race/ethnic group for the most part still contributes to many of the "grass is greener on the other side" or "I bet *whatever race i'm not of men/women don't do this" thought processes by people. I say it often that one of the main reason that black men seem to go so hard on black women and not women of any other race/ethnicity is because the majority still only deal with black woman so when they complain about women as a whole, because 98.9% of their experience with women are with black women that's who they're directing it at. If they had more experiences with different women they'd see the complaints are pretty much the same across the board. -
I didnt read but in fairness. Most of you ? REALLY aint ? . So Im sure its at least 35% truth in that wall of Niggress hate.
That said most human beings in general arent worth a ? so its not necessarily race centric. The only real problem is people dont realize the person they attract says a lot about them. Easier to blame others than look internally.
If your Girlfriends are all attractive but stupid it says you're shallow.
If your boyfriends keep beating you it says you need to learn to ? or keep your hands to yourself.
They things you go through in your relationships say a lot about YOU more than they say about the other person. And until everybody white, black or otherwise can admit that they will continue on that same bitter road. Not to say that everything is YOUR fault. But your reaction to everything because your responsibility.
I think the fact that a good number of people still don't really socialize outside their direct race/ethnic group for the most part still contributes to many of the "grass is greener on the other side" or "I bet *whatever race i'm not of men/women don't do this" thought processes by people. I say it often that one of the main reason that black men seem to go so hard on black women and not women of any other race/ethnicity is because the majority still only deal with black woman so when they complain about women as a whole, because 98.9% of their experience with women are with black women that's who they're directing it at. If they had more experiences with different women they'd see the complaints are pretty much the same across the board.
But there are real differences between black and non-black women. To mention just one, non-black women won't turn down a brother anywhere near as much for not sounding stereotypically black. Don't try to act like there aren't some cultural differences between blacks and whites.
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Undefeatable wrote: »desertrain10 wrote: »Black women have it incredibly rough in this world, I will agree that a lot of Black men don't recognize that or do anything to help them. Black men got it hard but Black women have it twice as hard being double minorities.
yes, yes
when it comes sexism black men ( not all but more than a few) are either silent, in denial and/or quick to invoke their patriarchal privilege
take for example, in regards to issues that effect blk women in particular like single motherhood, domestic violence, and poverty they rather question a woman's moral character, emotional/mental state, intelligence, etc instead of addressing the challenges sexism as well as racism pose for these women
and no its not just black men, its all men. the opportunity to degrade/objectify women never fails to bring them together
Sexism is not as bad for black women as racism is bad for black men. Not even close. It is more acceptable to Non-Black America to be black if you're a woman than if a man. Far more.
lol this is not a contest or am i trolling, bruh. just trying to have an honest discussion
and at the end of the day black women have to deal with sexism AND racism in a country where not only more than half of americans living in poverty are women but a growing number of politicians are arguing that a woman should not have control of her own ? ....
smh. you will never know what it's like to feel the pressure of going through life attempting to push beyond boundaries that society has placed on me because not only because i am blk but i am also a woman. so please don't act like you do.
yes, sexism has always existed in the larger U.S. culture, which was and is a white, male dominated culture so ? the author of the article/letter whatever it is in the o/p. but lets not act like blk men haven't been complicit it, unwittingly or not.
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desertrain10 wrote: »Undefeatable wrote: »desertrain10 wrote: »Black women have it incredibly rough in this world, I will agree that a lot of Black men don't recognize that or do anything to help them. Black men got it hard but Black women have it twice as hard being double minorities.
yes, yes
when it comes sexism black men ( not all but more than a few) are either silent, in denial and/or quick to invoke their patriarchal privilege
take for example, in regards to issues that effect blk women in particular like single motherhood, domestic violence, and poverty they rather question a woman's moral character, emotional/mental state, intelligence, etc instead of addressing the challenges sexism as well as racism pose for these women
and no its not just black men, its all men. the opportunity to degrade/objectify women never fails to bring them together
Sexism is not as bad for black women as racism is bad for black men. Not even close. It is more acceptable to Non-Black America to be black if you're a woman than if a man. Far more.
lol this is not a contest or am i trolling, bruh. just trying to have an honest discussion
and at the end of the day black women have to deal with sexism AND racism in a country where not only more than half of americans living in poverty are women but a growing number of politicians are arguing that a woman should not have control of her own ? ....
smh. you will never know what it's like to feel the pressure of going through life attempting to push beyond boundaries that society has placed on me because not only because i am blk but i am also a woman. so please don't act like you do.
yes, sexism has always existed in the larger U.S. culture, which was and is a white, male dominated culture so ? the author of the article/letter whatever it is in the o/p. but lets not act like blk men haven't been complicit it, unwittingly or not.
Nothing you said even challenges what I said, which is that the racism black men face is worse than the sexism and racism black women face put together. -
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Skyler White wrote: »I cant do white men. The majority that are into black women date us because of some ? up stereotype or fetish...not because of genuine love for our beauty or culture.
me too @ the bolded, but not for the same reason as you, for me, pink ? looks terrifying, like it's see through or some ? , very off putting just from what i've seen in porn, i can only imagine how much scarier they look irl lol
Will Munny is going to be tight at you. lol -
Undefeatable wrote: »desertrain10 wrote: »Undefeatable wrote: »desertrain10 wrote: »Black women have it incredibly rough in this world, I will agree that a lot of Black men don't recognize that or do anything to help them. Black men got it hard but Black women have it twice as hard being double minorities.
yes, yes
when it comes sexism black men ( not all but more than a few) are either silent, in denial and/or quick to invoke their patriarchal privilege
take for example, in regards to issues that effect blk women in particular like single motherhood, domestic violence, and poverty they rather question a woman's moral character, emotional/mental state, intelligence, etc instead of addressing the challenges sexism as well as racism pose for these women
and no its not just black men, its all men. the opportunity to degrade/objectify women never fails to bring them together
Sexism is not as bad for black women as racism is bad for black men. Not even close. It is more acceptable to Non-Black America to be black if you're a woman than if a man. Far more.
lol this is not a contest or am i trolling, bruh. just trying to have an honest discussion
and at the end of the day black women have to deal with sexism AND racism in a country where not only more than half of americans living in poverty are women but a growing number of politicians are arguing that a woman should not have control of her own ? ....
smh. you will never know what it's like to feel the pressure of going through life attempting to push beyond boundaries that society has placed on me because not only because i am blk but i am also a woman. so please don't act like you do.
yes, sexism has always existed in the larger U.S. culture, which was and is a white, male dominated culture so ? the author of the article/letter whatever it is in the o/p. but lets not act like blk men haven't been complicit it, unwittingly or not.
Nothing you said even challenges what I said, which is that the racism black men face is worse than the sexism and racism black women face put together.
again this is not a contest
lol obviously my post are going over your head so let's just agree to disagree -
This site proves sexism and misgony is strong in black men. And thry wonder why misandry is growing in black women.
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Shots fired at Dro's wife.Didn't read but I'm sure people are donning their coonskin caps with no ? given...
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desertrain10 wrote: »Undefeatable wrote: »desertrain10 wrote: »Black women have it incredibly rough in this world, I will agree that a lot of Black men don't recognize that or do anything to help them. Black men got it hard but Black women have it twice as hard being double minorities.
yes, yes
when it comes sexism black men ( not all but more than a few) are either silent, in denial and/or quick to invoke their patriarchal privilege
take for example, in regards to issues that effect blk women in particular like single motherhood, domestic violence, and poverty they rather question a woman's moral character, emotional/mental state, intelligence, etc instead of addressing the challenges sexism as well as racism pose for these women
and no its not just black men, its all men. the opportunity to degrade/objectify women never fails to bring them together
Sexism is not as bad for black women as racism is bad for black men. Not even close. It is more acceptable to Non-Black America to be black if you're a woman than if a man. Far more.
lol this is not a contest or am i trolling, bruh. just trying to have an honest discussion
and at the end of the day black women have to deal with sexism AND racism in a country where not only more than half of americans living in poverty are women but a growing number of politicians are arguing that a woman should not have control of her own ? ....
smh. you will never know what it's like to feel the pressure of going through life attempting to push beyond boundaries that society has placed on me because not only because i am blk but i am also a woman. so please don't act like you do.
yes, sexism has always existed in the larger U.S. culture, which was and is a white, male dominated culture so ? the author of the article/letter whatever it is in the o/p. but lets not act like blk men haven't been complicit it, unwittingly or not.
These ? ain't hearing you, tho. It's unfortunate, but it's the way it is. I gave up awhile ago.
unfortunate indeed
hopefully i've reached one person though lol... -
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desertrain10 wrote: »Undefeatable wrote: »desertrain10 wrote: »Black women have it incredibly rough in this world, I will agree that a lot of Black men don't recognize that or do anything to help them. Black men got it hard but Black women have it twice as hard being double minorities.
yes, yes
when it comes sexism black men ( not all but more than a few) are either silent, in denial and/or quick to invoke their patriarchal privilege
take for example, in regards to issues that effect blk women in particular like single motherhood, domestic violence, and poverty they rather question a woman's moral character, emotional/mental state, intelligence, etc instead of addressing the challenges sexism as well as racism pose for these women
and no its not just black men, its all men. the opportunity to degrade/objectify women never fails to bring them together
Sexism is not as bad for black women as racism is bad for black men. Not even close. It is more acceptable to Non-Black America to be black if you're a woman than if a man. Far more.
lol this is not a contest or am i trolling, bruh. just trying to have an honest discussion
and at the end of the day black women have to deal with sexism AND racism in a country where not only more than half of americans living in poverty are women but a growing number of politicians are arguing that a woman should not have control of her own ? ....
smh. you will never know what it's like to feel the pressure of going through life attempting to push beyond boundaries that society has placed on me because not only because i am blk but i am also a woman. so please don't act like you do.
yes, sexism has always existed in the larger U.S. culture, which was and is a white, male dominated culture so ? the author of the article/letter whatever it is in the o/p. but lets not act like blk men haven't been complicit it, unwittingly or not.
I think it's interesting that so many black women deem themselves smart enough to figure out what the problem is facing our people, yet they normally fail at being able to pinpoint where that problem actually arose from. Do your research and try and retain what you learn, how about trying that out? Throughout American history, any time that blacks as a people came together and gathered into an UNCONTROLLABLE economic force, we were purposefully and almost immediately torn down by outside forces. Black prosperity during the Reconstruction era was so great that labor unions and jim crow laws were created in opposition to our successes. Yes, these were BLACK MEN showing their productive strength and the country as a whole felt very threatened.
In America today black women have more rights than the straight black men. ? black men have more rights than the straight black man. ? have coopted the term Civil Rights completely. Under the guise of feminism, political interests have alienated black men from black women on a large scale. These days most black woman will defend feminist views much quicker than she will defend a black man. Black women were told that they didn't need a man to raise a child, and many ignorantly believed this outright lie, so the single mother household came into existence as a common American archetype.
You say half of all american women live in poverty? Boo ? hoo, 1/3 of all black men will end up in ? JAIL at some point in their lives. You know what type of black man is most likely to go to jail? A black man raised in a single mother household. 70% of all delinquents were raised in single mother homes. It seems to me that even with all of the facts out in the open, people still want to find a way to blame the black man for almost ALL problems that black women, as well as the rest of america face.
A woman with poor decision-making skills allows herself to be knocked up by someone who is not gonna stay around to raise their child. The child grows up in a house where all they hear is negative things about black men. If they child is a boy, he is placed in a public school system that calls him all kinds of remedial and ? and drugs him down with ritalin and pushes him out of the education system and into the prison industrial complex usually before 11th grade. Now bankers are making money simply off of a person being in a cage. Not only that, on the other side of the coin you have a mass push towards the emasculation of the black male in the media. Young black men have no role models to look up to besides homothug rappers and drug dealers.
There has been a very large-scale orchestrated effort to make the modern black man completely forget his place in human history. Knowledge of the culture of one's people is a large part of healthy self-esteem development. Lemme stop before I really get worked up -
And another sad truth is that no matter how hard black women try and distance themselves from black men, most non black men simply do not and are not gonna treat black women as their equals. You need 2 black people to create another black person. The destruction of either the black man or the black women means the destruction of the black race. How does one destroy a people without having to resort to direct genocide? Alienate the man and the woman of that race from eachother and promote emasculating homosexuality as the overall cool/trendy lifestyle and they'll destroy themselves/breed out. Some of you need to wake the ? up *Future voice* "For real"
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What rights do black women and ? black men have that hetero black men don't??
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Black men and women just need to accept that we both got our flaws, neither is worse than the other. This bashing of the genders aint getting us anywhere. Cuz at the end of the day, we both Black.
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What rights do black women and ? black men have that hetero black men don't??
Don't act like I'm presenting you with new information, all you have to do is look around
Family court law is 100% anti-male. This is the only tool that women need to protect their rights. It's also the most powerful tool in the west when it comes to protecting women's rights. The ? rights movement has multi-million dollar lobby machine in DC, if someone or something is too anti-? they are absolutely blacklisted across the nation and you know this. ? are one of the only groups powerful enough to go up against the first amendment
It is also well known that black men get harsher sentences for crimes than non black men. Black women get government assistance at the drop of a hat, all they need is a child/poor income/no income -
? _i_look_like wrote: »Black men and women just need to accept that we both got our flaws, neither is worse than the other. This bashing of the genders aint getting us anywhere. Cuz at the end of the day, we both Black.
Good post *slow claps* -
What rights do black women and ? black men have that hetero black men don't??
Don't act like I'm presenting you with new information, all you have to do is look around
Family court law is 100% anti-male. This is the only tool that women need to protect their rights. It's also the most powerful tool in the west when it comes to protecting women's rights. The ? rights movement has multi-million dollar lobby machine in DC, if someone or something is too anti-? they are absolutely blacklisted across the nation and you know this. ? are one of the only groups powerful enough to go up against the first amendment
You didn't answer my question. How does family court protect women's rights?? How does the ? lobby go against the first amendment?? -
didn't read a single post accountability/resposibility and the willingness to look @ the man/woman in the mirror isnt common nor encouraged/practiced... no one is victorious in the blame game.. nothing gets solved
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What rights do black women and ? black men have that hetero black men don't??
Don't act like I'm presenting you with new information, all you have to do is look around
Family court law is 100% anti-male. This is the only tool that women need to protect their rights. It's also the most powerful tool in the west when it comes to protecting women's rights. The ? rights movement has multi-million dollar lobby machine in DC, if someone or something is too anti-? they are absolutely blacklisted across the nation and you know this. ? are one of the only groups powerful enough to go up against the first amendment
You didn't answer my question. How does family court protect women's rights?? How does the ? lobby go against the first amendment??
I did answer your question, you chose not to actually understand the answer, but I can keep going. Women get child custody in like 95% regardless of the state of the woman in most cases. This usually mean child support payments. Family courts will enforce child support to the point of throwing a hard working man in jail if he falls behind in payments, thus creating a negative feedback debt cycle. How come visitation is rarely, if ever, enforced? How come most police domestic violence protocol calls for the man to be immediately removed from the house regardless of what actually transpired? How come a man can still be forced to pay alimony to a woman who is cohabitating with someone else? Again, I can keep going
? have cultivated a very specific image in current american culture. Most people who publicly speak out against ? are ostracized and many of their money-making opportunities are negatively affected. Imagine if black men had a political machine with this power -
What rights do black women and ? black men have that hetero black men don't??
Don't act like I'm presenting you with new information, all you have to do is look around
Family court law is 100% anti-male. This is the only tool that women need to protect their rights. It's also the most powerful tool in the west when it comes to protecting women's rights. The ? rights movement has multi-million dollar lobby machine in DC, if someone or something is too anti-? they are absolutely blacklisted across the nation and you know this. ? are one of the only groups powerful enough to go up against the first amendment
You didn't answer my question. How does family court protect women's rights?? How does the ? lobby go against the first amendment??
I did answer your question, you chose not to actually understand the answer, but I can keep going. Women get child custody in like 95% regardless of the state of the woman in most cases. This usually mean child support payments. Family courts will enforce child support to the point of throwing a hard working man in jail if he falls behind in payments, thus creating a negative feedback debt cycle. How come visitation is rarely, if ever, enforced? How come most police domestic violence protocol calls for the man to be immediately removed from the house regardless of what actually transpired? How come a man can still be forced to pay alimony to a woman who is cohabitating with someone else? Again, I can keep going
? have cultivated a very specific image in current american culture. Most people who publicly speak out against ? are ostracized and many of their money-making opportunities are negatively affected. Imagine if black men had a political machine with this power
None of the things about family court have anything to with rights, is family court unfair...very much so. It doesn't impede on any rights tho. A person can't publically speak out against minorities either. Let a white person coming out and say negetive about blacks and the same thing happens.
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What rights do black women and ? black men have that hetero black men don't??
Don't act like I'm presenting you with new information, all you have to do is look around
Family court law is 100% anti-male. This is the only tool that women need to protect their rights. It's also the most powerful tool in the west when it comes to protecting women's rights. The ? rights movement has multi-million dollar lobby machine in DC, if someone or something is too anti-? they are absolutely blacklisted across the nation and you know this. ? are one of the only groups powerful enough to go up against the first amendment
You didn't answer my question. How does family court protect women's rights?? How does the ? lobby go against the first amendment??
I did answer your question, you chose not to actually understand the answer, but I can keep going. Women get child custody in like 95% regardless of the state of the woman in most cases. This usually mean child support payments. Family courts will enforce child support to the point of throwing a hard working man in jail if he falls behind in payments, thus creating a negative feedback debt cycle. How come visitation is rarely, if ever, enforced? How come most police domestic violence protocol calls for the man to be immediately removed from the house regardless of what actually transpired? How come a man can still be forced to pay alimony to a woman who is cohabitating with someone else? Again, I can keep going
? have cultivated a very specific image in current american culture. Most people who publicly speak out against ? are ostracized and many of their money-making opportunities are negatively affected. Imagine if black men had a political machine with this power
None of the things about family court have anything to with rights, is family court unfair...very much so. It doesn't impede on any rights tho. A person can't publically speak out against minorities either. Let a white person coming out and say negetive about blacks and the same thing happens.
I really don't like to wack posts but this was absolutely a wack post. When you feel like you want to have an adult discussion about the issues that I have laid out for you to clearly see, then let me know
Oh and I guess you're right because even that Imus dude got fired. Of course, he did get another almost identical job like the following week at a different radio station so I'm not sure of how much of a lesson he learned. -
The core problem with black men and women relations is that Black men grow up with little to no incentive to get married and have a stable family unit.
Marriage is like it or not, an excellent form of preserving and passing on wealth, social skills, and education to the next generation. Given how high the rate at which many of us come from lower income broken or separated homes, we never bare witness to how powerful it is, to how much of a difference it makes. So we don't grow up with the importance of being married being instilled within us.
Some may say "well if social status determines rate of marriage, explain why other minority groups have higher rates of marriage" easy answer: The more recent a person's family is to America or really the less familiar someone is with America, the higher chance they will have come from a background of married parents. Coming to America isn't cheap and is scary as ? ; immigrants are often time more likely to be married because of the need for companionship in navigating the new world of American life. This is different from American Blacks given that the majority of us are at least 6 generations deep in America, it isn't a foreign land to our families and hasn't been for a very long time.
Couple that with the ouroboros effect: we as black men grow up with no incentive to get married as we came from single parent homes, and we won't get married, but will have kids. And these kids will grow up in a broken home, perpetuating the cycle. The scariest issue is that its gone on for so long, both men and women have just ? accepted it as the the norm.
