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BabyBugatti
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say your BF/GF tells you that their ex from 2 years or so ago suddenly called them up and they had a phone convo.
All this out of the blue.
Then gave your bf/gf their whatsapp/BBM/twitter etc other ways of contacting them
Cos thats what im experiencing ATM.
WHY SHE CALLING?
asking to see a pic of your girl, apparently she's got a man also (why lie)
the only reason i can think of is to try and rekindle ? .
The whole time he was telling me this i was just like
how would you handle this situation?
All this out of the blue.
Then gave your bf/gf their whatsapp/BBM/twitter etc other ways of contacting them
Cos thats what im experiencing ATM.
WHY SHE CALLING?
asking to see a pic of your girl, apparently she's got a man also (why lie)
the only reason i can think of is to try and rekindle ? .
The whole time he was telling me this i was just like
how would you handle this situation?
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Hire a P.I
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They could still be friends Mo...
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He is getting that ? ......
Might as well get even with the ? and give me a shot............
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I'd be more concerned with why he's telling you.
Edit - Read the thread before quoting this ? . -
Trouble in paradise huh?
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well id rather know that not knowMzGrahamBitches wrote: »I'd be more concerned with why he's telling you.
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He trying to get a threesome popping.
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MzGrahamBitches wrote: »I'd be more concerned with why he's telling you.
Why would you be concerned with honesty? Dude was straight up with her.. that's how relationships should be, no? -
It was all good just a week ago Lol..smh
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sure, but dated for 2 years..didnt talk for 2 yearsThey could still be friends Mo...
why ? wanna suddenly start talkin again
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BabyBugatti wrote: »
well id rather know that not knowMzGrahamBitches wrote: »I'd be more concerned with why he's telling you.
Why would you need to know if it's nothing to him?
My ex has reached out, I didn't tell the bf cause it's nothing.
So what was the point of him telling you? To make you jealous? -
You share that dude
N/h -
Sounds like your spell on him is gettin' weak. Suck his ? tonight and he'll zap back into focus.
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MzGrahamBitches wrote: »BabyBugatti wrote: »
well id rather know that not knowMzGrahamBitches wrote: »I'd be more concerned with why he's telling you.
Why would you need to know if it's nothing to him?
My ex has reached out, I didn't tell the bf cause it's nothing.
So what was the point of him telling you? To make you jealous?
True but what happens if she finds out anyways and now you're questioning why your s/o never told you. I learned it's better to just tell them to avoid that misunderstanding. -
Sage Wonder wrote: »MzGrahamBitches wrote: »I'd be more concerned with why he's telling you.
Why would you be concerned with honesty? Dude was straight up with her.. that's how relationships should be, no?
I think it's a misconception that complete honesty is the best route for a relationship.
I trust him to handle that type of ? without me needing to know.
You want her? Okay I need to know.
You leaving? Okay, I need to know.
Otherwise, handle your business. I don't want to know, that just leads to doubt and jealousy. -
MzGrahamBitches wrote: »BabyBugatti wrote: »
well id rather know that not knowMzGrahamBitches wrote: »I'd be more concerned with why he's telling you.
Why would you need to know if it's nothing to him?
My ex has reached out, I didn't tell the bf cause it's nothing.
So what was the point of him telling you? To make you jealous?
Basically make her jealous, and its working, it's a manipulative tactic ,he must feel like she thinking about leaving him so he reeling her back in -
U should dead that ? now or this gonna get worse down the line
Dont wait
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well id hope its because he knows my view point on these sorts of things, id rather find out from him than in a casual convo with his bestfriend or something like that, no matter how little the situationMzGrahamBitches wrote: »BabyBugatti wrote: »
well id rather know that not knowMzGrahamBitches wrote: »I'd be more concerned with why he's telling you.
Why would you need to know if it's nothing to him?
My ex has reached out, I didn't tell the bf cause it's nothing.
So what was the point of him telling you? To make you jealous?
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yunn~sancob!m!t wrote: »MzGrahamBitches wrote: »BabyBugatti wrote: »
well id rather know that not knowMzGrahamBitches wrote: »I'd be more concerned with why he's telling you.
Why would you need to know if it's nothing to him?
My ex has reached out, I didn't tell the bf cause it's nothing.
So what was the point of him telling you? To make you jealous?
Basically make her jealous, and its working, it's a manipulative tactic ,he must feel like she thinking about leaving him so he reeling her back in
Oh he's definitely playing a game. -
MzGrahamBitches wrote: »Sage Wonder wrote: »MzGrahamBitches wrote: »I'd be more concerned with why he's telling you.
Why would you be concerned with honesty? Dude was straight up with her.. that's how relationships should be, no?
I think it's a misconception that complete honesty is the best route for a relationship.
I trust him to handle that type of ? without me needing to know.
You want her? Okay I need to know.
You leaving? Okay, I need to know.
Otherwise, handle your business. I don't want to know, that just leads to doubt and jealousy.
That level of trust is ideal, but it's naive to think that's how it will always be. You ever see the movie obsession with idra elbis and beyonce? Where dude thought he had the situation under control, ? went way left field and found it's way into his home life and his wife finds out, gets ? off that she knew nothing about it.
CYA. Cover your ass. If the trust is there like you said, then you won't worry about it after I tell you. But you will be aware. -
yunn~sancob!m!t wrote: »MzGrahamBitches wrote: »BabyBugatti wrote: »
well id rather know that not knowMzGrahamBitches wrote: »I'd be more concerned with why he's telling you.
Why would you need to know if it's nothing to him?
My ex has reached out, I didn't tell the bf cause it's nothing.
So what was the point of him telling you? To make you jealous?
Basically make her jealous, and its working, it's a manipulative tactic ,he must feel like she thinking about leaving him so he reeling her back in
im not in the least bit jealous, just cautious and tbh from the sounds of things atleast 60% of the convo was about me (the ? ) so boy. that other 40 though -
lol..that's a bit extreme don't you think?
If an obsessed white ? is trying to ? you at the Christmas party, that's need to know info. -
amenhotepiv wrote: »U should dead that ? now or this gonna get worse down the line
Dont wait
You ol' elementary i better break up with her before she break up with me ass ? . -
ex's holla back everyday B
its ur job to be secure and trust him/her to handle it properly. -
MzGrahamBitches wrote: »lol..that's a bit extreme don't you think?
If an obsessed white ? is trying to ? you at the Christmas party, that's need to know info.
Just an example I knew you would know. Come on, you're older than me Kat, you can't tell me you've never seen something similar get blown out of proportion and now you're being questioned because you kept it in the shadows.
