Why Are People So Selfish?!?! (the ? thread)
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Trillaaaaaa wrote: »I'm still trippin off ? caping for ? behavior...
Who been "caping for hoe behavior"?
If anything me a Mansa been denouncing it.
The problem ? like you have with what me and Mansa been saying is the fact that we're calling out the hoe behavior of men too.
I still haven't heard a logical answer to why it's cool for dudes to be hoes but not females....
@du du already answered tho -
BlackJerryMaguire wrote: »Trillaaaaaa wrote: »I'm still trippin off ? caping for ? behavior...
Who been "caping for hoe behavior"?
If anything me a Mansa been denouncing it.
The problem ? like you have with what me and Mansa been saying is the fact that we're calling out the hoe behavior of men too.
I still haven't heard a logical answer to why it's cool for dudes to be hoes but not females....
@du du already answered tho
When?
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MansaMusa67 wrote: »BlackJerryMaguire wrote: »Trillaaaaaa wrote: »I'm still trippin off ? caping for ? behavior...
Who been "caping for hoe behavior"?
If anything me a Mansa been denouncing it.
The problem ? like you have with what me and Mansa been saying is the fact that we're calling out the hoe behavior of men too.
I still haven't heard a logical answer to why it's cool for dudes to be hoes but not females....
@du du already answered tho
When?
when he was talking about how women find male promiscuity attractive -
Noodles McGrowcious wrote: »BlackJerryMaguire wrote: »MansaMusa67 wrote: »BlackJerryMaguire wrote: »Trillaaaaaa wrote: »I'm still trippin off ? caping for ? behavior...
Who been "caping for hoe behavior"?
If anything me a Mansa been denouncing it.
The problem ? like you have with what me and Mansa been saying is the fact that we're calling out the hoe behavior of men too.
I still haven't heard a logical answer to why it's cool for dudes to be hoes but not females....
@du du already answered tho
When?
when he was talking about how women find male promiscuity attractive
The kicker is Men do too but a lot (most) don't want everybody to know she's wild, let alone anybody else we know "experience" HER personally. I mean Porno ? , Strippers, & Craigslist gurls get wifed everyday - before, during, & after their occupation. Not all but most. It's just that sometimes or (nowadays supposedly) a lot of times things don't work out.
? will be quick to wife up a Jazmine Cashmere if she has potential and reasonable compatibility with himself. Just like ? will be quick to cop that new Jadakiss record with that openly ? MC on there as long as its "Real Hip Hop". Atleast try to like it just becuz it's Jada.
I don't know if y'all know this but people are full of ? . Not just on the internet but in real life too.
I think Kai hit this on the head. What people don't realize is that women who have self respect and may come off as prudes are never that way behind closed doors. They just aren't easy. -
Let me just say yes women want a man that other women find attractive, but most women do not want a man who is willing to dip his ? into anything that ? open her legs.
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Let me just say yes women want a man that other women find attractive, but most women do not want a man who is willing to dip his ? into anything that ? open her legs.
There is nothing wrong with the first point. But promiscuity and attractiveness do not have to go hand in hand. Its about self control. -
Naiveness oh I want the ? every girl wants but oh I hope he ain't ? ? ? logic
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Naiveness oh I want the ? every girl wants but oh I hope he ain't ? ? ? logic
it sounds like u assumethay a dude that a lot of women want automatically is smashing a lot of women...that's not always the case bruh... -
desertrain10 wrote: »blakfyahking wrote: »desertrain10 wrote: »MansaMusa67 wrote: »desertrain10 wrote: »I just have a problem with how we encourage sexual promiscuity among young boys, men ....their bodies are just as sacred as females
Same with how we associate physicality, violence with masculinity...
It dones more harm then good especially among blk young men who may over compensate
This is my point...
there is foul with both genders. This is the point I was trying to get to. Children learn these behaviors and mimic them. Then they become apart of who they are and the cycle continues. But the whole premise is that it honestly stems from selfishness...
Can anyone truley give me one benefit from promiscuous sex other than self gratification?
I don't think its selfishness necessarily unless u are out here deceiving people in order to get a nut...its deeper than that
Most people I know who are promiscuous I've come to discover are tryna fill a void or like I was saying over compensate for maybe a sense of powerlessness, hopelessness, etc
Its just now sleeping around is the cool thing to do, at least for guys... there was a time when even men were shamed
when was this?
Name a time?
Well back when Christianity first shaped america
Male, female promiscuity was shameful...at least it was publicly shamed
Even back in my grandmas day men and women who got around weren't considered marriage material
oh?
you mean back when it was morally cool to have slaves and ? native americans?
and let's not talk about those ethical slavemasters who cheated on their pure wives with house slaves haha
keep it real "papa was a rolling stone" isn't some recent ? that popped up in the last 100yrs
family men kept sidepieces since the beginning of civilization...we all know this
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blakfyahking wrote: »desertrain10 wrote: »blakfyahking wrote: »desertrain10 wrote: »MansaMusa67 wrote: »desertrain10 wrote: »I just have a problem with how we encourage sexual promiscuity among young boys, men ....their bodies are just as sacred as females
Same with how we associate physicality, violence with masculinity...
It dones more harm then good especially among blk young men who may over compensate
This is my point...
there is foul with both genders. This is the point I was trying to get to. Children learn these behaviors and mimic them. Then they become apart of who they are and the cycle continues. But the whole premise is that it honestly stems from selfishness...
Can anyone truley give me one benefit from promiscuous sex other than self gratification?
I don't think its selfishness necessarily unless u are out here deceiving people in order to get a nut...its deeper than that
Most people I know who are promiscuous I've come to discover are tryna fill a void or like I was saying over compensate for maybe a sense of powerlessness, hopelessness, etc
Its just now sleeping around is the cool thing to do, at least for guys... there was a time when even men were shamed
when was this?
Name a time?
Well back when Christianity first shaped america
Male, female promiscuity was shameful...at least it was publicly shamed
Even back in my grandmas day men and women who got around weren't considered marriage material
oh?
you mean back when it was morally cool to have slaves and ? native americans?
and let's not talk about those ethical slavemasters who cheated on their pure wives with house slaves haha
keep it real "papa was a rolling stone" isn't some recent ? that popped up in the last 100yrs
family men kept sidepieces since the beginning of civilization...we all know this
The whole argument about slavery being biblical is taken out of context. Attributing the brutality of slavery to Christianity is similar to sating all Muslims are terrorists. Biblical "slavery" wasindentured servitude.
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blakfyahking wrote: »desertrain10 wrote: »blakfyahking wrote: »desertrain10 wrote: »MansaMusa67 wrote: »desertrain10 wrote: »I just have a problem with how we encourage sexual promiscuity among young boys, men ....their bodies are just as sacred as females
Same with how we associate physicality, violence with masculinity...
It dones more harm then good especially among blk young men who may over compensate
This is my point...
there is foul with both genders. This is the point I was trying to get to. Children learn these behaviors and mimic them. Then they become apart of who they are and the cycle continues. But the whole premise is that it honestly stems from selfishness...
Can anyone truley give me one benefit from promiscuous sex other than self gratification?
I don't think its selfishness necessarily unless u are out here deceiving people in order to get a nut...its deeper than that
Most people I know who are promiscuous I've come to discover are tryna fill a void or like I was saying over compensate for maybe a sense of powerlessness, hopelessness, etc
Its just now sleeping around is the cool thing to do, at least for guys... there was a time when even men were shamed
when was this?
Name a time?
Well back when Christianity first shaped america
Male, female promiscuity was shameful...at least it was publicly shamed
Even back in my grandmas day men and women who got around weren't considered marriage material
oh?
you mean back when it was morally cool to have slaves and ? native americans?
and let's not talk about those ethical slavemasters who cheated on their pure wives with house slaves haha
keep it real "papa was a rolling stone" isn't some recent ? that popped up in the last 100yrs
family men kept sidepieces since the beginning of civilization...we all know this
Lol @ you bringing slavery into the discussion... yes the slave masters who practiced christianity were hypocrits, morally corrupt doesn't make anything I've said less true
You asked when was there a time men were shamed for being promiscuous...I gave you one
And just because adultery, promiscuity has always been around doesn't mean it was always accepted pratices, publicly embraced, encouraged like now....even amongst men
Politicians today are still expected to be ? fearing, family men...that's the ideal...anyone who deviates from this ideal is heavily scrutinized
So don't act like I just making ? up
What happens behind closed doors is a diff story, but traditionally america has been a very sexually prudent country...really things didnt start changing until the 60s -
Personally I don't care what strange men and women who are of age do with their ? ...just worried about the youth growing up in such a hyper sexualized society
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No one's caping foe hoes, just clarifying that men can be and are hoes too.
All that "Males are biologically more prone to rampant promiscuity" bullshyt is a desperate attempt to justify immoral double standards; Women want to engage in sexual activities just as much as men do (FACT), they're just encouraged not to from an early age. In today's modern society, clinging so dearly to such primitive behavior and childish denial, is evidence of nothing more than men wanting to have their cake and eat it too. -
Let me just say yes women want a man that other women find attractive, but most women do not want a man who is willing to dip his ? into anything that ? open her legs.
A rep with High quality looking girls (means you have standards) -> All the girls (a rep for ? anything)
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No one's caping foe hoes, just clarifying that men can be and are hoes too.
All that "Males are biologically more prone to rampant promiscuity" bullshyt is a desperate attempt to justify immoral double standards; Women want to engage in sexual activities just as much as men do (FACT), they're just encouraged not to from an early age. In today's modern society, clinging so dearly to such primitive behavior and childish denial, is evidence of nothing more than men wanting to have their cake and eat it too.
U feel me?
Some of us realize that tho. And now they tryna call me a simp for pointing it out lol. Not once did I excuse hoe antics from either sex. I was just saying there is a time and place for such behavior. -
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No one's caping foe hoes, just clarifying that men can be and are hoes too.
All that "Males are biologically more prone to rampant promiscuity" bullshyt is a desperate attempt to justify immoral double standards; Women want to engage in sexual activities just as much as men do (FACT), they're just encouraged not to from an early age. In today's modern society, clinging so dearly to such primitive behavior and childish denial, is evidence of nothing more than men wanting to have their cake and eat it too.
All of your posts are dripping with estrogen. Men want to invest in a stable loyal woman. The more partners a woman has the more likely she has some dude in her past that she's still bonded to that she will ? you over for at the drop of a hat. The more partners a woman has the less likely she will be loyal to you in the first place. This is how most cuckhold situations are created. As a man you might not even be supporting your own kids
No matter what you think or how you feel, it does take more effort for a man to amass sexual partners than it does for a woman. Literally for every female in existence there is a man willing to ? her. That is not at all the case for men. Most women don't wanna ? around anyway. They do it because they see men do it and they follow because they think it will give them self esteem because they're insecure about themselves. Idk why this is so hard for people to understand -
I dont think this issue should be whether women like to ? just as much as man or not....because they do....no doubt about that...
It should be that we as a society are holding dear to the promiscuous men are acceptable and promiscuous women are looks down upon. It should be that promiscuity of all forms should not be promoted as acceptable. Now, that's not to say that sexual acts are bad...but it should be done responsibly the confides of a committed relationship. -
All of your posts are dripping with estrogen. Men want to invest in a stable loyal woman. The more partners a woman has the more likely she has some dude in her past that she's still bonded to that she will ? you over for at the drop of a hat. The more partners a woman has the less likely she will be loyal to you in the first place. This is how most cuckhold situations are created. As a man you might not even be supporting your own kids
No matter what you think or how you feel, it does take more effort for a man to amass sexual partners than it does for a woman. Literally for every female in existence there is a man willing to ? her. That is not at all the case for men. Most women don't wanna ? around anyway. They do it because they see men do it and they follow because they think it will give them self esteem because they're insecure about themselves. Idk why this is so hard for people to understand
The same is true for ? with vibrant sexual histories; And since when did difficulty (or emotional despondency, ftm) pardon recklessness? No doubt this "? til I Find the Right One" mentality is very man-made, quite literally.
No matter what you think or how you feel, it's primitive, childish, and has ZERO factual support. Women have just as strong a libido as men, and they're just as curious. It's simply discouraged, harshly and relentlessly, while ours is fiercely encouraged. So even with as emotionally driven as you've claimed my position to be, men seem to be the ones caught in their feelings the most.
~ "Oh My ? , She ? Other People?! She's lived a life and had relationships that predate Me? That the ? ?! How Could This Happen?!"
I mean really, imagine meeting your equal ~ A femme who is gon look you DEAD in your face and be like, "Yeah, I've fvcked a ton of people, but now that I've found you, all that ? is behind me, detached and distant."
It's no less ridiculous when dudes try to claim the same ? , but we try to attach some sick social justification to it, so shorty has to just be okay with the ? ; Because hey, "Women can be ? , but Men can't; Because Men said so."
FOH, ? . -
MansaMusa67 wrote: »Anyone?
Name positive outcomes of promiscuous sex except self gratification?
Sex is all about gratification unless you're tryin' to make babies. -
All of your posts are dripping with estrogen. Men want to invest in a stable loyal woman. The more partners a woman has the more likely she has some dude in her past that she's still bonded to that she will ? you over for at the drop of a hat. The more partners a woman has the less likely she will be loyal to you in the first place. This is how most cuckhold situations are created. As a man you might not even be supporting your own kids
No matter what you think or how you feel, it does take more effort for a man to amass sexual partners than it does for a woman. Literally for every female in existence there is a man willing to ? her. That is not at all the case for men. Most women don't wanna ? around anyway. They do it because they see men do it and they follow because they think it will give them self esteem because they're insecure about themselves. Idk why this is so hard for people to understand
The same is true for ? with vibrant sexual histories; And since when did difficulty (or emotional despondency, ftm) pardon recklessness? No doubt this "? til I Find the Right One" mentality is very man-made, quite literally.
No matter what you think or how you feel, it's primitive, childish, and has ZERO factual support. Women have just as strong a libido as men, and they're just as curious. It's simply discouraged, harshly and relentlessly, while ours is fiercely encouraged. So even with as emotionally driven as you've claimed my position to be, men seem to be the ones caught in their feelings the most.
~ "Oh My ? , She ? Other People?! She's lived a life and had relationships that predate Me? That the ? ?! How Could This Happen?!"
I mean really, imagine meeting your equal ~ A femme who is gon look you DEAD in your face and be like, "Yeah, I've fvcked a ton of people, but now that I've found you, all that ? is behind me, detached and distant."
It's no less ridiculous when dudes try to claim the same ? , but we try to attach some sick social justification to it, so shorty has to just be okay with the ? ; Because hey, "Women can be ? , but Men can't; Because Men said so."
FOH, ? .
Dam are you a man? Your posts are straight feminine. The same is NOT true for dudes, just because you say that it is that does not mean that it is. Men are capable of loving more than one woman. Women are not capable of truly loving more than man, that's just not how girls work.
@the underlined. Maybe an overly slutty chick is YOUR equal but most definitely not mine. The fact that you would even tolerate that kind of ? from a chick that you're supposed to be wifing speaks volumes about you. I've ? ? . I've ? girls with low partner counts. A woman can have <5 sexual partners and still know how to ? .
I'm getting tired of responding to your girly ass posts -
MansaMusa67 wrote: »Anyone?
Name positive outcomes of promiscuous sex except self gratification?
Sex is all about gratification unless you're tryin' to make babies.
so personal gratification is the only positive outcome that comes from promiscuous sex, right?
But what about all the negative outcomes?
Its like public smoking....they outlawed it because it potentially can harm others in the area u are smoking. It may feel good to the person doing it, but the cons outweigh the pros. Promiscuous sex can create life, bring about stds, and be mentally and even physically harmful to the involved parties.
So with that said...it as a purely selfish act.
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