Experinces Of Growning up in White Society..

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mr.throwback
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edited June 2011 in For The Grown & Sexy
Can it be beneficial or a struggle? like going to an all white high school, haven to date nothing but white girls because of lack of diversity things along those lines..i got some experinces of my own..but i also went back to chi and seen my fam alot as well..

i know cats on her got some wild ass experinces post
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  • NastyNasty
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  • goldenja
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    you and me can relate, grew up in white community, but spent a great amount of time in the nap so im very fam oriented. didnt go out too much though.
  • @My_nameaintearl
    @My_nameaintearl Banned Users Posts: 2,609 ✭✭
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    The key to understanding "white society" is knowing that white people don't go around thinking about being white all day. Life is just life, it's not white life.
  • Jesus Jackson
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    Can it be beneficial or a struggle? like going to an all white high school, haven to date nothing but white girls because of lack of diversity things along those lines..i got some experinces of my own..but i also went back to chi and seen my fam alot as well..

    i know cats on her got some wild ass experinces post

    It can be both beneficial and a struggle. It's beneficial because it exposes you to a different culture and can make you a more well-rounded individual. The struggle comes with the fact that you're "different" and you may find it difficult to relate to an entire population who is the opposite of yourself. And also, when you're not like everybody else, you tend to get mistreated and made to feel like an outsider.
  • Jonas.dini
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    The key to understanding "white society" is knowing that white people don't go around thinking about being white all day. Life is just life, it's not white life.

    This is 100% true
  • mr.throwback
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    The key to understanding "white society" is knowing that white people don't go around thinking about being white all day. Life is just life, it's not white life.

    i said experinces my guy, not understanding i understand it well beyond..i went to an all white high school with 2 other black dudes who was younger it was fun running thru snow bunnys but the minute this mixed chick came thru lookin like mya shiit i tried to wifer down..she wasnt having it from the start but she caved when it wasnt no other brothers around.
  • goldenja
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    The key to understanding "white society" is knowing that white people don't go around thinking about being white all day. Life is just life, it's not white life.

    being a black man, it aint easy. just sayin
  • OFWGKTA
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    Can it be beneficial or a struggle? like going to an all white high school, haven to date nothing but white girls because of lack of diversity things along those lines..i got some experinces of my own..but i also went back to chi and seen my fam alot as well..

    i know cats on her got some wild ass experinces post

    White people except black people in there community/cirlce more then blacks do for whites.
  • OFWGKTA
    OFWGKTA Banned Users Posts: 1,202 ✭✭
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    goldenja wrote: »
    being a black man, it aint easy. just sayin

    Thats his point. you label yourself as a black man. Instead of just being a man.
  • mr.throwback
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    It can be both beneficial and a struggle. It's beneficial because it exposes you to a different culture and can make you a more well-rounded individual. The struggle comes with the fact that you're "different" and you may find it difficult to relate to an entire population who is the opposite of yourself. And also, when you're not like everybody else, you tend to get mistreated and made to feel like an outsider.

    Very true i felt some of that, cats had they own lil abercrombie clicks and ? ...and im wearing eynce jeans and jordans with a white tee
  • OFWGKTA
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    Very true i felt some of that, cats had they own lil abercrombie clicks and ? ...and im wearing eynce jeans and jordans with a white tee

    you can't look past the clothes?
  • goldenja
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    Very true i felt some of that, cats had they own lil abercrombie clicks and ? ...and im wearing ecko jeans and converse weapons with a white tee

    ......................
  • @My_nameaintearl
    @My_nameaintearl Banned Users Posts: 2,609 ✭✭
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    goldenja wrote: »
    being a black man, it aint easy. just sayin

    I dig. What I'm saying is that in general, "white culture" in the US doesn't imbue each white person with a sense of race awareness. The average white person doesn't think "How will what I do today reflect on white people?"

    That's just in general, though. Obviously, there are pockets of white culture that are preoccupied with race. I call these pockets "The South."
  • mr.throwback
    mr.throwback Members Posts: 34
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    goldenja wrote: »
    being a black man, it aint easy. just sayin

    hell na it aint..i got sent to the office for refusin to read huckleberry fin, it was halrious though seein how nervous white kids was saying that n word and right then and there i took a stand haha
  • mr.throwback
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    OFWGKTA wrote: »
    you can't look past the clothes?

    i look past clothes alott them dudes was ?
  • mr.throwback
    mr.throwback Members Posts: 34
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    goldenja wrote: »
    ......................

    ^^^ why twist and turn funny tho
  • OFWGKTA
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    i look past clothes alott them dudes was ?

    lol. those abercrombie boys do tend to have their nose up there ass. they love the smell of their own farts.
  • @My_nameaintearl
    @My_nameaintearl Banned Users Posts: 2,609 ✭✭
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    hell na it aint..i got sent to the office for refusin to read huckleberry fin, it was halrious though seein how nervous white kids was saying that n word and right then and there i took a stand haha

    the novel is anti-racism

    but you couldnt deal with the fact that it has the word ? in it?

    you missed the point.
  • OFWGKTA
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    the novel is anti-racism

    but you couldnt deal with the fact that it has the word ? in it?

    you missed the point.

    ? a huckleberry fin
  • tru_m.a.c
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    I think its most difficult when you come back around black folk and they try to talk down on you
  • goldenja
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    I dig. What I'm saying is that in general, "white culture" in the US doesn't imbue each white person with a sense of race awareness. The average white person doesn't think "How will what I do today reflect on white people?"

    That's just in general, though. Obviously, there are pockets of white culture that are preoccupied with race. I call these pockets "The South."

    i feel what u sayin, 4 real... well i grew up in missouri.. and i guess its considered "borderline south" i always called it the midwest though
  • goldenja
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    hell na it aint..i got sent to the office for refusin to read huckleberry fin, it was halrious though seein how nervous white kids was saying that n word and right then and there i took a stand haha

    haha i aint mad at ya
  • goldenja
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    ^^^ why twist and turn funny tho

    i was bein serious lol.. those were my middle school days
  • goldenja
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    tru_m.a.c wrote: »
    I think its most difficult when you come back around black folk and they try to talk down on you

    im happy i never delt with that ? . im blessed that i had the best of both world. u know?
  • tru_m.a.c
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    goldenja wrote: »
    im happy i never delt with that ? . im blessed that i had the best of both world. u know?

    Absolutely, having the best worlds has kept me from being an ignorant ass ? .